Post #55 is what prompted my cautionary note.
Here’s my take on “debate”–I try to assume, with great humility, that there is someone who can refute everything I say and believe in. Even if the person that I am talking with is not that person, I try to realize that somewhere that person is out there waiting for me. Bwoo ha ha.
We ought never to believe that we have everything all sewn up neatly, because that’s when the “seam ripper” will tear us apart and render us useless.
We need to prepare ourselves to continue a debate for as long as it takes. I think sometimes, we want our debates to be neat, like they were in school competitions. Point, counterpoint, you win, I lose, or I win, you lose. But that’s not what happens when Catholics debate with Protestants. We walk away full of doubts (and so does the Protestant, BTW!). We need to enter into dialogue with Protestants for the long haul.
That’s one nice thing about the internet forums–we can continue discussions with other members for years, assuming that no one gets banned.