I do question the Church’s teachings on heaven and hell.
I am astonished that the Church does not see anything wrong in saying that the God would allow a juvenile to be in hell for eternity (I don’t believe any court in the US will send a juvenile to life imprisonment without the possibility of parole). What about unbaptized babies - where do they go if they die?
Again…stop comparing the Divine Judge with a US court.
Second: the Church has simply learned that Gold allows anyone to be in hell if he chooses so. Hell is not a “place” (though it is described as such), but a
state of the immortal soul. In eternity, the soul that has willfully chosen to reject God and turned his back on His love and forgiveness simply retains that choice. Eternity is outside of time. There is no “time” to realize one’s mistake and repent. There is no “time” to change our mind. If someone in the age of reason rejects God’s forgiveness and dies, he will see Christ willing to forgive him and allow him into heaven, but will run away from Him. He will experience the seraphic fire of the love of Christ, but that fire - that feels sweet and blissful for the angels and the saints - will feel painful because he is trying to reject that love.
I already mentioned to you that age means very little. I know of many very young children who endured heroic sacrifices in order not to reject God.
José Sánchez del Río was 15 years old when he was arrested for being Christian and Catholic. They asked him to renounce his faith in Christ and to shout “death to Christ the King”. He refused. He was forced to watch a Catholic being hung. Then they cut the bottom of his feet and obliged him to walk around the town toward the cemetery. They also at times cut him with a machete. Before witnesses - including his terrified parents - he said: “I will never give in. Long live Christ the King.” He was shot and stabbed to death.
Maria Goretti was a young girl of 11 years old who after First Communion promised to Christ that she would never willfully sin and offend Him. Trapped by a 19-year-old in a closed room who wanted to abuse her and threatened to kill her if she did not obey, she told him that she would not do so, because it was a sin, and pointed out to the young man that he was in danger of hell. He stabbed her 14 times. On her deathbed, she said: “I forgive him, and I want him in heaven next to me.” The attacker, sentenced to 30 years in prison, repented. After his sentence was completed, he became a laybrother of the Order of Friars Minor Capuchin, living in a monastery and working as its receptionist and gardener until his death.
And these are only 2 examples. If these two “juveniles” chose God and merited heaven, then age is not an excuse for those who reject God. Rejecting God does not mean to make a mistake. Rejecting God means to
know that a given action is a grave offense to God and
willfully choosing to do it without coercion or psychological traumas - their free choice. It is hard to know if any young man or woman who has committed truly grave sins have done so with a sufficient knowledge and a sufficiently deliberate consent. But if they have, then they chose to reject God, and God could not grab them by the hair and force them to fall in love with him - otherwise, He would be acting like that 19-year old farmer who wanted to force the young girl to love him when she did not. Is this the God you want to believe in?
As for unbaptized babies: the Church ever since the beginning, two thousand years ago, thought that there must have been a “special place” for unbaptized infants (ex. those who die unborn, or those who die before the age of reason unbaptized) which was called “the limbo of infants”, and which was presumed to be a place of heavenly bliss but lesser than heaven itself due to the fact that the infants would bear the stain of original sin rendering access to the vision of God impossible. The Church now has embraced a higher theological hope, that unbaptized children are by God’s own will admitted to heaven, since Christ said: “
let little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to these belongs the kingdom.”