Sure thing! And thank you for asking so charitably. I don’t expect you to share our views, but hopefully I can help explain why we hold them. I’ll reference Lutheran documents so you know I’m not imposing my own views.
We are
one with other Christians in a
visible means through the Preaching of the Word and the Administration of the Sacraments - namely, that we are all made part of the one, true church through Baptism. (
Article VII, Confessio Augustana)
All Lutherans practice ordination of their pastors with the laying on of hands by the surrounding ordained pastors, and in this way, preserve Apostolic
teaching. For Lutherans, it’s more than just “who tagged whom;” it’s also about maintaining the right teaching. No Lutheran has ever woken up and said, “Gee, I’m going to go be a pastor.” It doesn’t work that way. While Roman Catholics may view our ordinations to be invalid due to
intent (and/or
form), we know that our pastors are validly ordained. And that’s good enough for us. (
Articles XIV and
XXVIII, Confessio Augustana)