Why don't We Have Confessionals in England?

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One question that has struck me is why don’t we have confessionals in England ? When ever I had been to confessions as a child, or the ones recently as an adult it is face to face with a priest, rather than in a confessional.
 
One quiestion that has struck me is why don’t we have confessionals in England ? When ever I had been to confessions as a child, or the ones recently as an adult it is face to face with a priest, rather than in a confessional.
I prefer face to face, but because of convenience (time issue), I usually go in the confessional. I have never been to England, so I can’t answer the question. That is interesting though.
 
Our parish in England certainly has confessionals. Three, with one that gives the choice of moving round the screen to be face-to-face.
 
Our parish in England certainly has confessionals. Three, with one that gives the choice of moving round the screen to be face-to-face.
I have never seen one at all maybe if I head down I may see one. I am more in concern whether it would help my anxiety not sure whether face to face or confessional would be better. However I think my anxieties are probably going to be eased once I get there.
 
I have never seen one at all maybe if I head down I may see one. I am more in concern whether it would help my anxiety not sure whether face to face or confessional would be better. However I think my anxieties are probably going to be eased once I get there.
I have huge issues with anxiety because I have Asperger syndrome. I feel like it is easier for me to do face to face because of that I think it’s easier from a pastoral perspective too
 
I’ve never been to a church here without a confessional.

Maybe your church was a new age design? Or if depending on your age, confession has been done at school (face to face) and you just haven’t noticed the confessional “box” at your church.
 
It depends on the church. Our church had confessional boxes which were turned into storage areas and a new confessional area (with screen) was constructed and then demolished by a priest who preferred face to face. We don’t have the money to get a box back. But we still have churches with the box and I go to one which offers a box at a time I can manage.
 
Personally I prefer face to face.
I’m not kidding myself. They know who people are for the most part. And they’ve heard it all. It’s far easier to resolve not to do something sinful again when you’re looking at a person standing in the person of Christ. :o And that’s the whole point. 😉
 
I have confessed in a screened confessional in England. Maybe they aren’t common - I couldn’t say. But however rare they might be, confessionals do exist there.
 
Personally I prefer face to face.
I’m not kidding myself. They know who people are for the most part. And they’ve heard it all. It’s far easier to resolve not to do something sinful again when you’re looking at a person standing in the person of Christ. :o And that’s the whole point. 😉
Do you actually look at the priest when you confess face to face??:eek:

I can’t. If I do, I freak. So I look very hard straight at my little confession booklet that tells me everything I need to say or do.

At my First Confession, when I converted, it was face to face, but the priest covered his face with a little purple stole. So I assumed that face to face does not equal eye contact. So I studiously avoid it. :o

😊

(Obviously, I am a huge fan of having access to a screen even in an open reconciliation room.)
 
Do you actually look at the priest when you confess face to face??:eek:

I can’t. If I do, I freak. So I look very hard straight at my little confession booklet that tells me everything I need to say or do.

At my First Confession, when I converted, it was face to face, but the priest covered his face with a little purple stole. So I assumed that face to face does not equal eye contact. So I studiously avoid it. :o

😊

(Obviously, I am a huge fan of having access to a screen even in an open reconciliation room.)
I confess in the Benedictine abbey to which I am an oblate. There are two regular confessors, that both know me. And even the substitutes from time to time know me. There is the option of screen or face-to-face and I just do face-to-face, there’s no hiding. Plus both confessors are excellent and go above and beyond the call of simply listening and absolving. They work with regular penitents to help them on their conversion journeys.

Like Clare says, they’ve heard it all.
 
I confess in the Benedictine abbey to which I am an oblate. There are two regular confessors, that both know me. And even the substitutes from time to time know me. There is the option of screen or face-to-face and I just do face-to-face, there’s no hiding. Plus both confessors are excellent and go above and beyond the call of simply listening and absolving. They work with regular penitents to help them on their conversion journeys.

Like Clare says, they’ve heard it all.
Oh I have no doubt you are right about that. But I have a general problem of eye contact making me a bit nervous, and combine that with the fact that I must do or say certain things in order for it to be the proper matter for a sacrament, well, I know I would totally forget what I was supposed to do.

