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If its not a deal breaker …Your asking totally fair questions. I think the virginity of Mary boils down to a matter of faith, you can’t really “prove” it.
Then whats the problem …
If its not a deal breaker …Your asking totally fair questions. I think the virginity of Mary boils down to a matter of faith, you can’t really “prove” it.
No disrespect at all intended toward those that hold with the doctrine but…Where does the Bible say Mary did not remain a virgin her whole life?
Why in the world would she plan not to have a normal relationship with her husband even before Gabriel spoke to her?1voice,
In Luke 1, Gabriel was telling Mary that she would be the Mother to the Messiah. Mary was troubled by this.
If Mary was planning on having marital relations with Joseph, she would have believed that the Messiah would be the son of Joseph & Mary. Yet Mary never had plans to have children with Joseph. So she was confused about how she could bear a son if not planning on having sex.
Mary remained a virgin by choice.
Peace,
Phil
We can only go by tradition for much of this, however there is scriptures in the Old Testament that could explain a lack of obligation on a woman’s part to consummate a marriage as view in modern terms.Quote:
Originally Posted by Erich
Where does the Bible say Mary did not remain a virgin her whole life?
No disrespect at all intended toward those that hold with the doctrine but…
Where, in the Bible, does it say that she did?
Why in the world would she plan not to have a normal relationship with her husband even before Gabriel spoke to her?
Num 30:1 (30:2) And he said to the princes of the tribes of the children of Israel: This is the word that the Lord hath commanded:
Num 30:2 (30:3) If any man make a vow to the Lord, or bind himself by an oath: he shall not make his word void but shall fulfil all that he promised.
Num 30:3 (30:4) If a woman vow any thing, and bind herself by an oath, being in her father’s house, and but yet a girl in age: if her father knew the vow that she hath promised, and the oath wherewith she hath bound her soul, and held his peace, she shall be bound by the vow:
Num 30:4 (30:5) Whatsoever she promised and swore, she shall fulfil in deed.
Num 30:5 (30:6) But if her father, immediately as soon as he heard it, gainsaid it, both her vows and her oaths shall be void, neither shall she be bound to what she promised, because her father hath gainsaid it.
Num 30:6 (30:7) If she have a husband, and shall vow any thing, and the word once going out of her mouth shall bind her soul by an oath,
Num 30:7 (30:8) The day that her husband shall hear it, and not gainsay it, she shall be bound to the vow, and shall give whatsoever she promised.
Num 30:8 (30:9) But if as soon as he heareth he gainsay it, and make her promises and the words wherewith she had bound her soul of no effect: the Lord will forgive her.
Num 30:9 (30:10) The widow, and she that is divorced, shall fulfil whatsoever they vow.
Num 30:10 (30:11) If the wife in the house of her husband, hath bound herself by vow and by oath,
Num 30:11 (30:12) If her husband hear, and hold his peace, and doth not disallow the promise, she shall accomplish whatsoever she had promised.
Num 30:12 (30:13) But if forthwith he gainsay it, she shall not be bound by the promise: because her husband gainsaid it, and the Lord will be merciful to her.
Num 30:13 (30:14) If she vow and bind herself by oath, to afflict her soul by fasting, or abstinence from other things, it shall depend on the will of her husband, whether she shall do it, or not do it.
Num 30:14 (30:15) But if the husband hearing it hold his peace, and defer the declaring his mind till another day: whatsoever she had vowed and promised, she shall fulfil: because immediately as he heard it, he held his peace.
Num 30:15 (30:16) But if he gainsay it after that he knew it, he shall bear her iniquity.
Num 30:16 (30:17) These are the laws which the Lord appointed to Moses between the husband and the wife, between the father and the daughter that is as yet but a girl in age, or that abideth in her father’s house.
Seems like you are equating Family life today to that of 2000 years ago in an attempt to make humor.What is harder to believe than a woman remaining a perpetual Virgin is that woman bearing the Son of GOD, then going on to bear other children, and not showing the least bit of favoritism.
Picture Mary calling in children. “Jesus, Anne, Elizabeth, James, Joses, etc. Come to dinner.”
"Anne, please stop dawdling. JESUS never dawdles."
"Elizabeth, please stop gabbing with your friends. JESUS never gossips."
"James, put away your toys please. JESUS never leaves his toys out."
