Why do Atheists/Agnostics come to CAF?

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If you read the study can you tell me how many were dealt with by the law?
3% of the accused served prison sentences? Also buffalo, I am not american so I do not know the level of abuse there. However, here in Ireland it is a much different matter. I urge you to read the Ryan report to understand the level of disgust here on the subject. The CC here (and the Irish government to an extent) are guilty of horrible crimes in hiding those known to abuse children. So if there are paedophile priests sent to prison in america, then I am sure we would both agree that is a good thing.
 
guess who most of these deviant perverts are? You guessed it … the religious. You’ll find an amazing absence of non-theists in those type of statistics, why? Because our brains work properly 😛

Maybe some people need to fear the wrath of some god (even if fictitious) to control their deviant disposition. I guess Nietzsche was right, being an atheist isn’t for everyone.
Do you have statistical proof that they were religious (as in they practiced their religion) or do you usually like to resort to your prejudices in order to have an answer?
 
3% of the accused served prison sentences? Also buffalo, I am not american so I do not know the level of abuse there. However, here in Ireland it is a much different matter. I urge you to read the Ryan report to understand the level of disgust here on the subject. The CC here (and the Irish government to an extent) are guilty of horrible crimes in hiding those known to abuse children. So if there are paedophile priests sent to prison in america, then I am sure we would both agree that is a good thing.
Yes - undergoing due process and serving a prison term is a good thing.

Believe me there is disgust in America too. We are not defending evil.

We should also note that there are many many good holy priests in the world. Broadbrushing the Church is a way to attack her in her most vulnerable spots. The Priesthood. Look at the ramifications to the faithful and out children.

Those holy priests need our support and encouragement to be courageous. Isolating priests opens them up to additional attacks by the devil. We cannot let him win.
 
When I first came to CAF I was Catholic, now I’m an agnostice investigating Buddhism.
Was it something here at CAF that caused you to look elsewhere?

My daughter-in-law is agnostic - she is so because of a VERY negative experience of Christians in general and a specific Catholic encounter in particular - (as well as some misconceptions about Church teaching that I hope in time to be able to offset :))

It is my belief that the onus for her very negative opinion of a ‘faith community’ is not with her, she was young when she had this experience and developed this opinion ---- but with those who have - through their selfishness - given her such a negative impression - I believe they will have to answer both for their actions and for their lack of actions.

*NB - this was not some type of sexual issue, rather a lack of welcome, a judgmental feeling, toward her and her family - and the negative behavior of those who claim to be ‘people of faith’ *
 
like I said above, I don’t blame religion for deviant conduct (that would be logically absurd), but I also don’t think all of these pedophiles weren’t genuine when they entered the priesthood (which is IMO an equally absurd assumption).

I don’t know what causes this defect in the human brain. However, it stands to reason that many of these men probably hated themselves & probably were very faithful and loyal Catholics (and it’s possible some of them sought the solitude of the priesthood to somehow redeem themselves … who knows). They just have a brain disorder; but the bottom line is society needs to be protected
If you are right about your assertion, and I suspect it is true that not every Pedophile is not genuinely religious, it would still mean that there’s something about the priesthood accidentally (not inherently) that has attracted such people–in your argument, the promise of redemption. Nonetheless, I project that such a person would be so ashamed and so afraid of people actually recognizing or suspecting his hated fault, that he would still no longer–now that the scandals have put such a stigma there–find the priesthood attractive as much as pedophiles may have in the past.

Ergo I believe that pedophiles are no more likely now to be found in the priesthood than in other walks of life, especially since religion isn’t the only way people can seek the redemption that a genuinely remorseful pedophile would seek; this would mean that pedophiles may be drawn to the most productive and noble walks of life, be they religious or otherwise–as is somewhat demonstrable, with many being teachers and other such “give back to society” professions that might offer psychological redemption. It is impossible to narrow down to one walk of life or belief system where one is most (or even indisputably more) likely to find a pedophile than in other walks of life or beliefs, whatever the pedophile’s motives are for being there. The priesthood is no exception to that impossibility, and so when planning to protect our children, we must not assume a priest is some especial threat to them just because of what he does in life. We can keep our children safe by not leaving them in dangerous positions, but only if we keep in mind that priests are not the only (nor even more likely) potential predators out there. If we applied such logic universally and fairly, it would result in mental accusations of “He’s likely a pedophile” against all of the most noble and productive professions out there who have anything to do with frequent human interaction, and my concern tends to be that one is rarely willing to admit that broader implication when they say anything along the lines of “Keep your kids away from priests.”
(and I can’t think of a better place for these deviants than a jail cell – or at least a maximum security mental institution).
I agree with you, in a case by case sort of way. The jail cell for those who are psychologically evaluated as not genuinely ashamed, probably, and a maximum security mental institution (for life) for those who are psychologically evaluated as truly wanting to quit but who most predictably (like most pedophiles) won’t. I imagine that, if the latter are truly ashamed and want never to commit their crimes again, they will secretly be relieved that they will never again have the opportunity, however hard it may otherwise be to accept and live with their lifelong fate.

