well they must be looking for positives then to disprove God’s existence

just just seem to always point out the pain and suffering parts.
Everyone has their role, could’ve been you, could’ve been me, we’re no better than anyone else, we can only console them and try to give them hope. I techincally should’ve died at birth but I made it through for whatever reason, maybe it was “God’s plan” for me, maybe it was luck…i’ll never know until i die.
I hear “well why do kids die” or “why are their amputees” or “why are there wars” a lot but we can’t speak for God as to why it all happens but because others may be in less of a position than we are doesn’t make them any less of a human being, or an outcast of society. Some monstrosities are committed by free will and affect others well being. IF there’s a God, it was our choice to have free will (Adam & Eve) and if we had a chance to do it over again and know for a fact that our world today would be the consequences (wars, famine, disasters, etc) my opinion would be that we would probably choose the same way because we don’t want anyone else in control of ourselves, we are ego driven creatures. I believe you just validated that by “not wanting to listen to daddy” and thats ok, its your choice. Apologies if i put words in your mouth.