Dear MariaG,
I will try to respond as charitably to your post as I can, but I am angered by it. Are you even supposing that most US Catholics are good Catholics who know their faith well and practice it?
I have seen statistics that show that Catholics in this country believe more or less in the same percentage brackets as the rest of the country on all the controversial moral issues that the Church condemns. Why is that? Well, any knowledgeable and faithful Catholic (who is RARE in this country) knows why. Specifically, following what was otherwise a good council, Vatican II, liberals infiltrated the Church with gross misunderstandings and misinterpretations of it, and took positions to teach their severely misguided ideas in the Catechesis and seminaries. Consequently, the Catholic Church in the West now has a good TWO GENERATIONS of priests and laity who have been taught nothing but the liberal, spineless, water-downed fluff of Modernism. This is what the priests were taught, and it is what the laity have been catechized in, and it is what the faithful get, in general, at Mass on Sunday. Hence, the vast majority of both the faithful and laity in the West are CLUELESS about the meaning of life and of their religion. The extent of their doctrine is simply nothing but gumby, happy-happy-gerbil, smiley facie principles of “peace and love” and “sharing and caring.” And this is what they will be taught if they go to a Catholic elementary school, high school, or university. Therefore, sending your children to such places for education will only serve to destroy what little faith they have, unless you prepare them with ammunition and knowledge of TRUE Catholic doctrine. There is only a remnant minority of Catholic institutions in the country that teach the true Catholic faith, unadulterated by liberalism.
Now, I’m not saying that I can fully blame US Catholics for their ignorance because they have never been taught otherwise. However, it stands that the Church defines as dogma that a NORMAL adult person cannot live for an extended period of time before they begin to ask certain questions about the meaning of their existence. Therefore, even though the majority of Catholics in this country have been done a great disservice in their education, it doesn’t excuse them from earnestly searching for the meaning of life.
And, yet, as it stands, if some of them do come around and have a conversion, many times they will be angered by this disservice, that all their life as a Catholic, they were never warned about Hell or taught basic core doctrines that would lead them to a devout life. Consequently, they end up rebelling against the Church and joining some Fundamentalist Church that preaches a hard core message about conversion and salvation. I think the only thing that can bring them back is the grace of God to open their eyes and see that true Catholicism is not watered-down, mushy, liberal fluff, but that it is a deep and profound religion that can give them the fullness of the relationship that God wishes to have with them.
However, this problem is not so bad in other regions of the world. In Africa, the Church is growing tremendously, and it is right-on orthodox there. Also, in the former Communist nations of the East, the faith is also quite solid because the people have had to suffer, although the good faithful are a remnant there as here, for the communists all but eradicated the faith in many of these countries.
GB,
Scott