Why Did God Create Gays?

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God’s law is not that ambiguous. Those who choose to follow it will do so by their effort and God’s Grace. Those who choose not to will rationalize and this thread will mount into the thousands of posts.

There are two ways, O man, which will you choose???
 
In fact my 3 questions to you were:
  1. Does the presence of sperm in your body not give you an inkling of the relationship-context in which your reproductive organs are to be used? Does it not give you a moment’s pause?
  2. Had you no partner, would you consider it moral to masturbate for pleasure?
  3. Does the behaviour of animals provide any guide at all as to what is moral? Hint: no.
  1. I don’t think that the presence of sperm means that sex can only be used in one way by a man, i.e for procreation. Most sperm produced by the male body never gets used. During sex, a single ejaculation releases between 40 million and 1.2 billion sperm cells, but all of them get wasted most of the time and only occasionally for a married straight man does one of them meet with an egg to produce an offspring. I don’t believe that every sperm is sacred despite what the lyrics in the song in Monty Python’s The Meaning of Life say:
“Every sperm is sacred. Every sperm is great. If a sperm is wasted, God gets quite irate."
  1. I don’t think that masturbation is in any way immoral in itself. In fact, many doctors say that it is perfectly normal and healthy for men to masturbate. According to WebMd:
In addition to feeling good, masturbation is a good way of relieving the sexual tension that can build up over time, especially for people without partners or whose partners are not willing or available for sex. Masturbation also is a safe sexual alternative for people who wish to avoid pregnancy and the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases.
While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable, and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout life.
  1. I don’t think that there is a sharp distinction between humans and animals like some people imagine. Humans are actually just a more evolved type of animal (I believe in evolution). I also don’t think that animals are without morals or feelings although their morals and feelings might not be as complicated or advanced as they are among most humans (sometimes I think that some animals are more moral than some humans).
 
  1. I don’t think that the presence of sperm means that sex can only be used in one way by a man, i.e for procreation.
I agree that each instance of sexual intercourse need not be had with the intention of procreating (and I didn’t suggest otherwise). But you’d also be aware that you’ve not answered the question I asked. Let me put the question another way: “Does the presence of sperm in your ejaculate **suggest **to you any particular relationship-context in which the act of sexual intercourse might naturally belong?”
  1. I don’t think that masturbation is in any way immoral in itself. In fact, many doctors say that it is perfectly normal and healthy for men to masturbate.
I guess normal means it is normal to want to do it and that it is commonly done. I agree with that. I don’t know of any health benefit - I think what they are saying is that it is not “unhealthy”. Medically speaking, I suspect that is true too, if the act does not become consuming or a substitute for ordinary social interaction. But I note your view that masturbation is a moral act (contrary to the longstanding Catholic position).
  1. I don’t think that there is a sharp distinction between humans and animals like some people imagine. Humans are actually just a more evolved type of animal (I believe in evolution). I also don’t think that animals are without morals or feelings although their morals and feelings might not be as complicated or advanced as they are among most humans (sometimes I think that some animals are more moral than some humans).
This is illuminating. But does it mean that animal behaviour can tell us anything about what is moral for humans?
 
I like the "gays kissing in a restaurant discussion. While I generally support (perhaps 95% support) the decision of the bakers to not bake a cake for a gay wedding, the “gays in a restaurant” scenario is making me question my support.

How about this:
Serving food to a gay couple is not participating in their gay lifestyle. Everyone has to eat, and providing food is simply giving them sustenance. Baking a cake for their wedding is directly participating in the celebration of a gay marriage.
I have no issue serving properly behaved customers in a restaurant. Holding hands and a peck on the cheek would not breach that test in my mind. And I very much doubt that the Catholic Church would regard serving such a couple as problematic.
 
But you’d also be aware that you’ve not answered the question I asked. Let me put the question another way: “Does the presence of sperm in your ejaculate **suggest **to you any particular relationship-context in which the act of sexual intercourse might naturally belong?”
How has he not answered the question? The presence of sperm in ejaculate only shows that reproduction is one natural purpose of sex, not that it is the only one. Likewise the presence of amylase in saliva only indicates that eating is one natural use of the mouth, not that it is the only one.
This is illuminating. But does it mean that animal behaviour can tell us anything about what is moral for humans?
It means that animal behaviour can tell us something about what is natural.

