Why do Atheists/Agnostics come to CAF?

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=yankee_doodle;5636113]first of all you wondered why non-theists were here. I told why I’m here; and most of my comments were broad characterizations (not personal remarks). As for the comments that essentially turns the question around, why would you (or the many other posters who do this) create threads that specifically target atheists or agnostics (and then wonder why we don’t immediately change our entire belief system, or are not suddenly memorized by your logic) … yeah that does seem to be a highly unreasonable expectation (to say the least).
***Very good and valid question.

I’ll awnser just for myself.

Its because Gods works such wonders in my life daily, that I sometimes forget that Faith is a gift that can be refused, as well as accepted.***

Thanks for posting:thumbsup:
 
***Very good and valid question.

I’ll awnser just for myself.

Its because Gods works such wonders in my life daily, that I sometimes forget that Faith is a gift that can be refused, as well as accepted.***

Thanks for posting:thumbsup:
But I’m not trying to convert him or other non-believers as I know that faith is a gift, but on the other hand I find it hard to converse with some atheists/agnostics because they are not open-minded to the possibility of an existing God.
 
I don’t think you should see it as a negative thing. I’ve always said that questioning things of religious nature are always good for this reason: When you question things, there are only two things that can happen. A) Your faith is reinforced after you have questioned and you become more ingrained and devout in that faith. or B) You realize that you’re in the wrong faith and you convert to a position that makes you happier.

Atheists and Agnostics always question things. So I think this is extremely beneficial.
 
=Ambrose;5636617]One of the things I am convinced of as much as I am my Catholic faith. You **DON’T **convince people over the internet about the existence or non existence of God.
***Indeed this is true?

We can’t BUT the Holy Spirit can with, in and through us.👍 Faith is a gift, that God in His Mystery and Magesty can dispense at Will.:)***

Love and prayers,
 
***Very good and valid question.

I’ll awnser just for myself.

Its because Gods works such wonders in my life daily, that I sometimes forget that Faith is a gift that can be refused, as well as accepted.***

Thanks for posting:thumbsup:
IMO faith is something we convince ourselves of or not … nothing more or less. I believe there’s a sink in my bathroom, but I suppose if I heard a compelling argument that the sink is something else & liked that argument I could convince myself otherwise.

I know the ancients invented all sorts of bizarre religions. Some of them had characters who came back from death. I know people cannot come back from death, but I suppose a compelling argument could convince some people otherwise … it just doesn’t convince me. No mystical force compelling my thoughts either way, just the gray matter between my ears!
 
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Lk. 6: 32 "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you hope to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to receive as much again. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for he is kind to the ungrateful and the selfish. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. ***

***I find three basic catagories for athesist on this Forum.

Those who by flaunting their “unbleive” wish to be disproven.

Those who openly desire to be proven wrong

And those who simply enjoy what they think is intellectual and fun debate.

Faith is a gift offered to all, but refused by many. Such is the Will of God.***

Love and prayers,
I feel the need to add one more category: those who feed off of, and love, drama. Of course, that sickness could be found on both sides of the debate.

I used to be an atheist, so I can see where they are coming from (except for those who just love the drama and the “everyone else is stupid but me” mindset). They come here usually out of curiousity–why do we believe what we believe? And maybe we should take heed here. Be clear on what we believe, and put it into practice in our daily lives–our own “Calcuttas,” as Mother Theresa would say.

Just a thought…
 
I feel the need to add one more category: those who feed off of, and love, drama. Of course, that sickness could be found on both sides of the debate.

I used to be an atheist, so I can see where they are coming from (except for those who just love the drama and the “everyone else is stupid but me” mindset). They come here usually out of curiousity–why do we believe what we believe? And maybe we should take heed here. Be clear on what we believe, and put it into practice in our daily lives–our own “Calcuttas,” as Mother Theresa would say.

Just a thought…
can’t win a debate against em … attack their character and sanity. Hey, it works when you’re preaching to the choir right?
 
Personally, I come here to resolve conflicts in my worldview that I may not have realized on my own, to learn more about Catholicism, and because I like engaging others in debate.
 
can’t win a debate against em … attack their character and sanity. Hey, it works when you’re preaching to the choir right?
Did I say anything, objectively, that was anything near what you are insinuating? I said that there was another category, a group that feeds off of the drama–but both sides of the debate have characters such as that. Did I not say that? And, as I’m sure you know, you can tell those in the latter category from those who are interested in actual dialogue.

Also, read the second paragraph–I said that atheists/agnostics are usually here because they are curious. Honestly curious, and want to know why we believe what we believe. Nothing wrong with that.

Why so sensitive? 😉
 
Did I say anything, objectively, that was anything near what you are insinuating? I said that there was another category, a group that feeds off of the drama–but both sides of the debate have characters such as that. Did I not say that? And, as I’m sure you know, you can tell those in the latter category from those who are interested in actual dialogue.

Also, read the second paragraph–I said that atheists/agnostics are usually here because they are curious. Honestly curious, and want to know why we believe what we believe. Nothing wrong with that.

Why so sensitive? 😉
I feel like I’ve been getting beat up a little bit on this board today … now I’m getting hyper-sensitive (apologies) 🙂
 
I feel like I’ve been getting beat up a little bit on this board today … now I’m getting hyper-sensitive (apologies) 🙂
No probs…I’m sorry you are getting beat up here. That’s definitely not what should be happening. It’s a shame people are able to hide behind their computers screens and screen-names like the white hoods of a certain organization I can think of…and say whatever they want with no consideration to the human being on the other end.

