This is an interesting topic because I also see the termoil in the church. some solutions are lots of confession help for the husband or wife and go to a priest that will say more than just pray for him or her! The church is not against social workers and doctors help, Holy water some on the persons computer chair helps, really. Now our priest has been talking comproomise in the relationship but I know he does not mean to compromise your faith. YOu know if you do this for me I’ll do that for you, I don’t know where that is in the bible. Abuse in terms of safety, I would tell them to go right to the family physician, a person can get safety without getting a divorce.dessert