Surely you are the one arguing that what is natural is some guide to what is moral, otherwise what is the relevance of perm in ejaculate?:hmmm:
 
I don’t know of any health benefit - I think what they are saying is that it is not “unhealthy”.
No, there are genuine and well proven health benefits to regular orgasms. Lower risks of prostate cancer, cystitis or diabetes, for example. Obviously if you are married, or at least in a stable long term relationship, that needn’t mean masturbation, but if not an encounter with Pamela Handerson is obviously safer than promiscuous one night stands.

Happy days, eh?👍
 
How has he not answered the question? The presence of sperm in ejaculate only shows that reproduction is one natural purpose of sex, not that it is the only one. Likewise the presence of amylase in saliva only indicates that eating is one natural use of the mouth, not that it is the only one.
He did not answer the question I asked. Neither did you.
It means that animal behaviour can tell us something about what is natural.
Surely you are the one arguing that what is natural is some guide to what is moral, otherwise what is the relevance of perm in ejaculate?
The natural purpose of sperm is probably the same in most animals, I’ll give you that! 😉
 
The first man and woman chose it.

God chose to gave them a test to test their love. It isn’t real love if the only reason they choose you is because they are given no opportunity to choose otherwise.

The first man and woman chose to disobey their Creator. They messed up the balance of the world
So if Adam and Eve didn’t choose to disobey then sin would not have entered the world? Or could it have entered by any later human who disobeyed? Since God created Adam and Eve from scratch he must have programmed then with certain personalities, intelligence, propensities etc. since they didn’t grow up with inherited genes or any human nurture. Therefore, whatever they did could not really have been a free will choice since they were essentially robots.
 
He did not answer the question I asked. Neither did you.
Then you are not making your question clear. What you wrote was:
  1. Does the presence of sperm in your body not give you an inkling of the relationship-context in which your reproductive organs are to be used? Does it not give you a moment’s pause?
This has been answered.🤷

Do you think that the presence of amylase in your saliva implies that eating is the only moral use for your mouth?:eek:
The natural purpose of sperm is probably the same in most animals, I’ll give you that! 😉
So you take what is natural as a guide to what is moral, but only when it agrees with your preconceptions?
 
I like the "gays kissing in a restaurant discussion. While I generally support (perhaps 95% support) the decision of the bakers to not bake a cake for a gay wedding, the “gays in a restaurant” scenario is making me question my support.

How about this:
Serving food to a gay couple is not participating in their gay lifestyle. Everyone has to eat, and providing food is simply giving them sustenance. Baking a cake for their wedding is directly participating in the celebration of a gay marriage.
If they are not doing anything then it won’t cause scandal and serving food to them wouldn’t be supporting it.
 
So if Adam and Eve didn’t choose to disobey then sin would not have entered the world? Or could it have entered by any later human who disobeyed? Since God created Adam and Eve from scratch he must have programmed then with certain personalities, intelligence, propensities etc. since they didn’t grow up with inherited genes or any human nurture. Therefore, whatever they did could not really have been a free will choice since they were essentially robots.
It could have entered later if humans later chose it.
But since Adam and Eve (well the first man and woman we don’t know their names) were the ones to sin, sin entered the world through them.

They directly disobeyed the one command God gave them because they lost trust in him, if he programmed them that would make no sense. That would be masochistic
They were incredibly smart, ignorance is part of the fall.
 
Yes, all these seem to be in accord with right reason.

Using the penis for urination and sexual intercourse are also in accord with right reason.

But it is the depositing of sperm I was enquiring about…

In fact my 3 questions to you were:
  1. Does the presence of sperm in your body not give you an inkling of the relationship-context in which your reproductive organs are to be used? Does it not give you a moment’s pause?
  2. Had you no partner, would you consider it moral to masturbate for pleasure?
  3. Does the behaviour of animals provide any guide at all as to what is moral? Hint: no.
So according to your logic it is the fact that the penis ejaculates which points to its function, because everytime a man orgasms he ejaculates sperm, and this points to its function. Well according to this logic, a woman’s orgasm has nothing to do with procreation, as there is no procreative function to it. In fact a womans clitoris is designed for nothing else to be aroused during sexual conduct, unlike the male penis, which is clearly and purely procreative. So based upon this logic, it seems that male homosexual activity is disordered, but female to female sexual activity is perfectly ordered, since they are both using parts that are purely superfluous to procreative activity. The clitoris seems to be there simply for the woman’s pleasure. In fact, there does not even need to be vaginal penetration to stimulate the clitoris, so it is purely and totally superfluous to procreative activity.
Male homosexuality - non procreative because the penis is primarily procreative instrument as orgasm necessitates sperm, which is for procreation. Therefore male on male is bad.

