i completely respect the catholic view on this issue and do not partake of the eucharist when i am at a mass (even though i believe in the real presence).
that being said, i do not agree with the “closed table” of the catholic (or any other denomination for that matter) church. if it is the body and blood of Christ, who are we to deny it to anyone. paul admonishes each person to take stock of themselves before coming to the table. he does not put that responsibility on a priest, bishop, or even the church. i do understand the desire to “protect the body of Jesus from would be corrupters” but i guess i feel Jesus can take care of Himself and doesn’t need me for protection. i don’t think He would fault me for trying to share Him with others. just my opinion.
i am not arguing, just stating my disagreement. i will always respect the wishes of those i am visiting (after all, i am the guest in those situations and the guest should not impose themselves upon their hosts).