Firstly, I am not a troll. This is an honest question in attempt to further my understanding of why Catholics are encouraged to pray to the Saints and Mary. Despite 10 years of Catholic Schooling, this wasn’t ever covered in any great detail, or was always deemed inappropriate, and they would refuse to answer the question, therefore leading me to come to my own conclusions through mostly my own abilities of reasoning built upon reading and conversations on religion. It is not something I have a proper understanding of, which is why I asked the question in the first place. Secondly, I am not Protestant, although if I come across like that, then it is due to my current understanding of religion and current religious beliefs, not due to being of a Protestant background or anything.
Thanks to everyone anyway, for all the replies.
Sure I pray for my friends because I’m well aware that they see no need to pray. One of my best-friends is an Atheist, so I know she definitely isn’t going to be praying to God. But in terms of praying to the saints/asking them to pray to us, they’re dead, so how can they pray for us?
Fortunately I’ve never had any of my grandparents die, or anyone that close to me die for that matter, but I don’t see how I’d be able to talk to them if they’re dead?

Ando on top of that, how would I know that they’d even made it to heaven/paradise in first place, to even be able to talk to Jesus?
It’s the version my Mum used to use (Now she uses the JW version, but I think she’s a little unsure now that they’ve made a new 2013 version)
How do you know they are alive? DO you mean in a purely spiritual way or something else?

And no, I wouldn’t say that if one of my friends came to me asking me to pray for them was against the first commandment, BUT, for a friend to ask me this, they would have to be alive, physically and spirtitually, not dead.
True, I’m not too sure about who is in heaven and all. Maybe I should have asked this as a question before this one…
EH? She is the queen of Heaven and Earth?

And I don’t necessarily disagree with your point of looking at the statues during prayer, in a book I read, I liked how the guy being questioned put it, that statues aren’t there to be worshiped but to help with concentration. Before that book, I’d never thought about it from that perspective before, although I’m not sure why you brought this point up in the first place.

I don’t appreciate being called a ‘wackadoodle’. It’s not my fault I wasn’t brought up with the same beliefs as you/haven’t yet found the same beliefs as you. I was brought up that there is only one God, and to only pray to him. No-One else. SO this means that my question wasn’t about causing some sort of massive issue out of why people pray to the saints, it’s simply questioning why in the first place, because it’s against what I was taught. It’s not something I feel I understand well, therefore it is only logical for me to ask a question in attempt to further my understanding, and help me grasp the concept from the perspective in question - the Catholic Perspective.
I would go to mass, but I don’t think my Mum would let me, because she believes more in Jehovah Witness Stuff now

What is RCIA?