"Joses, please stop gobbling. JESUS never gobbles his food."
oh, and the brothers and sisters never have a TRACE of rivalry.
"No fair, Jesus NEVER gets a wrong answer at school."
"No fair, Jesus NEVER trips or falls playing games."
"No fair, Jesus never does ANYTHING wrong. It’s not like He even has to TRY to be good, and He gets everybody applauding Him. WE work HARD to do the right thing and all we get told is how much better JESUS does it than we do.
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Nope! Jesus spoke Aramaic and not all words could be translated. This is usually a misunderstanding by many people who are not bilingual or multilingual.The Bible mentions Jesus has brothers, and mentions them by name.
On the contrary,why do so many Protestants and fundamentalist teach a novelty?The Bible also mentions Jesus and John the Baptist were cousins. So my question is why does the Catholic Church teach differently?
And where does the Bible teach everything must be said and thougt from the Bible?For the record, let me clarify. I do believe Mary was a virgin when she bore Jesus. I believe through the backing up of the scripture she was not a virgin afterwards. And Alex, where does the Bible does not say she remained a virgin her whole life?
And where were these good Jewish brothers, raised to believe in all the commandments including honor thy mother and thy father, when Mary was left alone by Jesus’ crucifixion?Seems like you are equating Family life today to that of 2000 years ago in an attempt to make humor.
That said, was not Cain jealous of righteous Abel.
Jesus’ Brothers did show this type of childish behavior when they were adults.
John 7
1 After these things Jesus walked in Galilee; for He did not want to walk in Judea, because the Jews sought to kill Him. 2 Now the Jews’ Feast of Tabernacles was at hand. 3 His brothers therefore said to Him, “Depart from here and go into Judea, that Your disciples also may see the works that You are doing. 4 For no one does anything in secret while he himself seeks to be known openly. If You do these things, show Yourself to the world.” 5 For even His brothers did not believe in Him.
6 Then Jesus said to them, “My time has not yet come, but your time is always ready. 7 The world cannot hate you, but it hates Me because I testify of it that its works are evil. 8 You go up to this feast. I am not yet going up to this feast, for My time has not yet fully come.” 9 When He had said these things to them, He remained in Galilee.
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This is an awesome article. I am very much interested in learning more about the Protoevangelium of James BECAUSE it was written in 120 AD. Not like 368 A.D.Mary was dedicated to serving the Lord.
This article is what I’m using.
Joseph was an old man who was merely marrying Mary to be her provider while she continued her services at the Temple.
Here is the whole protoevangelium:This is an awesome article. I am very much interested in learning more about the Protoevangelium of James BECAUSE it was written in 120 AD. Not like 368 A.D.
But I wonder why something so important and a big part of the history of the incarnation of Christ was not included in any of the Gospels?
The Gospel of James that the article uses as source material is a book that was banned by the Catholic Church according to this…Mary was dedicated to serving the Lord.
This article is what I’m using.
Joseph was an old man who was merely marrying Mary to be her provider while she continued her services at the Temple.
I had never read that before, but it makes so much sense to me. Why would God entrust our Messiah to an “ordinary” couple? Protestantism teaches that Mary and Joseph were faithful, but I’ve always wondered, why them? This explanation of Mary’s early life explains why. A woman who has devoted her life to the Temple of God (the equivalent of our nuns) and a man who was willing to be her guardian would surely give Jesus the stable and faithful home life worthy of God’s only son.
Except … that particular document is banned by the Catholic Church.I had never read that before, but it makes so much sense to me. Why would God entrust our Messiah to an “ordinary” couple? Protestantism teaches that Mary and Joseph were faithful, but I’ve always wondered, why them? This explanation of Mary’s early life explains why. A woman who has devoted her life to the Temple of God (the equivalent of our nuns) and a man who was willing to be her guardian would surely give Jesus the stable and faithful home life worthy of God’s only son.
Sorry, you need to provide more info. It does not make sense.Except … that particular document is banned by the Catholic Church.
Refer to my post #254 … above.
or here…
forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=6977889&postcount=4
where were the other 10 disciples?And where were these good Jewish brothers, raised to believe in all the commandments including honor thy mother and thy father, when Mary was left alone by Jesus’ crucifixion?
‘Other’? Are you now saying ‘brothers’ was disciples?where were the other 10 disciples?