Why do Protestants refuse to pray for the departed (dead)?

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Which doesn’t say either Lazarus or the rich man were not able if God permitted it, just that God had forbidden it for the rich man’s brothers. How is this conversation even happening if Lazarus and the rich man are ‘asleep’ in death?
 
Which doesn’t say either Lazarus or the rich man were not able if God permitted it, just that God had forbidden it for the rich man’s brothers. How is this conversation even happening if Lazarus and the rich man are ‘asleep’ in death?
Their bodies are asleep. The Bible tells us that. The Bible says that those who are dead are asleep and when Jesus returns their bodies will rise from the grave. That doesn’t mean they are not spiritually alive in heaven. Them being spiritually alive in heaven does not mean they see all/know all that is going on here on earth.
 
Their bodies are asleep. The Bible tells us that. The Bible says that those who are dead are asleep and when Jesus returns their bodies will rise from the grave. That doesn’t mean they are not spiritually alive in heaven. Them being spiritually alive in heaven does not mean they see all/know all that is going on here on earth.
To the first half of your post, that is exactly correct.
To the bolded, how do you know this?
 
To the first half of your post, that is exactly correct.
To the bolded, how do you know this?
I don’t. However, I also do not know if they can hear/see me. I don’t know who specifically is in heaven which is why I do not ask these people for prayers. Last thing I want to be doing is wasting my time, and possibly sinning, by asking someone who is not in heaven to pray for me. I am also scared of going from asking them to pray for me to actually praying to them. I am not saying all Catholics do that, but I have witnessed some of my own family members and relatives taking it a little too far. If I want people to pray for me I ask those Christians who are alive. When it comes to Jesus we all have a way to Him and He will hear my prayers and those living on earth just as loud as those living in heaven.
 
I don’t. However…
Anything you say after “I don’t” is rationalization based on what someone else rationalized themselves.
Many times the most honest answer anyone can give is “I don’t know”, the older you get, the easier that will be.
 
I don’t. However, I also do not know if they can hear/see me. I don’t know who specifically is in heaven which is why I do not ask these people for prayers. Last thing I want to be doing is wasting my time, and possibly sinning, by asking someone who is not in heaven to pray for me. I am also scared of going from asking them to pray for me to actually praying to them. I am not saying all Catholics do that, but I have witnessed some of my own family members and relatives taking it a little too far. If I want people to pray for me I ask those Christians who are alive. When it comes to Jesus we all have a way to Him and He will hear my prayers and those living on earth just as loud as those living in heaven.
Then you wouldn’t have a problem with a prayer like this:

“Saints in Heaven, please pray for me…”

Correct?

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I don’t have a problem with praying for the dead. I don’t think they’re in Purgatory or anything, but it’s not wrong to pray for anybody.
 
I’m a Protestant and I pray that God will tell my Gran who died a couple of years ago that I love her. I’ve also prayed that she is having a nice time with my Grampar (who I’ve never met) Thats not wrong according to the Protestant faith
 
I’m a Protestant and I pray that God will tell my Gran who died a couple of years ago that I love her. I’ve also prayed that she is having a nice time with my Grampar (who I’ve never met) Thats not wrong according to the Protestant faith
And knowing that they pray for us, it isn’t wrong to ask God to listen to their prayers for us, as well. 😉

Jon
 
One would think the prayers of the blessed in heaven, where there is no more sin or desire to sin, would be very efficacious for our needs, even more meritorious than those of our friends here on earth.
 
I’m a Protestant and I pray that God will tell my Gran who died a couple of years ago that I love her. I’ve also prayed that she is having a nice time with my Grampar (who I’ve never met) Thats not wrong according to the Protestant faith
Thank you.
My father died when I was 21. That was 28 years ago and I miss him terribly. Every now and then I tell him I love him, and I know he hears me.
Over the last five years I have done extensive research into my ancestry and have been introduced to family members I never met. When I pray the Rosary, I ask Mary to pray for theiir souls, and I know they appreciate it.
Because they don’t wand to be forgotten.
They do not cease being family members just because they died.
 
I pray there in glory, but where they are is based on there own decisions, they choose where they will remain for eternity.
 
I pray there in glory, but where they are is based on there own decisions, they choose where they will remain for eternity.
True this, but we are also told to pray for each other, so we have reason to hope that our prayers have the ear of our Lord and God.

Jon
 
I don’t know why he seemed cold & uncaring. I must be a different kinda Protestant because I believe in praying for people as they are dying and afterward. No one knows what happens after death- God alone is the judge. Why would it hurt to pray? The spirit lives on.
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Andrew,

We most certainly pray for the departed. As an example, the following is the commendation prayer from our funeral liturgy.

And, on All Saints ’ Day we raise up in prayer the names of those in our congregation who have died in the past year as well as others among the departed whose names are given by friends or family for remembrance.
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I pray for the dead because everything that is in me cries out that they desire our prayers.
As far as time vs eternity, I have seen cases of folks whose physical condition is changed even though, in the (recent) past, they were diagnosed as seriously injured/ill. This is “after” the prayers of God’s people. If (& I have seen this) a child’s jawbone is broken into pieces in a car crash, & people pray, & the next day, new x-rays show that the jaw is whole & normal, then God has reached into what we call “the past” & changed the case entirely.
In the same way, when we pray for the dead, they are not in time. Being beyond that limitation that we have, why would our prayers not be efficacious in eternity?
Besides, as I say, the heart cries out for the prayers for our beloved dead, as well as for ohters who have passed from this mortal life. It is not necessary to believe in purgatory in order to pray for the dead. (I do, in fact, believe that we all must pass through a process of cleansing to be ready for God’s presence, but it isn’t necessary to believe as I do in order to pray). What is necessary is to be open to the inner voice of God that speaks to those of us who know & love & serve Him, & to obey that voice.
I am a big believer that when God tells me to do something,** I had better be doing it**, and not arguing the exact theological complexities involved in the case.
I am the servant; He is the Master. I just do as He leads me, & He leads me to pray for those whose faces are no longer here with us on this old earth.
 
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I pray for the dead because everything that is in me cries out that they desire our prayers.
As far as time vs eternity, I have seen cases of folks whose physical condition is changed even though, in the (recent) past, they were diagnosed as seriously injured/ill. This is “after” the prayers of God’s people. If (& I have seen this) a child’s jawbone is broken into pieces in a car crash, & people pray, & the next day, new x-rays show that the jaw is whole & normal, then God has reached into what we call “the past” & changed the case entirely.
In the same way, when we pray for the dead, they are not in time. Being beyond that limitation that we have, why would our prayers not be efficacious in eternity?
Besides, as I say, the heart cries out for the prayers for our beloved dead, as well as for ohters who have passed from this mortal life. It is not necessary to believe in purgatory in order to pray for the dead. (I do, in fact, believe that we all must pass through a process of cleansing to be ready for God’s presence, but it isn’t necessary to believe as I do in order to pray). What is necessary is to be open to the inner voice of God that speaks to those of us who know & love & serve Him, & to obey that voice.
I am a big believer that when God tells me to do something,** I had better be doing it**, and not arguing the exact theological complexities involved in the case.
I am the servant; He is the Master. I just do as He leads me, & He leads me to pray for those whose faces are no longer here with us on this old earth.
Always blessed by your posts Zooey.
And uh…
WHERE THE HECK HAVE YOU BEEN?
We missed you here.
 
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