Female homosexuality - clitoris is essentially non-procreative in nature and seems designed to be purely for sexual stimulation. A woman can have an orgasm whether or not she is ovulating and does not need a penis or even penetration to have an orgasm. So female to female sex seems perfectly ordered in keeping with how the female body is designed.
Point set match. Lesbians are awesome, Gay men are gross. 😃
 
I would serve food to homosexuals in a restaurant. I would pump gas for homosexuals who drove into my gas station. I would sell flowers for a homosexual to give his mother. I would not rent my restaurant for a homosexual “wedding” reception. I would not book a hotel room for homosexuals, or unmarried people. I would not sell condoms… to anyone. I would not sell a book on sex to anyone but a validly married couple.

Here is a moral theology discussion of cooperation in evil.
 
Also, again according to your logic, female masturbation for pleasure, as long as it is purely clitoral stimulation is perfectly moral, I fail to see any arguing this.

Male masturbation is immoral according to you. That is fine is you believe that, but IMO individual male masturbation to pleasure oneself is neither moral or immoral, it is morally neutral behavior. Now I think looking at pornography for mastubatory purposes can be immoral becasue you are supporting an industry which preys upon emotional damaged and abused women and also has a tendency to dehumanize women, but using your own imagination seems to be somewhat morally ambiguous and again, I say this falls into neutral territory.
 
Also, again according to your logic, female masturbation for pleasure, as long as it is purely clitoral stimulation is perfectly moral, I fail to see any arguing this.

Male masturbation is immoral according to you. That is fine is you believe that, but IMO individual male masturbation to pleasure oneself is neither moral or immoral, it is morally neutral behavior. Now I think looking at pornography for mastubatory purposes can be immoral becasue you are supporting an industry which preys upon emotional damaged and abused women and also has a tendency to dehumanize women, but using your own imagination seems to be somewhat morally ambiguous and again, I say this falls into neutral territory.
By the Catholic teaching which you profess, it is grave matter and intrinsically evil to masturbate. It separates the marital act from both its procreative and its unitive significances. It cultivates an attitude of selfishness and individualism. It engages an unreasonable lust that often satiates itself with pornography, abuse of the opposite sex, and deviant sexual behaviors and fetishes. And, like contraception, it is shockingly common, especially among Christians. It is the skeleton that practically everyone has in his closet, and may be #1 or #2 on the list, next to invalid marriages, why many people are receiving Holy Communion unworthily.
 
By the Catholic teaching which you profess, it is grave matter and intrinsically evil to masturbate. It separates the marital act from both its procreative and its unitive significances. It cultivates an attitude of selfishness and individualism. It engages an unreasonable lust that often satiates itself with pornography, abuse of the opposite sex, and deviant sexual behaviors and fetishes. And, like contraception, it is shockingly common, especially among Christians. It is the skeleton that practically everyone has in his closet, and may be #1 or #2 on the list, next to invalid marriages, why many people are receiving Holy Communion unworthily.
That is what they teach no disagreement with you on that, I just happen to think that the Catholic Church is wrong about a whole lot of things and has historically been wrong about all kinds of things. For example their slaughter of the French Cathars, their murder of Giordorno Bruno, the Spanish Inquisition, The outright slaughter of Native Americans in central and South America, The Church ordering that any Catholic who joins the Free Masons should be executed. Oh yeah, when the Church outlawed the publication of any Bibles in any other language other than Latin and ordered that anyone who did so was condemned to hell, excommunicated, and subject to execution. Imagine that, your church just a few short centuries ago would have killed you for having an English Bible in your possession!!!

