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Here is an excerpt from the book (p416-417) “The Fulfillment of All Desire” by Ralph Martin. He quotes St. Catherine of Sienna who is writing of a vision in which the Father speaks to her (I’ve snipped out a few sentences and paragraphs):

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For there is no one in this life, no matter how perfect, who cannot grow to greater perfection. And so that your fruit may grow and be perfect, I prune you by means of trials: disgrace, insults, mockery, abuse, and reproach, with hunger and thirst, by words and actions, as it pleases my goodness to grant to each of you as you are able to endure. For trial is a sign that shows whether the soul’s charity is perfect or imperfect.
…The fire of charity grows in the soul who has compassion for the soul of her abuser. For she grieves more over the offense don’t to me and the harm done to the other more than over her own hurt. This is how those behave who are very perfect, and so they grow…and so forget themselves…and the more they abandon themselves, the more they find me. If they only saw it, there would be no one who would not seek suffering with great solicitude and joy.
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There are over 400 pages leading up to the quotes above, so they perhaps won’t be as significant as if I had typed in all 400 pages.Could I not make it [suffering] otherwise? Yes. Then why does my providence do this? To give them opportunity for merit, to keep them in the self-knowledge whence they draw true humility, to make them compassionate instead of cruel toward their neighbors so that they will sympathize with them in their labors. For those who suffer themselves are far more compassionate to the suffering than those who have not suffered. They grow to greater love.
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