Why do gays want marriage? What do they hope gain from it?

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Same things straight people want.
Then why did some Califonians push for same sex marriage for a decade after they had same sex domestic partnerships with the same protections?

A hint:
Offering a legal relationship called “marriage” to opposite-sex couples while consigning same-sex couples to “domestic partnerships” impinges upon the fundamental right to marry by denying such legal relationships ***equal dignity ***and respect.
courts.ca.gov/documents/S147999.pdf

It’s not about equal protection, it’s about “acceptance” of a lifestyle choice.
 
To get to the next logical step. Filing lawsuits against churches that refuse to “marry” them.
 
Then why did some Califonians push for same sex marriage for a decade after they had same sex domestic partnerships with the same protections?

A hint:.
Straight married couples don’t want their unions to be recognized and treated with dignity and respect? They want to be married. Like straight couples. You think most straight couples marry for the tax bennies and insurance?

Like I said, *They want what straight people want.
*
 
To get to the next logical step. Filing lawsuits against churches that refuse to “marry” them.
This is one of those “the sky is a falling” posts. Maybe in Vegas where wedding chapels are businesses. No evidence at all this could or would be a threat to a church.
 
This is one of those “the sky is a falling” posts. Maybe in Vegas where wedding chapels are businesses. No evidence at all this could or would be a threat to a church.
Can you tell me, with 100% assurance that it will never happen. If not, I stand by my original statement.
 
Straight married couples don’t want their unions to be recognized and treated with dignity and respect? They want to be married. Like straight couples. You think most straight couples marry for the tax bennies and insurance?

Like I said, *They want what straight people want.
*
I noticed you never answered the question.

The entire argument for gay marriage has been framed around “we want equal protection” for well over a decade. It’s intersting to see the goalposts move.

It’s not about equal protection, it’s about “acceptance” of a lifestyle choice.

To me, some in the gay community want social acceptance of their lifestyle. Civil unions and domestic partnerships won’t work in those cases. What you’re left to isn’t “equality”, it’s “sameness”, and a moral equivalence.
 
This is one of those “the sky is a falling” posts. Maybe in Vegas where wedding chapels are businesses. No evidence at all this could or would be a threat to a church.
Did you ever think Catholic orphanages would be forced to shut down due to not adopting children to same sex couples, or that Catholic institutions would be forced to pay for contraception and abortofacient drugs?
 
Can you tell me, with 100% assurance that it will never happen. If not, I stand by my original statement.
Can I tell you someone won’t sue? No, of course not, all kinds of people file lawsuits, including those that cannot be won for a variety of reasons.

Will the Supreme Court ever find against churches in this matter?

Never. Not in this country. Freedom of religion is the religion of the US.

I doubt any lower court would, either.
 
I noticed you never answered the question. .
Yeah, well, not giving you the answer in some form you want to dictate, really doesn’t equate to not answering.

They want what straight people want.
 
Can I tell you someone won’t sue? No, of course not, all kinds of people file lawsuits, including those that cannot be won for a variety of reasons.

Will the Supreme Court ever find against churches in this matter?

Never. Not in this country. Freedom of religion is the religion of the US.

I doubt any lower court would, either.
Mark my words, it will happen, and some judge WILL rule in their favor. :sad_yes:
 
Did you ever think Catholic orphanages would be forced to shut down due to not adopting children to same sex couples…
They weren’t forced to shut down at all. They were denied government funding for their operations. They shut down because the faithful don’t give them enough money to operate and protect the poor children from the evil SS couples. So, essentially, YOU forced them to shut down.

Remember, Catholic charities is not the Church. Neither are hospitals or universities.
or that Catholic institutions would be forced to pay for contraception and abortofacient drugs?
Not the Church. And they aren’t, BTW. They can opt for insurance coverage that doesn’t include this in the plan. Individuals can contact the insurance companies on their own for those benefits. The burden is on the sinner.
 