Blessings in Christ,
KindredSoul
 
The Hindu religion has been around for thousands of years, in some shape or form at least about as long as the Egyptian religion would be if it still existed.

The Christian/Catholic religion, which is viewed to be a fulfillment (from your secular point of view “innovation”) of Judaism, can in that sense claim as a conceivable world view to be as old as Judaism itself, which again has been around for (arguably) longer than the Egyptian religion, even if the Egyptian religion survived today.

Even non-Christian Judaism, which has never been adhered to by more than barely 1% of the world, shows a great tenacity for holding on for as long as recorded human history allows us to reliably recall, as it would seem due to their oral culture that the beliefs were around for centuries before the earliest paper trail records can show. It is hard to tell how long people believed in the Judeo-Christian God, since the Hebrew Scriptures themselves speak of an age that would have preceded Abraham (the beginning of organized Judaism) in which there was no organized religion built around God, but during which belief in Him still survived on a person to person level. This potentially gives belief in the Judeo-Christian God an unimaginable antiquity, one that arguably stretches back as far as it can be argued that Atheists/Agnostics have existed. As cited above, Catholicism claims to be a continuation and development of the belief in that God, thus as a potential reality inherits whatever potential longevity that belief has.

It seems that the Egyptian religion and its death were the exception to the rule when compared to other comparably influential religions, not the rule itself. It seems Catholicism has a good chance of being around for as long as humanity dwells in the present universe, just as I–though I’m not Hindu or Jewish–believe the same of Judaism and Buddhism, as there is no evidence that major, or even well grounded, religions pass away eventually as some sort of reliable and observable rule. Even some of the New Age religions, having only risen in the last few centuries, might conceivably last for hundreds of thousands of years, or until the end of humanity’s current existence, if they become popular enough or have even small groups of people committed to them.

Granted, this nigh-guaranteed longevity in itself doesn’t prove a religion (I have cited others that have had such longevity) but it does mean that Atheism as a world view is no more historically consistent, constant, universal, ancient or historically likely to survive than Catholicism (at least when seen as a continuation of Judaism’s world view) or any other existing belief. As long as there are Atheists or Agnostics, I assure you, there will be Catholics carrying on in the Faith; for people who believe in and singularly worship the Judeo-Christian God have arguably been around for as long as people who disbelieve in or doubt the existence of any god at all.

Hopefully, people are smart enough not to leave their kids alone with anyone they don’t know very well, and hopefully they are smart enough to know that, even then, there is a significant chance that that person will molest their child when one takes into account the average number of pedophiles out there in the world, priest or not, who molested the children of people who had reason to trust them. A large percentage of biological fathers have been pedophiles. I suppose any mother who would leave her children with their father alone is “almost as crazy as those people who refuse modern medicine because of their religion.” Goodness, if your own brother, or close friends, happen to be biological fathers to anyone, it means you’ve a duty to not only keep your child away from them but the duty to do so out of the fear that these people you’ve known well are pedophiles. Paranoia might indeed save a child from being molested, but the only way it will do so absolutely is if it is applied across the board, and not only or even specially to Catholic priests. Unless you assert that the parents of a child who was molested by a priest were asking for it, but conveniently the parents of a child who was molested by a teacher, brother, best friend, etc., were not. You do not assume that someone is more likely to be a child molester simply because they have some completely unrelated trait in common with known child molesters. If you do, you’ll have to assume it of nigh everyone.

