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Wannano
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Your experience growing up was so different than mine. I had virtually no interaction with Catholics until after college. My recollection of Catholics from my public school years is being told they considered themselves to be Christians which confused me because they were able to swear, smoke, drink and carouse at the dances and bush parties that I was not allowed to attend “because I was a Christian.”To me as a Catholic, I don’t really care what denomination a Protestant is. I only became aware that the Protestants had significant differences between their Protestant churches when I was in my early 20s and started meeting some Protestants for pretty much the first time. I grew up in a very Catholic area, and as an adult I actually met Jewish people, Muslims, Hindus and even a Sikh before I met a significant number of practicing Protestants. I probably met some non-practicing Protestants who had a general belief in God/ Jesus, but they didn’t attend church or seem to have much of a religious identity compared to the Catholics and Jewish people marching off to services and the Sikh going around in his turban.
I became aware of the differences between Protestants only as a side effect of the Protestants themselves being very aware and discussing them. For example, if I compared my husband’s Presbyterian family to the Anglicans (to me there was no difference because both sects came from UK and didn’t like us Catholics in the past), I would get this huge lecture on how Presbyterians are nothing like Anglicans, and Anglicans are “practically Catholics” (to which I strenuously objected since my grandfather would not even step foot in the National Cathedral of USA because he considered it “Anglican”). Even now we get discussions like the person on Calvinism thread wanting to explain to me how some Protestant sects that come from churches originally founded by Calvin aren’t “Calvinist” anymore. I guess if I were a student of religion, I might care, but honestly I don’t care about the 5000 little splinter groups Protestants have formed or what they believe, and I get the sense many Protestants don’t care either. They are like the people who are “spiritual but not religious” except that they find some church to go to services in, sometimes not even every week. Whatever.
For my clarification who are the “they” in your last sentence?