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Eileen_T
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Sorry, that’s what I meant. My sister wanted to marry a man who could not comsummate the married and was refused permission.Actually, Eileen, I think that an unconsummated marriage can indeed be a valid marriage if the two parties involved have made a vow both to be virgins and are ‘capable’ of consummating the marriage.
IOW, while a man who is not physically capable of consummating the marriage is not capable of entering a valid marriage, a man who (with the consent of his wife to be) wishes to enter marriage and to live together as brother and sister, though he is capable of consummating the marriage, can indeed enter a valid marriage.
That is the reason that Mary and Joseph’s marriage was valid, though it remained unconsummated. Tradition has it that Mary was a consecrated virgin who (in order to protect her) needed to have a husband ‘in name only’ who agreed to act as such.
I believe the marriages are called “Josephite” marriages today.
And I believe what it falls under is that the couple, though capable of a good thing (sexual relations) freely chooses an even better thing (virginity in the service of God).