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The existence of God does not imply that everything happens for a reason. There is an element of chance within the framework of Design. In an immensely complex system unwanted coincidences are bound to occur.
Not if one of God’s intentions is that we choose how to live!
Do you prefer being an insignificant, valueless freak of nature with no raison d’etre, free will or responsibility?
But if certain things happen for no reason, where is the justice in that? Surely God, being omniscient, knew that everything that has happened in the universe would happen. If God is a reasonable being, as I am sure you believe, then he let the events of the universe play out in this way for some reason. The problem I see is that there doesn’t seem to be any reason that God couldn’t have designed a “universe plan” with less unnecessary suffering. For example, according to the story of Adam and Eve, God intentionally placed the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil in the Garden of Eden, knowing that Adam’s and Eve’s eating its fruit would have disastrous (to say the least) consequences. Why was it necessary to do this? Was it a test of faith or conscience? If so, then couldn’t God have decided to give a less severe punishment? After all, according to the story, Adam and Eve couldn’t have had any conscience whatsoever before the Fall, since they hadn’t eaten from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Is this story supposed to imply that moral knowledge is a bad thing? There may be something to that lesson (responsibility can be a burden), but then why did God even give us a choice to do something that would doom us?
I don’t want to get into a big argument about free will and how far God is willing to go to defend it, but I do have to wonder why God would make sin appear so attractive in that story - and in our own lives. Couldn’t God have, for example, given humans a weaker sex drive, at least prior to marriage?
Anyway, onto your next remark. This is related to what I just wrote above. I understand that God, if he exists, wants us to be free to make our own choices and accept the consequences of those choices. However, again, why did God make some sins appealing? And for that matter, I don’t buy this idea that free will necessarily results in suffering. Here’s why: You believe that there is free will in heaven, correct? After all, free will is a good thing, and heaven is supposedly the greatest conceivable state of existence for humans. If that is true, then there is a paradox here. Free will must be in heaven, but suffering must not be in heaven. Therefore, free will could, conceivably, exist in a world without suffering. God could have designed such a world instead of this one. Oh, wait, he did, according to Catholics. Hmm…
Lastly, I think you’re being a tad melodramatic here. In a naturalistic world, I am not a “freak” of nature, and neither are you. Trust me, I had the same cynical attitude toward a world without God when I was a Catholic. But then I realized that truth was more important than comfort. I know you don’t think metaphysical naturalism is the truth, but suppose it is. Suppose you discover that you were wrong about your religious beliefs. Would you honestly think of yourself as a freak? Would you think that the people you love are freaks? Would you look at this world, this majestic cosmos full of myriad natural wonders and a rich culture, and say to yourself, “Meaningless! Worthless! Disgusting! All of it! I am nothing more than a horrible accident, some ugly product of chance.”
No, you wouldn’t. You know better. You are a mature person, and you realize that accidents can be beautiful. Look at a child, for instance. As far as we know, that child’s parents did not consciously choose exactly when to conceive him/her. They did not choose his/her genes, or talents, or weaknesses, or personality. Does the fact that that child was not a product of conscious design make him/her a freak? Even if you disagree that a human child is, technically, an accident, what about the random coincidences that you
do acknowledge? Are they
all repulsive and meaningless to you? If so, well, you are far more difficult to please than I am. Life is what you make of it, God or no God.