But then, I feel extremely uncomfortable when the priest makes eye contact with me in passing as he is giving the homily. I always try to look away if he starts to turn his attention to the side of the church I happen to be sitting in. It is just my weird thing about eye contact, then, not the confession itself. My pastor at my previous parish probably always knew it was me, even though we had an old-fashioned confessional.
 
Most of the churches I’ve been to have confessionals. I can only think of literally one or two which haven’t got a “standard” confessional - and the one I’m particularly thinking of is a “reconciliation room” with the option of kneeling behind a grille if so wished.
 
I don’t recall ever being in a Church in England that doesn’t have a confessional.
 
Do you actually look at the priest when you confess face to face??:eek:
I know you didn’t address this to me, but I’ll give you my answer. 🙂 I almost always confess face-to-face and haven’t gone behind a screen in years. My current confessor is a Byzantine priest, and in the Byzantine rite, we confess in front of an icon of Christ, with the priest standing off to the side, so I would have to take my focus off of the image of Christ to turn to Father. It is very easy to avoid eye contact. When I confess to Latin priests face-to-face, they are almost always looking down or otherwise avoiding eye contact.

I often make eye contact while Father is giving me advice, particularly if the advice takes a few minutes, but even then, it would be easy to avoid. My priest knows me really well, though, and eye contact with him doesn’t bother me. I would probably not make as much eye contact with a priest that I didn’t know well.
 
One question that has struck me is why don’t we have confessionals in England ? When ever I had been to confessions as a child, or the ones recently as an adult it is face to face with a priest, rather than in a confessional.
You most certainly do - in fact London was where I started going to confession again precisely because of confessionals (neither my parish, nor Westminster Cathedral offered any other option).
 
Canon Law states that Confessions are not to be held other than in a Confessional except for a good reason. Canon Law also states that Confessional must be fitted with a fixed screen. Confessionals without fixed screens breach Canon Law.

Can. 964 §1. The proper place to hear sacramental confessions is a church or oratory.

§2. The conference of bishops is to establish norms regarding the confessional; it is to take care, however, that there are always confessionals with a fixed grate between the penitent and the confessor in an open place so that the faithful who wish to can use them freely.

§3. Confessions are not to be heard outside a confessional without a just cause.
 
I too have never seen a catholic church in England without a confessional.
Oh there are some around. However London seems to be particularly blessed with some very fine churches, and traditional Confessional boxes seem to be very common. Perhaps the same situation doesn’t apply in small towns.

While we’re on the subject of London churches, one that always impresses me is Corpus Christi church near Covent Garden. A beautiful little church (with a beautiful side chapel to Our Lady of Walsingham) confession offered half an hour before every Mass, and the best example of ‘reform of the reform’ Novus Ordo Masses I’ve ever seen (also TLM Mass weekly). The parish priest is top notch as well. Anyone who is ever in London should visit it.

corpuschristimaidenlane.org.uk/
 
Oh there are some around. However London seems to be particularly blessed with some very fine churches, and traditional Confessional boxes seem to be very common. Perhaps the same situation doesn’t apply in small towns.

While we’re on the subject of London churches, one that always impresses me is Corpus Christi church near Covent Garden. A beautiful little church (with a beautiful side chapel to Our Lady of Walsingham) confession offered half an hour before every Mass, and the best example of ‘reform of the reform’ Novus Ordo Masses I’ve ever seen (also TLM Mass weekly). The parish priest is top notch as well. Anyone who is ever in London should visit it.

corpuschristimaidenlane.org.uk/
London does indeed have some very fine churches, and almost all the central ones have a sung Latin mass sung to a polyphonic setting every Sunday.

I am a big fan of the liturgy at Westminster Cathedral (full sung Vespers and sung mass every day) which has a warm Catholicism.

I also like Farm street church in Mayfair : farmstreet.org.uk/default.php

St James in Marylebone: sjrcc.org.uk/

But a hidden gem is St Etheldreda, a beautiful and one of the oldest churches in London. A full sung Latin mass every Sunday: stetheldreda.com/

I am not so keen on the Brompton Oratory - despite the beauty of the building and the fine choir, I find the liturgy rather stiff and uninspiring.
 
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