So the Catholic Church, while getting an awfully lot right, also gets a ridiculous amount wrong. I in no way solely establish what I think is moral based upon the moral teachings of the Catholic Church. I remain Catholic because I believe it holds more truth than the other Christian traditions, especially Evangelical Christians, who just annoy me to no end. however, I would never surrender my own reason, logic, and conscience to anyone based solely upon that persons claimed authority. So until the Church formerly excommunicates me from her, I will continue to be a bad Catholic and my soul will just have to answer to Jesus for all of this when I die. I have talked with my spiritual advisor, a Dominican Friar and he finds me amusing, yet frustrating to no end. So until he kicks me out, I am just as Catholic as you are. I also try to focus more on what Jesus told us to do in the Bible, he spoke quite a bit about helping the sick and the homeless, and the outcast of the world, so I try to volunteer a lot of my time to helping others in need. As far as I can tell Jesus said something about so as we did to the least of those, so you have done unto me, when he was describing what separates the Sheep from the Goats, but interestingly enough, Jesus did not say a single word of condemnation against homosexuals or about masturbation. So the Church might have a problem with it, but I think Jesus is much more sympathetic and understanding than the Catholic Church has ever been.
 
Also, again according to your logic, female masturbation for pleasure, as long as it is purely clitoral stimulation is perfectly moral, I fail to see any arguing this.

Male masturbation is immoral according to you. That is fine is you believe that, but IMO individual male masturbation to pleasure oneself is neither moral or immoral, it is morally neutral behavior. Now I think looking at pornography for mastubatory purposes can be immoral becasue you are supporting an industry which preys upon emotional damaged and abused women and also has a tendency to dehumanize women, but using your own imagination seems to be somewhat morally ambiguous and again, I say this falls into neutral territory.
I honestly don’t want to read these descriptions so I won’t (so I might be misunderstanding your argument) but here’s the morality of these actions. Masturbation or any deliberate unnecessary sexual stimulation outside of marriage is grave matter not neutral, male or female. So is looking at porn (unless you were a law enforcer who was looking for criminals doing it illegally or something that)
 
I would not book a hotel room for homosexuals, or unmarried people.
How would you know if two men renting a hotel room were two homosexuals or were an unrelated unmarried couple? Maybe the two men are two brothers who want to share a room and cut costs or two heterosexual cousins or a father and son or a brother and sister. Would you require people renting a room in your hotel to provide documentation so that you could ascertain what their relationship is and whether they are married or not?
 
That is what they teach no disagreement with you on that, I just happen to think that the Catholic Church is wrong about a whole lot of things and has historically been wrong about all kinds of things. For example their slaughter of the French Cathars, their murder of Giordorno Bruno, the Spanish Inquisition, The outright slaughter of Native Americans in central and South America, The Church ordering that any Catholic who joins the Free Masons should be executed. Oh yeah, when the Church outlawed the publication of any Bibles in any other language other than Latin and ordered that anyone who did so was condemned to hell, excommunicated, and subject to execution. Imagine that, your church just a few short centuries ago would have killed you for having an English Bible in your possession!!!

So the Catholic Church, while getting an awfully lot right, also gets a ridiculous amount wrong. I in no way solely establish what I think is moral based upon the moral teachings of the Catholic Church. I remain Catholic because I believe it holds more truth than the other Christian traditions, especially Evangelical Christians, who just annoy me to no end. however, I would never surrender my own reason, logic, and conscience to anyone based solely upon that persons claimed authority.
Where do you base your morals then?
The free masons were trying to undermine the faith
A lot of the native Americans practiced human sacrifice and cannibalism
Those heretics were obstinate after being corrected, they were spreading their error and leading people away from the truth, what they got was the death penalty, which isn’t considered murder.

Excommunication doesn’t mean damned to hell(not that you said that), the Church can make something a mortal sin but they can’t unconditionally damn you for an action. Anybody who was translating it could have written and taught whatever they wanted so it’s a bad idea to have lay people translating their own versions of the bible without supervision.
 
I honestly don’t want to read these descriptions so I won’t (so I might be misunderstanding your argument) but here’s the morality of these actions. Masturbation or any deliberate unnecessary sexual stimulation outside of marriage is grave matter not neutral, male or female. So is looking at porn (unless you were a law enforcer who was looking for criminals doing it illegally or something that)
I agree absolutely that the Church says that these are indeed sinful. Again no argument with me here. I am arguing that there is anything disordered or unnatural in these actions. Rau argued that the Penis is primarily designed for procreation, I argue that the female clitoris is not designed for primarily procreative purposes, it is simply tertiary. Therefore, there is no violation of Natural Law to engage in female to female clitoral stimulation from a Natural law perspective.
 
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