There are some really awful homilists out there. Some should know better, and some could do better. There is no doubt of that. Having said all this, though, I am reminded of a story told by Fred Rogers (aka Mr. Rogers).
He said that early in his career (I believe he was still in seminary), he was travelling and went to worship in a little church he had never been to. He suffered through the sermon, counting down all the ways in which in violated every rule of preaching. We are not talking about a guy who simply knew how to break the rules. This speaker was objectively awful.
Young Fred Rogers looked away from the pulpit for a moment and his eyes landed on a woman sitting near him. Unlike him, she had been transported. The Lord was speaking to her, using this awful sermon. Mr. Rogers immediately realized how important the attitude of the listener is, and tried to take on that attitude himself as a listener.
I have found great profit when I have taken his advice. If you are really listening, if you have the attitude, “Speak, Lord, your servant is listening”, you will be amazed at how God can use the worst homily you ever heard. It only takes a tidbit of gold, it really does. If your eyes are open, it will be there, that little sparkle.
If you are in a parish you don’t like, saddled with a priest you don’t like who celebrates Mass in a way you don’t like and who gives homilies that you don’t like to a bunch of lukewarm lunks whose presence could hardly be expected to be anything but a distraction to you, God can still use that. I am not saying that you have no right to find a more suitable parish, if the opportunity exists. But if it doesn’t, consider that you may be among those God will use as a pilot light of sorts. If you care, yet refuse to be lit on fire, then what hope is there for those who are too tired or apathetic to care? Yet God thirsts for all. If God wants to light you on fire, all you have to do is to try to stay tinder-dry, and not be wet blanket. God does the rest. There is a reason the rich are sent empty away. The rich don’t have that attitude that they will take what is offered. The poor are the ones that are open to the riches God has in mind.
Ask, and you shall receive. If you ask for a word, God will speak to you, if you are only willing to hear what He chooses to say (or how He chooses to remain silent), and do not insist on hearing what you had very much hoped to hear. With that attitude, though, I will wager that the words meant for you will leap out ten feet high, that you will hear words, spoken loudly, and perhaps more and better than you’d ever hoped.
Oh, and pray every day that God will give you a good priest, one who will offer the entire Mass well and who is a good confessor. You do want to ask Him for that, and as relentlessly as the old lady in the parable, who was after the corrupt judge to give her justice. It does far more good than complaining here. I expect you will be amazed.