I agree that children must not be left alone with anyone who might be a predator…but priests are not the only people capable of being predators, nor are they anymore likely to be than people from other walks of life, especially now that this scandal is out in the open and the Church is (rightly, I agree) being forced to deal with it firmly, while other walks of life are now much easier places for pedophiles to hide, as they are not as much in the public eye. Pedophiles hide, in short, where ever they are least suspected. That’s what they do in order to get victims. Not too long ago, that least suspected place was the priesthood. Now? I’d say the priesthood is the last place a pedophile with two braincells would think would be a good hiding place. All eyes are on you and people think you have a 10% chance of molesting children because you’re a priest? Baaad hiding place. These men are twisted, and sick, but they are most certainly not stupid…they cleverly plot and plan to get to positions where they can get victims with the least likely chance of being suspected, and as I said the priesthood is now the least convenient place for that.

Blessings in Christ,
KindredSoul
:clapping: Very very well said. Thank you.
 
If you are right about your assertion, and I suspect it is true that not every Pedophile is not genuinely religious, it would still mean that there’s something about the priesthood accidentally (not inherently) that has attracted such people–in your argument, the promise of redemption. Nonetheless, I project that such a person would be so ashamed and so afraid of people actually recognizing or suspecting his hated fault, that he would still no longer–now that the scandals have put such a stigma there–find the priesthood attractive as much as pedophiles may have in the past.
for one thing the priesthood is a place where such men can avoid speculation regarding their sexual preference (unlike the protestant ministry); and have access to little boys.
Ergo I believe that pedophiles are no more likely now to be found in the priesthood than in other walks of life,
the numbers don’t seem to play this out
If we applied such logic universally and fairly, it would result in mental accusations of “He’s likely a pedophile” against all of the most noble and productive professions out there who have anything to do with frequent human interaction, and my concern tends to be that one is rarely willing to admit that broader implication when they say anything along the lines of “Keep your kids away from priests.”
I don’t see that slippery slope as very likely?
I agree with you, in a case by case sort of way. The jail cell for those who are psychologically evaluated as not genuinely ashamed, probably, and a maximum security mental institution (for life) for those who are psychologically evaluated as truly wanting to quit but who most predictably (like most pedophiles) won’t.
I like the way the law does it better. A mental institution if they are insane (meaning they lacked the capacity to distinguish between right and wrong). However, if they had the capacity (which is almost always the case) then jail. If they’re so remorseful then they shouldn’t mind a couple decades in jail.
I imagine that, if the latter are truly ashamed and want never to commit their crimes again, they will secretly be relieved that they will never again have the opportunity, however hard it may otherwise be to accept and live with their lifelong fate.
Blessings in Christ,
KindredSoul
If they really hate their crimes so much, and know there’s no helping themselves, then maybe suicide would be the most honorable thing they could do (or a surgical procedure to remove their sex organs).
 
Do you have statistical proof that they were religious (as in they practiced their religion) or do you usually like to resort to your prejudices in order to have an answer?
yeah, almost three quarters of all convicts are Christians (while a fraction of one percent are atheist or agnostic, even though we represent close to ten percent of the US population). I don’t know what percentage of inmates are sexual offenders (but with a disparity like that I don’t really need to).
 
Please provide stats Yankee, otherwise don’t pester me with your prejudices?
defending all your fellow theists in the south huh? Daddy’s little girl takes on a whole new meaning down there :eek:
 
yeah, almost three quarters of all convicts are Christians (while a fraction of one percent are atheist or agnostic, even though we represent close to ten percent of the US population).
That is not proof that they’re religious, but it is proof that all criminals are moral relativists. 🙂
 
That is not proof that they’re religious, but it is proof that all criminals are moral relativists. 🙂
whatever you say … but I guess it’s hard to swallow the fact that more Catholics occupy our jail cells than any other single group in the US?

In fact why not imagine what my country would look like if we were all atheist or agnostic. Virtually no crime, almost everyone would have a college education, our GNP would rise markedly (since the well educated earn much more money), there would be little need for welfare and other social services, etc. Kind of like heaven but no fiction required.
 
whatever you say … but I guess it’s hard to swallow the fact that more Catholics occupy our jail cells than any other single group in the US?

In fact why not imagine what my country would look like if we were all atheist or agnostic. Virtually no crime, almost everyone would have a college education, our GNP would rise markedly (since the well educated earn much more money), there would be little need for welfare and other social services, etc. Kind of like heaven but no fiction required.
An all atheist country now where have I seen that before? :hmmm:
 
I’m waiting for those stats. Tick tock tick tock . . .
not easy to find … but just looking at forcible rape:

(per 100,000 people)

Connecticut 18
Arkansas 47

New York 16
Alabama 36, LA 36, KY 31.

