That certainly wasn’t my personal experience. No one tried to convert me. I walked into an Episcopal church and said I was an “unhappy Roman Catholic”. I was invited to attend services. No material was sent me, no calls were made. I sought out the material when I felt that was ready to investigate further. In each step, I motivated it. No one ever urged me, said a bad thing about the RCC, or tried to get me “signed up.”
I admit, that my faith tradition has an inordinate number of ex-RC’s in it. But even they never speak against the Church. I have no bad feelings for it, and wish it well. I am concerned about the direction it is heading, but it is no longer my concern.
My church is not by nature an active proselytizing one. We have no such ministry, among the dozens available. We offer many many ministries designed to help people, but trying to convert someone is not part of the package.
There are people who come here who are RCC and are thinking of leaving. In no instance have I ever felt correct in trying to entice them to my faith. It is unseemly and unnecessary. If my church is worthwhile, it needs no promotion. We welcome all. No doubt we, like the RCC did plenty of it overseas, in the past, but we don’t know, at least as far as I’ve seen.