Good point.
In the “old country” (I’m speaking here of Middle Eastern, but I believe the Slavic reality was pretty much the same – with the normal cultural variations), married priests were also known as “village priests” and often had a heard of sheep or goats to tend. Or a small plot of land to farm. Or a wood bench and lathe, etc, to make furniture (shades of S Joseph there, but it was real.) No matter what it was that they did, they did it to support the wife and children. In other words, they were part of the village, not separate from it. Whatever the trade, the diocese didn’t support the priest’s wife and children. The priest did. The demands on them as priests were certainly real, but it was within the context of a small community where everybody knew everybody’s name (sounds almost like a plug for the old TV show “Cheers” doesn’t it?).
As a “cradle Oriental” I am, of course, not opposed to the ordination of married men. It’s part of our tradition (and a venerable part – there are a few in my family tree), and even S Paul speaks to it. At the same time, though, I’m not thrilled with the idea that a married priest’s wife and family should be supported by the diocese. The “old way” was otherwise, and IMHO that same “otherwise” is just as valid now. I’ll likely get slammed for supporting the “worker priest” idea, but in the case of married men, that is exactly the tradition. Yes, in the 21st century telecommuting might be the replacement for the seep and goats, but the underlying principle remains. Personally, I see no reason to change it.
Just my :twocents: