Why Do Most Catholics Ignore Humane Vitae?

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Charting does in fact involve the act since it helps confirm the time at which the act would be infertile. To say that it isn’t involved would be like saying prior reflection has nothing to do with confession.
This is just false. The act is not altered. Charting does not alter the act at all. The very nature of the act is unchaged. If you took a pill, or received an injection, or used a barrier that would alter the act itself.

Examination of conscience does not change the act of confession.
 
Did I say the conscience is supreme?
If you place subjective conscience over the moral law then yes that is your point.
I would say that if one has a justified conscience, that should count. A justified conscience is one that has examined all aspects of the issue at hand, including what authorities have to say. That does not mean they have to agree with those authorities. It also takes supreme God’s law. There is no question that God disapproves of murder - it is written in the Scriptures and, as Catholics would admit, on men’s hearts. The immorality of contraception is neither found in Scripture nor written on the hearts of men. If it were the condemnation of it would be far more widespread and unquestioned as a fact of morality.
That is your teaching not Christ’s.
Your own Church admits that a sun cannot be mortal if it is unintentional. I don’t think I need to define “hurt”, if you need help you can always use a dictionary. Sins such as theft and murder or maiming or greed hurt others in an obvious way, taking advantage of a person and seeing them as opportunities for gain, either material or sadistic, rather than living brings. Homosexuality carries a risk of disease far greater than heterosexuality, and at any rate is specifically outlawed in Scripture. Bad thoughts hurt ourselves. Contraception hurts neither the user nor anyone else.
Again that is your own erroneous conclusion.
That being said - indeed, what is love? Ask a hundred different couples and you’ll get a hundred different answers. Have it, and you’ll know.
Relativism is the issue as we can see here.
 
We are not talking about the act, but the conception. NFP is not against act, it is used to provide an act without conception.
The cycle already regulates conception. Is God’s design flawed?
The comments about semen made perfect sense. People chart because they intent semen to exit the woman’s body before a chance for conception comes.
No that is not their intent. That is how nature works.
 
Thanks for the link. I’m not saying that NFP is contraceptive. I’m saying that when using NFP, you are targeting those time where pregnancy is not possible…it’s unitive only. That is a contradiction.
No that is untrue. The unaltered act is always unitive and procreative. The action is ordered toward procreation regardless of the chance of conception.
 
The cycle already regulates conception. Is God’s design flawed?
Since conception is act of God’s will, cycle will not, by natural law, cause any effect.
No that is not their intent. That is how nature works.
Negative. The whole idea why they copulate on specific day is because of their intent to destroy semen before it has a chance to connect with egg.

This is how NFP works.
 
No that is untrue. The unaltered act is always unitive and procreative. The action is ordered toward procreation regardless of the chance of conception.
No such thing 🙂

The action is ordered towards sexual intercourse without procreation coming out of it. And since procreation was considered the only excuse for intercourse, NFP was considered unnatural.
 
The fact the early church fathers followed Greek paganism in adressing sexuality & hailed the body & sexual relations in marriage with disgust disqualifies all of them as authority on sexuality.Today such attitudes would bring scandal to the church & grave embarrassment
Then quit looking in the past and start reading the Catechism of the Catholic Church. All your unanswered questions are there and your foolish doubts will be answered.

P.S. quit stirring the pot.👍
 
Thank you. There is a lot of misinformation going around on the internet.

You have the right idea, but the wrong science. “Ovulation occurs over a period of about 15 minutes and even when more than one ovum is released, as in a twin pregnancy, the multiple ovulations occur very close together in time.” woomb.org/bom/science/physiology.html This is why NFP works. Genuine method errors are rare, but they do happen. Most of the time when a couple has an unexpected pregnancy, it is due to human error. But since 100% of couples who use it are human, this can be expected.

Oh, if you haven’t been to woomb.org, it is THE site for the science of NFP. The Billings Method is the foundation of all modern forms of NFP and was discovered by two married Catholic doctors in Australia who promote it in a non-sectarian way.

Their more “user friendly” site www.thebillingsovulationmethod.com is a great introduction to their method with full instructions. In my opinion it is the BEST NFP site on the internet and a link that you should forward to ANYONE who is wondering about Church teaching, any couple who is interested in an alternative to contraception, or just any woman who wants to know more about her body.
Thanks for that! Much appreciated! I do actually have friends who wish to use NFP/Billings which I’ve heard of. I’ll send them the link! 🙂

As for double ovulation, I’ve seen it first hand occur within a month spaced out approx 7 days apart. This is what happens when a woman’s period is all over the place. 😉

God bless and thanks for pointing out facts and not just your opinion or interpretation!
 
And I said in simple English how it relates to original doctrine.

I have. It has nothing to do with early teaching of the Fathers.

He thought procreation is only excuse for intercourse, and since Manicheans practiced NFP, he concluded they are avoiding the only good thing in sex (and experience only bad things).

