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That is precisely what it means. If sins are retained they are not forgiven–because the penitent did not meet the criteria for absolution. It’s a definitive reality.Hmmm. I am trying to determine here whether your statement “sin is retained” is equal to “God does not forgive you”.
He always forgives us if we repent. It’s not that he withholds forgiveness it’s that we decide we don’t want it.God always forgives, us. Always. Yes, there are no “shades” of forgiveness.
If we were to use your indeterminate definition we couldn’t know if we were forgiven or not. The sacrament would be useless and pointless.Reconciliation, however, has a lot of gray area, does it not? The will of God is constant and unceasing, desiring relationship. The will of the penitent, and arguably all of us, is not necessarily an “on/off” switch; the nuances are as numerous as the varieties of awareness we have. We are all sinners; we all see with some fogginess.
Not all come to confession to be reconciled to God and the Church but to excuse themselves or to defy the sacrament. It happens. It’s not the usual scenario for penitents, but it can happen. There’s no “quick prayer” about it. The penitent is expected to relate all his mortal sins that he can remember and meet the criteria of repentance. If he doesn’t, the priest can retain his sins. This is a safeguard for the penitent as well as the Church. If a person is not repentant but receives the sacraments, he is receiving them falsely and incurring sin, perhaps mortal sin. Confession is an interchange between confessor and penitent in which both are supposed to be there in truth and for the same purpose. It’s on the head of the penitent if he will not repent, not the priest.The person who comes to the confessional is the prodigal son, who the Father rushes to embrace. Any stance contrary to this goes against the spirit of the Gospel. The penitent’s feet say “I wish for reconciliation”, and sometimes it takes more than a quick prayer to work it all out.
Are you coming from the side of the Gospel that says that God forgives conditionally?
There isn’t any “side” to come from. Forgiveness has always been conditional from Adam and Eve down to today. The prodigal son was repentant–he didn’t come home and tell his father, “Well, I don’t regret breaking your heart, living a life of dissipation, losing your money and acting like a fool, but since I’m here you’re obliged to take me back.” His very demeanor shouted repentance when his father rushed out to meet him.Thanks for your response.![]()
You are advocating the same idea as the once-saved-always-saved people do–that God forgives before we repent of future sins. That’s not how it works. Sure, he knows we will repent, but we live in time and are limited by time, and the onus is on us to demonstrate repentance, not presume upon God’s mercy and do whatever we want and sin as we please. If a person comes to confession and falsifies his intentions, then he has only added sin to sin and no, he will not be forgiven. If the priest assesses that a penitent is not repentant, he has the right and obligation to withhold absolution for the good of that person’s soul–to prompt him to come back truly repentant.