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Elizium23
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How about checking with a respected apologist from Catholic Answers?I would have to agree. Several priests and deacons know my mom is Jewish (therefore technically my kids and I are Jewish) and I would spend Passover (or Yom Kippur or any Shabbat service at synagogue) with my mother. None have had any issue with it and have actually encouraged it for, as our old family rabbi put it shalom bayit, “peace in the home.” The accusation that celebrating Pesach with old friends or family is breaking a Commandment astounds me, and, frankly, makes me angry.
I would encourage folks to ask their own priests or research this before taking a 'blog post’s word on this.
The Church has not approved of a seder as a public ritual or devotion of the Church; therefore, it seems reasonable to assume that the seder should not be celebrated on Church property, at least while there is an open question as to magisterial approval. Hosting such an event on Church property can give the impression of Church approval where it does not, as yet, exist. And that can cause confusion for Jews who object to a Christian seder in a Catholic parish because they may naturally assume that the event has the backing of the Catholic Church. As a matter of prudence then, it might be wise to avoid and discourage a seder held on Church property.
The Church also has not expressly forbidden Catholics to privately celebrate a seder in their own homes, but many disagree over whether or not it is appropriate for Catholics to do so. Some argue that because the seder has been superseded by the Mass, Catholics should limit their commemoration of the Last Supper to the Mass. Others argue that it is disrespectful to the Jewish people to co-opt their sacred ritual. And still others say that the seder, as it is celebrated today, is a non-Christian worship service that Catholics should not participate in as worshippers (as distinguished from those who attend a Jewish seder as a guest).
While I sympathize with those Catholics who want to participate in a Christian seder, I worry that many Catholics do not know enough about Judaism or Jewish ritual to create their own seder so that is both meaningful to Catholics and respectful of Jewish religious practice and belief. If you really want to attend a seder, ask a Jewish friend if you can attend his family’s seder. Many Jews are delighted to have Christian guests at their seder because it is considered a good deed to extend hospitality during the holiday. But, unless you are a convert from Judaism, it might well be better not to try to create your own Christianized seder liturgy.