Thanks joysong, what you said is very much true too I think, that plus her Father didn’t get to present her to the Lord with his blessing and that was probably why her father was embarressed by it all. She entered in a way that way not ordinarily done, (perhaps with no discernment)?
-They accepted her and had her in a habit already,
-they didn’t get to say goodbye,
-the Poor Clares stayed in, they never went out back then, they didn’t get to see their familes at all after entering the convent from what I understand.