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Mintaka
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I don’t have any sort of traumatic story; but here goes.
When I was a kid, we were taught to receive communion on the tongue.
Sort of. By that time in the Seventies, people weren’t supposed to kneel to receive anymore. So we stood, and we were just little kids, so nobody taught us to tilt back our heads and stick out our tongues – just open our mouths. Short first grade kids are the perfect height for this to work.
But as you grow, it gets less comfortable to stand and receive communion on the tongue. If you’re an adult and standing, it’s really not particularly comfortable to tilt back the head and stick your tongue out. In the old days this was no problem, because everybody knelt. But in the new days when people were taught to not kneel, it becomes a real problem.
Also, Father stopped deploying one server with a paten to help him alone distribute Communion. Without kneeling and the communion rail, it took a long time. With Communion under both species advocated all the time, Father always needed an EMHC because there weren’t a zillion priests back in the rectory. Once there was one EMHC, why not have several lines for Communion and no patens at all?
Most people were uncomfortable receiving Communion on the tongue from a non-priest. Also, without a server with a paten, Communion on the tongue seemed very precarious, especially if the EMHC was a short woman trying to give Communion to a tall man who was supposed to keep standing. Some would cross to receive only from the priest (my grandpa for one), but most just gave up and received in the hand from some generic EMHC.
So… it’s not really that Communion in the hand is popular. It’s that the default option was systematically made almost impossible to receive on a regular and safe basis. I don’t think any of it was intended that way; but the unintended consequences were always bad for Communion on the tongue; and then people forgot that you could do it.
When I was a kid, we were taught to receive communion on the tongue.
Sort of. By that time in the Seventies, people weren’t supposed to kneel to receive anymore. So we stood, and we were just little kids, so nobody taught us to tilt back our heads and stick out our tongues – just open our mouths. Short first grade kids are the perfect height for this to work.
But as you grow, it gets less comfortable to stand and receive communion on the tongue. If you’re an adult and standing, it’s really not particularly comfortable to tilt back the head and stick your tongue out. In the old days this was no problem, because everybody knelt. But in the new days when people were taught to not kneel, it becomes a real problem.
Also, Father stopped deploying one server with a paten to help him alone distribute Communion. Without kneeling and the communion rail, it took a long time. With Communion under both species advocated all the time, Father always needed an EMHC because there weren’t a zillion priests back in the rectory. Once there was one EMHC, why not have several lines for Communion and no patens at all?
Most people were uncomfortable receiving Communion on the tongue from a non-priest. Also, without a server with a paten, Communion on the tongue seemed very precarious, especially if the EMHC was a short woman trying to give Communion to a tall man who was supposed to keep standing. Some would cross to receive only from the priest (my grandpa for one), but most just gave up and received in the hand from some generic EMHC.
So… it’s not really that Communion in the hand is popular. It’s that the default option was systematically made almost impossible to receive on a regular and safe basis. I don’t think any of it was intended that way; but the unintended consequences were always bad for Communion on the tongue; and then people forgot that you could do it.