Why a lifetime commitment? Why shouldn’t marriage licenses be like a driver’s license, something one must periodically renew (or else let it lapse)? Why not marry for four years at a time, like a presidential term? Or why not say that the marriage lasts only as long as the couple remains in love? Aside from the assumption of children (who in turn beget grandchildren), why value a long commitment? Why is one ten-year marriage better than three three-and-a-half year marriages? When marriage is redefined as being about the sexual / emotional satisfaction of the partners (and obtaining a few benefits from the government), there’s no reason why the length of the commitment should be a factor.

(I oppose same-sex marriage. I’m here wondering why I hear so many advocates for same-sex marriage talk about the importance of lifelong commitments—what’s so important about them?)
You make an interesting observation. As long as we’re redefining marriage as between two consenting adults, does this definition include marriage between a parent and their adult child? Between a father and adult son?
 
Like I said, *They want what straight people want.
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Uh, no. Straight people want to marry a member of the opposite and have conjugal relations which may result in pregnancy. Gay couples want the opposite of that. Further, they want the opposite of that to be called the same thing. It’s not the same thing.
 
To get to the next logical step. Filing lawsuits against churches that refuse to “marry” them.
If what I said here isn’t true then why aren’t civil unions sufficient. Especially if they offer the same protection under the law.
 
They weren’t forced to shut down at all. They were denied government funding for their operations. They shut down because the faithful don’t give them enough money to operate and protect the poor children from the evil SS couples. So, essentially, YOU forced them to shut down.
So they would still be operating if there weren’t same sex laws in Illinois, MA and DC? Not so.

catholicnewsagency.com/news/same-sex_marriage_law_forces_d.c._catholic_charities_to_close_adoption_program/

And who is mentioning the SS? A Catholic organizations, founded on Catholic principals aren’t allowed the dictates of their conscience.
Julia Mae:
Remember, Catholic charities is not the Church. Neither are hospitals or universities.
Once we’ve established “sameness” in the realm of marriage, how long before the first public accomodation lawsuits are filed against churches of any denominiation?
Julia Mae:
Not the Church. And they aren’t, BTW. They can opt for insurance coverage that doesn’t include this in the plan. Individuals can contact the insurance companies on their own for those benefits. The burden is on the sinner.
The bishops (unanimously) disagree with you.
It is now clear that all insurers, including self-insurers, must provide the coverage; and almost all individuals who pay premiums (whether enrolled in an individual plan or an employer plan) have no escape from subsidizing that coverage. Only organizations identified as “religious” (to be defined by later regulation) may qualify for the “accommodation.’
usccb.org/issues-and-action/religious-liberty/conscience-protection/upload/Twelve-Things-Everyone-Should-Know-About-the-Contraceptive-Mandate.pdf

Oh I know, “Not the Church”.

The fact that you defend these acts (Catholic Charities forced to stop adoptions, unconstitutional HHS mandate) only make the reality of gay “marriage” being used against the Church or “Not the Church” institutions or “Not the Church” individuals even more likely.
 
Yeah, well, not giving you the answer in some form you want to dictate, really doesn’t equate to not answering.

They want what straight people want.
I’m sorry if I didn’t stipulate that I wanted a clear answer, as opposed to an empty platitude.

I’ll be more specific:

What does gay “marriage” under CA law provide that same sex domestic partnership didn’t?
CA FAMILY.CODE
SECTION 297-297.5
…297.5. (a) Registered domestic partners shall have the same rights,
protections, and benefits, and shall be subject to the same
responsibilities, obligations, and duties under law, whether they
derive from statutes, administrative regulations, court rules,
government policies, common law, or any other provisions or sources
of law, as are granted to and imposed upon spouses.
Full CA law here:

leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=00001-01000&file=297-297.5
 
You make an interesting observation. As long as we’re redefining marriage as between two consenting adults, does this definition include marriage between a parent and their adult child? Between a father and adult son?
I think same-sex advocates would argue against those cases but it’s not clear on what grounds. Bachelor friends might marry for tax purposes with no pretense of being in love and no talk about eagerness to adopt. (Of course, there are heterosexual marriages of convenience, but they are seen as that, a sort of gaming the system.)
 
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