I agree, but they can not be ignored or watered down when being reflected (as it is usually done in recent times). We usually speak of “constant teaching” regarding contraception and recall their sayings, but when these sayings are actually cited, it is obvious they had completely other system of values then us (and different conclusions regarding certain things, such as NFP).

If you are talking about sex between older people, then probably yes. However it is questionable whether St. Chrysostom would call a perfectly young and healthy woman sterile just because she has infertile period. And even more questionable is whether he would allow it’s “usage” to provide intercourse with lower chance of conception.

Also, Church after Chrysostom concentrated more on his negative side, and even today it tries hard to conceal such influences.
What exactly are you searching for? To me it looks like your mind is set in your ways. If you are truly searching for answers, you’ve definitely had them multiple times. If you’re only looking to stir the pot, this is not the place to do it. Go into your kitchen to do that.

Your interpretations of the early Church Fathers are misconstrued. See a local priest or theologian (which there are many of on this site). You can even ask a personal question on the matter to a Forum Master on this site if you don’t believe any other person, which to me it seems you don’t.

Can you do me a favor and just stop? It’s not worth your time to try and disprove all the Truths of the Catholic Church, especially with a closed mind.

As for what’s highlighted in red. Where do you get your facts? You’ve provided NOTHING but your own opinion on what Augustine or Chrysostom said, not what the Church teaches. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT!!!👍 God wants quality, not quantity. You’re pushing your opinion and that’s not being Christian/Catholic. If you continue to be uncharitable towards the Church like this, I will report you to the Forums.

God bless.

Dom
 
Since conception is act of God’s will, cycle will not, by natural law, cause any effect.
I have no idea of your point here. The marital embrace cannot result in conception every single time. That is how God ordered it. Engaging in the act while not ovulating is not only unitive is still ordered correctly. That is toward procreation.
Negative. The whole idea why they copulate on specific day is because of their intent to destroy semen before it has a chance to connect with egg.
This is how NFP works.
That is absurd. They do not intend to destroy anything.
 
No such thing 🙂
You mean you refuse to accept reality.
The action is ordered towards sexual intercourse without procreation coming out of it. And since procreation was considered the only excuse for intercourse, NFP was considered unnatural.
This makes no sense. The action is not ordered to conceive each and every time the act is done. It is ordered toward procreation not that conception must happen every time.
 
No such thing 🙂

The action is ordered towards sexual intercourse without procreation coming out of it. And since procreation was considered the only excuse for intercourse, NFP was considered unnatural.
Read Humanae Vitae, read the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Do your own research if you don’t believe what we are TELLING you the Church teaches. Read from the sources that will actually lead you in the right direction.

Is it too hard for you to understand that sex in marriage is not JUST about procreation? You’ve obviously skipped a whole BUNCH of paragraphs to lead to this conclusion. Read what the Catechism says on the matter. There you will find your answers.

God bless
 
If God permits the Pope to be an idiot/philanderer/liar/money-grubbing hedonistic jerk in person, then why was he elected pope? Because the church hierarchy is run by human beings. The pope and humanity as a whole have the responsibility of choosing the correct man for the job - God is under no obligation to accept whomever is thrown His way, nor can He be expected to “guide” the ill-elected pope to at least give correct answers on matters or doctrine. This goes for the magisterium as well. The job is to work out God’s will, not dictate it.

I find it hard to believe that God would guide the pope and magisterium to a particular point and allow the majority of laity, and a great deal of bishops and priests, to be misguided into grave sin. The poster above is true - before, the church was a community, now it’s just a dictatorship. Paul VI three times denied the conclusions of lay people, religious and clergy (apparently all badly misguided) in order to put his own personal views in place. It might be an old teaching (like women covering their heads - no longer practiced, BTW), but that doesn’t make it irrevocably right - at least not in all circumstances.

I have no guilt about taking birth control, and most of my Catholic sister Christians do not either. To suggest that we just jumped into the decision lightly without a thought would be a grave matter. We put thought and reflection into it - at least I did - and my conscience, throughout all the attempts to convince it otherwise I’ve put it through, cannot accept that birth control is immoral or wrong. If sex without procreation is a mortal sin, should I go to confession for every time I ate when I wasn’t hungry and didn’t need the food? For when I panted even though I wasn’t out of breath? When I used my toes to open a drawer instead of my hands?
You need to read up on how a Bishop is elected Pope. If you read the Catechism of the Catholic Church, you will understand the Church’s stance on contraception. You will also understand that sex without procreation is not a mortal sin… in MARRIAGE, as long as you are not using contraception. (Contra=against and ception=conception) You should also read Humanae Vitae. Also Theology of the Body is a great resource for understanding why the pill/contraception is wrong and is an intrinsic evil.

Have you heard the term anathema? You’re well on your way with talk like that.
 
