gregwiden40 said** : “Why do you have to be good and just, if God will ultimately test your faith?”**
Well, you certainly don’t have to be EITHER Good or Just.
In fact, you can go on a 3-state Killing Spree, if you like.
So, live on the Wild Side, I give you FULL Permission.
Some day, go to Confession, and everything’s cool.
And, he said** : “I’ve seen good people’s lives destroyed forever and unable to recover from the tests that were done to them (divorce, death of a family member, laid off from work, infidelity, lost of property and so on)?”**
I don’t understand what you mean here?
I doubt that God is testing people by killing-off their Family Members.
In fact, every, single Family member you have will be Dead soon enough (and you can blame God for all of them dying, if you choose to).
And, as far a Divorce, it takes 2 to Tango.
And on and on.
If a person decides to LOSE IT over Life’s events, that is his (or her) decision.
God offers a full-service Recovery Plan for anyone who wishes to Let Go of past Garbage.
Faith in God is a powerful positive force. So, if people LOSE IT, they know where to come to get over it.
But, what usually happens is that a person will swear at God for messing up his Life, and turn his back to God. This is a personal Choice.
Do you REALLY think that everything that happens in a person’s Life is a Test from God?
Do you think that God forces a Wife to cheat on her husband?
Or, that God makes a husband viciously beat-up his Wife on a regular basis?
If so, what is your rationale for thinking that this is (somehow) True?
If NOT, then what are you talking about?
And he asks** : “Is there a better way to avoid these tests that he wanted everyone to undergo?”**
I recommend Suicide, this will put an End to all of the Tests that you will ever have to take (and fail) here on Earth.
And, finally** : “If God is merciful, why won’t he lift a finger to stop the suffering?”**
What makes you think that God has NOT lifted a finger.
Things on Earth MIGHT be MUCH Better, because of what God has done for each of us.
In other words, if you think that THIS is Bad … you oughta see how Bad things could be.
Anyway, God created a “Perfect” place for Man to live … the Garden of Eden.
But, man was not made to put-up with no Conflict.
And, people only suffer if they choose to suffer about what happens.
Many people are in anguish because things are happening to people they don’t know (in Countries they have never been before).
People have an inherent need for Conflict (and feeling like the Earth is difficult) … Nobody wants to live in Utopia.
Better to say, that nobody who would live in Perfect Peace, would be very happy with that lifestyle after a short period of time.