I see it as a family reunion where the host says don’t invite Uncle Chuck, Aunt Jackie, or Cousin Dave because they just won’t do what I want them to.
It is truly sad that you see it this way. Uncle Chuck, cousin Dave, and Aunt Jackie are all invited, but they choose to go to the neighbor’s reunion down the street. Only the separated brethren can choose to reunite, all we can do is invite.
The Eucharist is much more that “meaningful” as you put it. When I say “amen” as I receive Him, I say I would die to receive Him, and many have by saying this. This is the most “August” of sacraments that the Catholic Church through her ministers delivers to the faithful. That description is in Canon Law. The Eucharist is the summit of our worship and our lives as Catholics, as it should be because the Eucharist is Jesus! From the very beginning it is written that before one is to receive he must first be taught and come to believe.
All are welcome; some come home while others do not. If I invite you to come home and eat with us but when you sit to eat at my house I expect you to remove your hat. If you do not you may not be invited the next time, it is disrespectful. If you go to communion in the Catholic Church, chances are you will not be refused. Very seldom does this happen, the reason is simple, the minister most often has no idea who you are and whether you are able to receive. Therefore you are given communion.
But if you read 1 Corr. 11; 27-31, you will see there is scriptural basis for what the church teaches. If you see in Matt 18:18, whatever you (speaking to the apostles) bind on earth is bound in heaven, whatever you loose is loosed. The authority is given to the apostles to bind and loose. I believe the Church has the duty to keep the Eucharist as the most “August” of sacraments, with that come home and join in the Eucharistic bounty! If you choose to remain separate, then you are separate and not able to receive the Eucharist worthily. You can receive but it would not be a good idea for you, and it would be disrespectful.
But to say you are not welcome to come to mass is just not true.