NJ 14 (lowest in the country, with NY & CT rounding out the top three in terms of lowest rates of sexual assault).

Wow!!!

census.gov/compendia/statab/tables/09s0297.pdf

Actually compared to the Northeast (particularly NY, NJ, and CT) the rest of the country is pretty screwed up. Thanks, I knew we were good, but not that good, in fact the best (all hail the American Yankee:D).
 
actually the Egyptian religion (paganism/pharaoh worship) was around for several thousand years. Judeo-Christianity has only been around for about 2,700 years. It’s only been a dominant world religion for perhaps 1,700 years.
Judeo-Christianity as an organized religious movement, yes. Given that the Bible doesn’t even pretend that organized religion centered on God has been around forever (the oldest form of it, Judaism, didn’t begin until Abraham), belief in the Judeo-Christian God outside of such religion may have been believed in, on a person to person basis, since the beginning of time for all we know; and the Scripture/Belief System allows, actually, for a time between creation and Judaism when people had forgotten about God altogether. I know that the “for all we know” doesn’t prove anything; I am simply pointing out, that neither does the youth of the Judeo-Christian organized religion dis-prove anything, so that it may be established as not being a cause for either triumph (for those who are not Judeo-Christian) or doubt (for those who are Judeo-Christian). That’s not in the context of what you were trying to show, of course, but I just want to be sure than anyone who should happen across it doesn’t get the wrong idea.
for one thing the priesthood is a place where such men can avoid speculation regarding their sexual preference (unlike the protestant ministry); and have access to little boys.
Except that now it is indisputably the one place where people are going to speculate that they are pedophiles, more than in any protestant ministry, more than any other walk of life, period. It just doesn’t make sense that pedophiles would continue to think it was the safest place to try to redeem themselves anymore.

I believe this has all been sufficiently dealt with, hundreds of times whenever someone comes along trying to say that priests are especially likely to be pedophiles compared to other people. People love to be able to point fingers at a certain group of people and say that they are “dangerous” just for their station in life, and it has always been exacerbated–claimed to be justified–when any number of people within that station have indeed committed crimes or atrocities; whether that station is race, class, or whatever, I suspect that such evaluation of people in bulk before the individual members are known to be guilty will always persist…
I don’t see that slippery slope as very likely?
…and this manner of bulk evaluation will always conveniently be argued to be somehow more fair than it would be for other groups of people to whom the ones handing it out are less willing to apply it. Such a phenomenon has been happening for centuries, and has found its home in the minds of Christians, Atheists, and people of all beliefs. Why should we expect it to end now?
I like the way the law does it better. A mental institution if they are insane (meaning they lacked the capacity to distinguish between right and wrong). However, if they had the capacity (which is almost always the case) then jail. If they’re so remorseful then they shouldn’t mind a couple decades in jail.
Perhaps you are right. For my part, I want society protected. I am not out to “get even” with a group of people whom, according to you, may desperately want to quit what they’re doing anyway. I wish simply that their crimes are not to be repeated by them, and that no one else be victimized. So long as society is protected from such people–assuming that such people exist as you imply, and that they aren’t all just wicked schemers–I’m satisfied regardless of whether that is prison or solitary confinement in a mental institution.
If they really hate their crimes so much, and know there’s no helping themselves, then maybe suicide would be the most honorable thing they could do (or a surgical procedure to remove their sex organs).
Well, since you posit that not all of them are Atheists or agnostics, neither of those is always a viable option, which I am sure you know. Gladly submitting to be locked away from potential victims (or at the very least accepting this fate once they are caught) is always such an option, and such submission is not the least bit an “immoral means to reach a moral end” (the phrase within quotation marks being something which many religions, including Catholicism, do not believe to be justifiable) which is why it is perfectly acceptable, no matter what one’s beliefs are. A “religious pedophile,” for instance, may believe that being locked away for life will give him a chance at redemption and heaven. Suicide will not. Even if they are Atheists or Agnostics, hating one’s crime, even if with the most intense hatred imaginable, doesn’t always mean one hates oneself enough to snuff oneself out of existence for eternity prematurely. The self-castration, however, might be a much more justifiable action in the mind of an atheist or agnostic, and I do not pretend to know why they do not, one way or the other.

Blessings in Christ,
KindredSoul
 
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