Why not tell people what they SHOULD do instead of preaching (literally, in this case) about what they SHOULDN’T do?
I’m with @CD45 on this. We had two priests. One was an excellent homilist - he didn’t shy away from issues like reconciliation and our need to seek forgiveness for wrongs, to be aware of our failings in our daily life, but the emphasis was on how we use Jesus’s example to do better. To be better people and to grow closer to God.
The other talked constantly about how we were sinners and failures and how we needed to be grateful that God loved us because of how we failed so often and on and on and on.
The first priest left on a trip for a short time (like, weeks, not months), and by the time he came back the daily Mass attendance had dropped to half. He and I were talking just after he got back, and I had been so beat up and bothered by the constant negative tone of the Masses during his time away that he said something like “So how did you all make out with Fr X?” and I broke down into tears because Mass had gone from something I loved to something I dreaded in that short period of time.
Jesus said to go forth and spread the Good News. He didn’t say to go forth and chastise the sinners. I think we need to focus on spreading the Good News.