(disclaimer: I am not directing the above statement to anyone posting on this thread)

Anyway, take care, yankee. Don’t be a stranger. 🙂
 
=yankee_doodle;5637390]IMO faith is something we convince ourselves of or not … nothing more or less. I believe there’s a sink in my bathroom, but I suppose if I heard a compelling argument that the sink is something else & liked that argument I could convince myself otherwise.
I know the ancients invented all sorts of bizarre religions. Some of them had characters who came back from death. I know people cannot come back from death, but I suppose a compelling argument could convince some people otherwise … it just doesn’t convince me. No mystical force compelling my thoughts either way, just the gray matter between my ears!
So let me guess, you don’t belief if God right? Not that it takes faith to hold such a position. Logic can get most folks there.

Love and prayers,
 
Difficulty of proof depends on the case:

“All A is B.” >> A positive statement. This is easy to disprove.
“Not (all A is B).” >> A negative statement. This is easy to prove.
In both cases above, one just need to show that at least one A is not B.

However, the above case is not as easy as the “All A is B” statement.
“A exists” >> A positive statement. This is easy to prove.
“No (A exists)” >> A negative statement. This is easy to disprove.
In both cases above, one just need to show proofs that A actually exists.

Note that when a statement is easy to disprove, it means it is difficult to prove. As an example, when one argues that “Pink elephants exist,” it is difficult to disprove because one cannot search enough and show that one cannot indeed find one pink elephant.

This is like the assumption that at least one magnetic monopole exists in this Universe. Such existence is used by P. Dirac to show how come we have discrete charges. That there is not such monopole in this Universe is very hard to prove, hence taken to be true because of the important consequences of such “principle”.

The same is true with Christians. Christians believe in the existence of a God because with this belief, there comes a lot of important consequences and hence the Universe becomes much beautiful and meaningful.
 
I have met some nice polite (and some not so nice and/or polite) Atheists/Agnostics here at CAF, yet I’m still somewhat befuddled by your presence, for example, I don’t know why you seek to argue with us if you don’t have proof that God doesn’t exist and furthermore that Christianity is false?
As I’ve pointed out in a number of threads, I’m mainly here to learn more about the faith that my wife belongs to and that will play a role in the upbringing of my children.
Moreover, I don’t appreciate the antagonism I sense from some posters, I don’t appreciate the lack of knowledge others have of our faith and yet feel duty bound to criticize it, I don’t appreciate that everytime we have something supernatural or unique that happens it’s chalked down to every conceivable (material) explaination except God (despite the evidence), I don’t appreciate moreover the fact that although some wish for signs you refuse to believe in the ones that have already happened . . . etc.
I think the only issue I’ve really gotten worked up about here is same-sex marriage, but (and I hope this doesn’t take the thread off-track), I really do see it as an issue of harm and fundamental rights.
I wish Atheists/Agnostics were open-minded to the possibility that God could exist, why can’t you be more open-minded? And even if you choose not to believe that any religion is true, why won’t you at least be a deist (there are many factors in my opinion that point to an intelligent designer)?
IMO, deism is the refuge for people who once were theists, but have rejected the idea of a personal, active god, and for whatever reason, feel compelled to still believe in something in its place.
Like, how? Example?
Example #1: there are no elephants in my pocket.

The characteristics of my pocket (specifically small size and limited stretchiness) are incompatible with the characteristics of elephant (specifically large size), implying that the one cannot exist within the other.

I don’t even need to look in my pocket to check. Even without confirming it through observation, I can know with certainty that there are no elephants in my pocket.

Example #2: there are no pebbles in my pocket.

Unlike elephants, the characteristics of pebbles (e.g. small size) are quite compatible with the idea of them being in my pocket, but I’ve looked through my entire pocket and I’ve confirmed that they’re not in it.
 
Note that when a statement is easy to disprove, it means it is difficult to prove. As an example, when one argues that “Pink elephants exist,” it is difficult to disprove because one cannot search enough and show that one cannot indeed find one pink elephant.
However, hypothetically, one could analyze the genome of the elephant (including defining what makes an elephant an elephant), determine the mechanisms and physical processes that determine the elephant’s colour, and come to the conclusion that the genetic variation needed to make what would be an elephant pink would be so great that the resulting creature could no longer rightly be called an elephant.

Hypothetically. In reality, it might be that there’s some genetic control that would produce elephants in whatever colour you want. However, one way of disproving a thing is to demonstrate that there is no means that would allow that thing to exist.
 
When I first came to CAF I was Catholic, now I’m an agnostice investigating Buddhism.
 
When I first came to CAF I was Catholic, now I’m an agnostice investigating Buddhism.
I like what you’re pushing (peaceful coexistence); but you must also understand the inherent conflict between Christians and atheists/agnostics. Most atheists object to prohibitions on things like gay marriage or embryonic stem cell research. We think most religion (although I’m far from an expert on Buddhism) serves as an obstruction to science and individual freedoms. Therefore, we naturally challenge it in the interest of what we see as the greater good. Obviously Christianity is not tolerant toward challenge (and views it as a threat).

Inversely, Christianity believes it serves the greater good, because Christians generally (though not exclusively) believe trends such as increased tolerance toward homosexuals will lead to societal decline (not to mention invoking the wrath of their all powerful god). Herein lies the tension (that will probably never find complete resolution). However, the trend in the west is toward secularization (and religion across the board is declining in industrialized countries). Therefore, this tension may diminish as religion diminishes (although there’s still the impending issue of increased religiosity in the third world).
 
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