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I think you have to be careful about assuming that abuses that you see regularly in your area of the U.S. are also common in the rest of the U.S.OK. I was only relating what I had seen. I also have seen women dancing up and down the aisles, accompanied by a huge projected music video at the same time. Further, in the local Catholic church, there was a Mass in honor of the Chinese New Year. During the Mass, a large dragon puppet was snaking throughout the church and we were told that if we touched the (puppet) dragon, we would get good luck.
A few of my posts have been flagged and deleted already, so I am reluctant to go into further detail. I don’t want to offend anyone. I am only trying to answer, at least partially, the question asked about what changes you don’t like.
Some people like these changes, which is OK. I am just giving my personal opinion and I hope that these answers are not annoying, but I can understand why you might not like them.
I’ve traveled quite a bit, too (throughout the U.S.), and the one place where I have seen really bad stuff (e.g., dancers, the priest drinking coffee while saying his homily and performing the consecration!–yes, he had a steaming cup of java sitting on the altar!), was in the Minneapolis area.
But in all the other places I have attended Mass, I have not seen abuses. In my diocese, we never see them. The closest I’ve seen to an “abuse” is when the priest of one of the small town parishes provided the music (played piano and sang the Mass responses)–frankly, I was touched that rather than doing a music-less Mass, he was willing to do the extra work! (I love music, and I play organ/piano in several parishes, and I would have been glad to play if I had known there was a need!).
So perhaps if you are suffering over the abuses that you see regularly, you might want to consider a move. It’s hard to leave your home and familiar surroundings, but it might be good for your soul to be able to experience reverent, abuse-free Masses every time you serve at Mass.
I live in Northern Illinois, by the way, if you’re looking for a good place to live. But Illinois itself is a disaster (the state will be broke/underwater by 2028 if nothing is done about the pension crisis, and nothing will be done unless the State Constitution is amended), so it might be wiser to move to extreme Southern Wisconsin (Janesville, Beloit, Monroe, etc.) and travel across the border to our area for church, although from what I have seen of Wisconsin, their Masses are even more reverently-done with more traditional trappings than ours!
Godspeed to you in your search for a reverent Mass.
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