Why don't we come up with a new version of marriage for gay people?

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I think in so far as the churches and other religious groups go, it is ok for them to decide if they want to allow gay people to marry there or not. Given Catholicism seems to have rather conservative sexual mores, I doubt gay people would be allowed to celebrate a union in a Catholic Church anytime soon.
 
Since the Church is against gay marriage because marriage is the union between a man and woman, why don’t we come up with a union that is not called marriage that is between the same sexes? The Church states that homosexual activity is “unnatural” but God made them homosexual! Plus I read somewhere (I think it was on here) that humans have something in their brain that gives them emotions or something about sex while for animals it is just instinct. I know that same sex marriage isn’t exactly procreation but the couple could adopt a child that could really use a good home. What harm does that do? In my opinion, two people who love each other very much does not degrade the sanctity of marriage, people who cheat and treat their spouse badly do. Also, is it ok in the Church’s eyes for a homosexual to have a partner that they love as long as they are not married and they never have sex? Anyway, for those of you who are strictly against gay marriage, I think there are WAY BETTER things to worry about in today’s world than two people loving each other. Don’t we need more love in this world?! Anyway, that’s just my opinion and I am proud of it.
I’m not worried about “two people loving each other.” I’m worried about the government claiming the authority to re-invent marriage. That constitutes a direct threat to my own marriage, which is very much my business.
 
I am not so kind. God allows same sex attraction for, I think, the same reasons he allows other deviant behavior. Notice that we have people who cross-dress, we have the transgender types. and other such. Are we to offer ceremonies that joyn couples like this as well?
We already do offer ceremonies. Obviously not religious ones…but I’m sure there are people who cross dress here who marry other cross-dressers or not cross-dressers. A transgender person can marry anyone who is the opposite gender of what they are legally (they may have had it changed, they may not have). People with similar sexual fetishes probably marry quite often.
 
Hold on there…the Church does not teach that God *made *a person homosexual. God did not make a person homosexual any more than he made them fat or a drug addict. Studies have suggested that homosexuality is caused- at least in part- by environimental factors. Those have nothing to do with how God created them.

It does plenty of harm. The importance of the role of a mother- and the fact that a woman is needed to fulfill that role- cannot be underestimated. The same goes for fathers.

Profaning a sacrament is not a matter of opinion. If you try to confect it without the proper matter, form, and intent, you invalidate it- and profane a holy thing.

Sometimes people who cheat “love each other very much” as well.

Yes- totally. Homosexuals should surround themselves with people (of both sexes), who they can develop close, chaste friendships with. Friendship can be a very powerful thing, and its value is highly underrated in today’s society. Our world is in need of people- men and women- to be good examples of close, chaste friendship.

When you are faced with a large problem, do you try to solve all the little details, or do you go for the root of the problem? It makes more sense to me to go to the root of the problem, and try to fix that. As we get closer to fixing the problem at the root, the other problems that it causes will (perhaps very slowly) be solved. Many people point to the erosion of the family as the source for many of the world’s problems. Domestic abuse, abortion, euthanasia, physician-assisted suicide, homelessness, hunger, financial hardship- all these things, if you think about it, would be solved if families were strong. Strong families means everyone knows their vocation within the family, and everyone carries their weight to the best of their ability (and, out of love for their family, helps those who cannot help themselves). The family is the most important social entity- it is the foundation of society- when that’s falling apart, it only makes sense for everything else to.

Yes. All love comes from God- it cannot come from anywhere else. Homosexual actions are sinful- they do not come from God. They cannot be truly loving. I think many of those who commit them have good intentions when they do, but they are misguided.
m134e,
I like your answers. 🙂
This lifestyle is a sin and that’s the bottom line.
1Cor.6:9-11, Rom.1:24-32

God bless,
jean8

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