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thewanderer
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To the answer the OP
A lot of it has to do with the fact that people are not isolated, either in time or from one another. It seems that most people today think of themselves as an individual as if that meant that they were cut off from all other individuals, as if who they are is in no way dependant on where they came from or those around them. That just simply isn’t true. Who we are is shaped so much by not only our past but by others around us. Our relationships to other people are not somthing external to us, they are a part of who we are. I am a daughter, a sister, a fiance, and a friend. Similarly, our ancestry and the culture we come from, along with the traditions associated with that culture is also a part of who we are. So a complete and sudden break from traditions is, in essence, a complete and sudden break from who we actually are. Now, that doesn’t mean that traditions can never change, or evolve, or be left behind, that of course happens naturally over time. Just as when two people marry they often bring familial traditions from their family of origin with them, while also modifiying them, leaving some behind and beginning new traditions that fit well with them. But even in a case like this the traditions had a reason for such a change, there was need for the blending of two different lines of traditions. If withing one family, they developed all sorts of familial traditions, got icecream on sunday aftermass as a family, spent friday evenings playing charades, opening Christmas presents after the vigil mass etc etc and then all of a sudden, the parents decided that they were going to suppress every one of these traditions and instead try and impose all sorts of other ones in its place. It would be very disorienting and upsetting for the children. The traditions which were and are a part of who they are as a part of family have all just been removed and destroyed and now they are left trying to pick up the pieces. Thats kind of what happened after Vatican II. And because of that, because many people suffered the ill effects of having their traditions completely turned around they become very suspicious of having any traditions change or develop or be replaced. They are afraid that it will lead to a simlarly disorienting experience. So they have created a culture where people cling even more tightly to their traditions. They do not want either themselves or others to go through such an experience again. It is a very understandable reaction. At least, thats my take on it. I hope this helps.
A lot of it has to do with the fact that people are not isolated, either in time or from one another. It seems that most people today think of themselves as an individual as if that meant that they were cut off from all other individuals, as if who they are is in no way dependant on where they came from or those around them. That just simply isn’t true. Who we are is shaped so much by not only our past but by others around us. Our relationships to other people are not somthing external to us, they are a part of who we are. I am a daughter, a sister, a fiance, and a friend. Similarly, our ancestry and the culture we come from, along with the traditions associated with that culture is also a part of who we are. So a complete and sudden break from traditions is, in essence, a complete and sudden break from who we actually are. Now, that doesn’t mean that traditions can never change, or evolve, or be left behind, that of course happens naturally over time. Just as when two people marry they often bring familial traditions from their family of origin with them, while also modifiying them, leaving some behind and beginning new traditions that fit well with them. But even in a case like this the traditions had a reason for such a change, there was need for the blending of two different lines of traditions. If withing one family, they developed all sorts of familial traditions, got icecream on sunday aftermass as a family, spent friday evenings playing charades, opening Christmas presents after the vigil mass etc etc and then all of a sudden, the parents decided that they were going to suppress every one of these traditions and instead try and impose all sorts of other ones in its place. It would be very disorienting and upsetting for the children. The traditions which were and are a part of who they are as a part of family have all just been removed and destroyed and now they are left trying to pick up the pieces. Thats kind of what happened after Vatican II. And because of that, because many people suffered the ill effects of having their traditions completely turned around they become very suspicious of having any traditions change or develop or be replaced. They are afraid that it will lead to a simlarly disorienting experience. So they have created a culture where people cling even more tightly to their traditions. They do not want either themselves or others to go through such an experience again. It is a very understandable reaction. At least, thats my take on it. I hope this helps.