Thanks for that! Much appreciated! I do actually have friends who wish to use NFP/Billings which I’ve heard of. I’ll send them the link! 🙂

As for double ovulation, I’ve seen it first hand occur within a month spaced out approx 7 days apart. This is what happens when a woman’s period is all over the place. 😉

God bless and thanks for pointing out facts and not just your opinion or interpretation!
No, what you probably saw was what is called a “Doubtful Peak”. It also happens if you get stressed around ovulation. If you were temping, you would only see one shift at the second “ovulation”. (That is why temping is a good idea if you can, even if you use Billings.) If your cycles are wonky, this may help.

woomb.org/omrrca/vigil/fertilityDisorders2.html

(WOOMB is great.)
 
This makes no sense. The action is not ordered to conceive each and every time the act is done. It is ordered toward procreation not that conception must happen every time.
Please explain to me how targeting the infertile period is open to life? Please answer that reasonably, I’ll go away on this topic.

How can you (with a straight face) say that knowingly having sexual intercourse during the infertile period is ordered toward procreation?
 
Please explain to me how targeting the infertile period is open to life? Please answer that reasonably, I’ll go away on this topic.
When engaging in sexual intercourse in the normal way, without physical or chemical barriers to conception, said intercourse is ordered toward procreation. This is true whether either or both are infertile or sterile. Neither fertility, nor sterility alter the procreative nature of non-contracepted sexual intercourse.
How can you (with a straight face) say that knowingly having sexual intercourse during the infertile period is ordered toward procreation?
Because it is true.
 
When engaging in sexual intercourse in the normal way, without physical or chemical barriers to conception, said intercourse is ordered toward procreation. This is true whether either or both are infertile or sterile. Neither fertility, nor sterility alter the procreative nature of non-contracepted sexual intercourse.

Because it is true.
Not sure you know what procreate means…

Definition of PROCREATE

transitive verb
: to beget or bring forth (offspring) : propagate
intransitive verb
: to beget or bring forth offspring : reproduce
 
Not sure you know what procreate means…

Definition of PROCREATE

transitive verb
: to beget or bring forth (offspring) : propagate
intransitive verb
: to beget or bring forth offspring : reproduce
Why do you presume that I don’t know the definition?

Where in Church teaching does it say that every sexual intercourse must bring forth life? You will not find it.

The Church teaches in Humanae Vitae that
. “Marriage and conjugal love are by their nature ordained toward the procreation and education of children. Children are really the supreme gift of marriage and contribute in the highest degree to their parents’ welfare.”
Please note the highlight modifiers of “procreation”.
 
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Dominique1234:
What exactly are you searching for? To me it looks like your mind is set in your ways. If you are truly searching for answers, you’ve definitely had them multiple times. If you’re only looking to stir the pot, this is not the place to do it. Go into your kitchen to do that.

I simply wish to discuss this issue with my fellow Catholics. No pots involved, altough I understand that topic can rise the emotion.
Your interpretations of the early Church Fathers are misconstrued. See a local priest or theologian (which there are many of on this site). You can even ask a personal question on the matter to a Forum Master on this site if you don’t believe any other person, which to me it seems you don’t.
I had my share of talking with priests and theologians.😉 I sincerely doubt that my interpretation suffers as you suggest.
Can you do me a favor and just stop? It’s not worth your time to try and disprove all the Truths of the Catholic Church, especially with a closed mind.
Look… this is a discussion on internet forum. If it makes you uneasy, rest assured that I don’t want you to feel that way. Some people say open mind is a problem, the other claim the opposite. I simply want to sit down, find the truth, and live according to it.
As for what’s highlighted in red. Where do you get your facts? You’ve provided NOTHING but your own opinion on what Augustine or Chrysostom said, not what the Church teaches. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT!!!👍 God wants quality, not quantity. You’re pushing your opinion and that’s not being Christian/Catholic. If you continue to be uncharitable towards the Church like this, I will report you to the Forums.
Ok, so what am I to prove? That Augustine claimed sex in marriage is of sinful nature? If you wish that, no problem. But I assume people already know my point.
 
I simply wish to discuss this issue with my fellow Catholics. No pots involved, altough I understand that topic can rise the emotion.

I had my share of talking with priests and theologians.😉 I sincerely doubt that my interpretation suffers as you suggest.

Look… this is a discussion on internet forum. If it makes you uneasy, rest assured that I don’t want you to feel that way. Some people say open mind is a problem, the other claim the opposite. I simply want to sit down, find the truth, and live according to it.

Ok, so what am I to prove? That Augustine claimed sex in marriage is of sinful nature? If you wish that, no problem. But I assume people already know my point.
Augustine claimed no such thing. This is what you are getting out of it, but it is misconstrued. If you call yourself open minded, then why are you so closed minded as to what you think Augustine meant by what he said?

You wouldn’t find truth if it hit you in the face. Re read this thread thoroughly. All the answers are there. You seem to refuse to see them.
 
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