Certainly understand what you’re saying. But there are no hard and fast biblical verses pointing to these practices. As you said, it’s a form of tradition because of the LDS belief in continuing revelation (which is fair). However, if it’s because of tradition, then how can you reject infant baptism even though it’s not specifically mentioned in scripture? There are some verses that claim that “whole households” were baptized. Of course, Evangelicals and LDS would claim that it doesn’t specifically state infants - but if the history of the Church shows that this practice has been done, then why should it be considered a false teaching?
I agree that Scripture doesn’t explicitly state that infant baptism should be done or shouldn’t be done. There are a lot of Bible verses that allude to believer’s baptism which has no strict numerical age.
Acts 2:41 “Those** who accepted **his message were baptized, and about three thousand were added to their number that day.”
This doesn’t say that those who accepted his message along with their infants and toddlers were baptized.
Acts 16:14-15 – “One of those listening was a woman from the city of Thyatira, named Lydia, a dealer in purple cloth. She was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message. When she and the members of her household were baptized, she invited us to her home. ‘If you consider me a believer in the Lord,’ she said, ‘come and stay at my house.’ And she persuaded us.”
This woman, being a dealer in cloth, probably wasn’t a mother of an infant. Households were large and multi-family. I wonder what her household was like? It doesn’t say the entire household was baptized. Were all of them? Were there infants?
Acts 16:30-34 – “He then brought them out and asked, ‘Sirs, what must I do to be saved?’ They replied, ‘Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved–you and your household.’ Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all the others in his house. At that hour of the night the jailer took them and washed their wounds; then immediately
he and all his household were baptized. The jailer brought them into his house and set a meal before them; he was filled with joy because
he had come to believe in God–he and his whole household.”
This was clearly a household of believers.
Acts 18:8 – “Crispus, the synagogue leader, and
his entire household believed in the Lord; and many of the Corinthians who heard Paul believed and were baptized."
Another household of believers.
1 Corinthians 1:16 – “(Yes, I also baptized the household of Stephanas; beyond that, I don’t remember if I baptized anyone else.)”
This doesn’t say who was in the household and it doesn’t say the ENTIRE household was baptized. In 1 Corinthians 16 it states that Stephanas household devoted themselves to the service of the Lord’s people. I don’t know who this all included.
Much of the early Christian writings speak of different steps one must take to be baptized including a confession of faith, renouncing the devil and such that an infant couldn’t take part in. There is no mention of a separate protocol for infants. (The only document that does this is the Apostolic Tradition which is questioned as to the exact dating and authenticity).
Origen does speak of infant baptism in some of his homilies and ties that to his version of Original Sin and Leviticus 12 and Luke 2.
Tertullian in the beginning of the 3rd century speaks against baptism of “little children.” I am not sure about the original language and whether this is referring to infants or to 7 and 8 year old little children.
“the delay of baptism is preferable; principally, however, in the case of little children.
For why is it necessary–if (baptism itself) is not so necessary–that the sponsors likewise should be thrust into danger? Who both themselves, by reason of mortality, may fail to fulfill their promises, and may be disappointed by the development of an evil disposition, in those for whom they stood? The Lord does indeed say, “Forbid them not to come unto me.” Let them “come,” then, while they are growing up; let them “come” while they are learning, while they are learning whither to come; let them become Christians when they have become able to know Christ. Why does the **innocent period of life **hasten to the “remission of sins?” More caution will be exercised in worldly matters: so that one who is not trusted with earthly substance is trusted with divine!
Let them know how to “ask” for salvation, that you may seem (at least) to have given “to him that asketh.” For no less cause must the unwedded also be deferred–in whom the ground of temptation is prepared,”
earlychristianwritings.com/text/tertullian21.html
It seems that there were definitely different understanding of baptism and appropriate ages even from the beginning.