…cont.
Why is it arrogant to think that I’m in control?
Did you create yourself? No. So why would you think that you are in control? I think you’re talking about free will. Many people misunderstand free will.
If we both went into a job interview and got turned down, you might say that God is watching you and has a plan and he purposely made you get turned down from this job for a reason.
The first part of this post is true. But I don’t believe that God
purposely made me get turned down. I wouldn’t put it quite like that. I have the responsibility to do research on the company where I want to work. I have the responsibility to brush up on my interviewing skills. I need to work on my approach with the interviewer. I also can’t be stupid enough to interview for a position where I clearly know that I do not have the skills for such a position. That would be arrogant of me. And I do believe certain things happen for a reason. That’s God for you.
I would say I got turned down because of my qualifications, poor interviewing skills, or that the interviewer just didn’t like me.
I agree. This is what I would think. But I would also think that God has a plan for me. It’s not
either, or, it could be
both, and. Why can’t you believe that it could be both? The poor skills
and that God has a plan for you?
What is wrong with thinking I’m in control of my own actions?
You are responsible for your own actions but if not for God you won’t be able to do those actions. Therefore God is in control. He’s the one that gave you life. Without God you can do
NOTHING. Even if you do not do God’s Will, it is still God that is allowing you to move about.
But anybody would be nervous walking on water. Why is it so bad that Peter took his eyes off of Jesus and thought to himself “How is this happening? I shouldn’t be able to walk on water.”
I never attempted to walk on water so I would not know what that is like. But I can say taking your eyes off Jesus would be arrogant. Why? Because you thought you can walk on the water all by yourself without having faith in Jesus to guide you along the water. Now of course I’m not talking literal water. I’m sure you get what I’m trying to say here.
It may be easy for you, but it’s not easy for everyone to trust someone or something they’ve never seen, heard, or felt.
Faith. It takes the gift of faith for it to be easy for you. We need to walk by faith not by sight. That’s what Peter did. He used his own “sight” instead of having faith in Jesus and that’s why he started to sink.
Pray.

Ask God for the gift of faith so that you too can believe.
I think you’re missing my point. A major point of contention between Catholics and Orthodox is whether the Holy Spirit proceeds from the Son or through the Son. This is one of the issues that have led to a split in the church and people being killed. Why does is it so important that I believe that the Holy Spirit proceeds from the son? This doesn’t effect my daily life in the least bit.
When we say the Credo, we must believe that the Holy Spirit proceeds from the Father and the Son. Now if I go about my day believing that the Holy Spirit does not proceed from the Son then it would be a problem because that is just not true. I just don’t think about it on a constant basis. But I do have to believe as the Credo says. The order of the procession of the three persons is a doctrine of the Church.
Gal 4:6
God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts
Rom 8:9
Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to him.
Phil 1:19
through your prayers and the help of the Spirit of Jesus Christ this will turn out for my deliverance
Luke 24:49
I am sending the promise of my Father upon you.
John 15:26; 16:7; 20:22
“But when the Helper comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, the Spirit of truth, who proceeds from the Father, he will bear witness about me."
for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you.
And when he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them, “Receive the Holy Spirit.
Acts 2:33
Being therefore exalted at the right hand of God, and having received from the Father the promise of the Holy Spirit, he has poured out this that you yourselves are seeing and hearing.
I do believe that what we believe does effect our daily lives more than you think and possibly in ways you might not think.
If we cannot please God without faith, why doesn’t he make it more clear? Faith just doesn’t come natural to a lot of people.
If God actually spelled it out for us then it wouldn’t be faith now would it? As I said before, we do not have to understand in order to please Him. We just have to have faith. Faith doesn’t come
natural to anyone. It has to be given to us by God. That is why you have to pray for it and be open to it if you ask God to give it to you. If you really wanted to have faith then you would be open to it and you would have it. Your pride is getting in the way. God only reveals Himself to the humble of heart.