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Casilda
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The church office staff at 4 parishes didnt inform me I needed a certified or updated copy, hence why it took me a year to finally obtain one, after searching for the original and futile attempts of calling and writing the parish of record for ‘a copy’. Laughs on me.It’s not “worthless”, it just isn’t able to be used for the purposes for which you wished it to be.
It may have been ‘moot’ in your case, but that’s one of the reasons it’s requested. Are you saying that your marriage was a Church marriage, but it was nevertheless not recorded? That’s a failure on the part of either the parish where you were married or the parish where your records are kept.
I was taught that the extract had to have been issued within six months of the date of the wedding prep meeting between the couple and the priest/deacon who would be performing the validation. Certainly, if we’re talking about a period of time greater than six months, then that’s sufficient time for another marriage to have taken place in the meantime. Without asking for a recent extract, your priest/deacon might be at risk of marrying a person who was not free to marry.
I’ve heard it the other way around: it’s not so much who asks for it as it is who receives it. Some priests prefer that it be sent directly to them at their parish office.
The point I am trying to make and why I tell everyone asking these questions here, is to forgo talking to office staff, make an appointment to speak with a priest directly to avoid the lack of correct information. I want them restored without the misinformation, the rigmarole, without having to wait for that return call that never happens, and to be informed of the correct process by the priest directly.