If we insist on having a hymn after Mass is over and none is necessary, and then chose to call it the “recessional hymn” let us not be surprised that people are recessing. It would make more sense to have a post-Communion hymn and have an instrumental recessional. That way DM’s and choirs can stop pulling their hair out in frustration.
This is true. I do like instrumental recessionals. We will have organ recessionals at our parish maybe about twice a month for all the masses. Since I cantor, I prefer this because I don’t have to stay in the sanctuary once the priests/deacons recess out.
That said, even if the last hymn is called the “Recessional Hymn” or “Closing Hymn”, etc. it makes you wonder why people are so eager to leave – and it’s not for the social in our chapel hall after the mass as we had that last Sunday and it wasn’t that well attended. My family was usually one of the last people to leave the church. We stayed inside to pray, etc., so it just was never an “option” or a thought to leave until after we were done the hymn and there was quiet. I don’t ever remember leaving while the hymn was still going on, except recently when I attend mass as a congregant before the mass that I cantor. (Sometimes the mass will go over an hour and the 12:15 starts in the chapel, so I have to be in the Sacristy for that mass.) In our parish in the country where I spent half my childhood, everyone stayed to the last verse, then we’d all leave and then we’d socialize out in front of the church. In my childhood home parish in the pseudo-country (which has now become the outskirts of the suburbs), people race out.
Living in between two major metropolitan cities, I’ve found that the closer you are to a busy city, the more eager people are to race out of church and into their cars. It’s not just like this for mass, but for everyday life. It’s one huge race as to who will beat the traffic and waiting in lines. I find this especially obnoxious with people who commute back and forth to NYC from where I live. I sometimes have to take train back from NYC during rush hour (which makes me literally sick and claustrophobic) if I have a late lesson, music coaching or an early rehearsal. The people will trample you and not feel any remorse. As soon as they get off the train, they will literally make a mad dash to their cars to “beat” the traffic, which really isn’t that bad. I’m always just shaking my head when I see them running in their suits and dresses. It looks absolutely ridiculous and obnoxious.
Anyway, I give that example because I just think people have become so impatient today and I see that same attitude when they leave mass.
Did people do this “back in the day” prior to the 1980s and 1990s or did they rush out before the hymn or instrumental was completed?