Why is my sleeping so weird?

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I am a light sleeper and I have never been a good sleeper but in recent years it’s getting worse. I go to bed and maybe read before I sleep for awhile. When I try to sleep then my brain can’t stop thinking I can’t get myself to relax then which causes me to tussle and turn most of the night. Last night is another example I felt like I had my eyes closed all night but I wasn’t asleep as I couldn’t get my brain to stop thinking but I thinking I was dreaming different times throughout the night. This morning I woke up with a slight headache and sense neck and shoulders…I’m wondering did I even sleep at all? Please pray this will stop, this happens quite often and it can be very frustrating. I have OCD/anxiety but I suffer worse with anxiety I wonder has it any connection. Thanks if you get the chance to read this any help would be much appreciated.
 
I am a light sleeper and I have never been a good sleeper but in recent years it’s getting worse. I go to bed and maybe read before I sleep for awhile. When I try to sleep then my brain can’t stop thinking I can’t get myself to relax then which causes me to tussle and turn most of the night. Last night is another example I felt like I had my eyes closed all night but I wasn’t asleep as I couldn’t get my brain to stop thinking but I thinking I was dreaming different times throughout the night. This morning I woke up with a slight headache and sense neck and shoulders…I’m wondering did I even sleep at all? Please pray this will stop, this happens quite often and it can be very frustrating. I have OCD/anxiety but I suffer worse with anxiety I wonder has it any connection. Thanks if you get the chance to read this any help would be much appreciated.
 
I am a light sleeper and I have never been a good sleeper but in recent years it’s getting worse. I go to bed and maybe read before I sleep for awhile. When I try to sleep then my brain can’t stop thinking I can’t get myself to relax then which causes me to tussle and turn most of the night. Last night is another example I felt like I had my eyes closed all night but I wasn’t asleep as I couldn’t get my brain to stop thinking but I thinking I was dreaming different times throughout the night. This morning I woke up with a slight headache and sense neck and shoulders…I’m wondering did I even sleep at all? Please pray this will stop, this happens quite often and it can be very frustrating. I have OCD/anxiety but I suffer worse with anxiety I wonder has it any connection. Thanks if you get the chance to read this any help would be much appreciated.
It’s probably related. Have you practiced relaxation with the people who help you treating your OCD and anxiety? I think that would be the place to start, and then consult a sleep specialist.

My mind likes to “go go go” too, especially at night. I started doing the same as I do for my kids: I have a set bedtime routine to help me relax for bed, I turn off screens early (the blue light used in the screens stimulates our brain to make us think it’s daytime), say night prayer, and keep a little bottle of holy water by my bed to bless myself with before sleeping. I also have an essential oil diffuser that I will run with a drop or two of lavender oil, which is calming. Room darkening curtains, and I run a fan for white noise (a humidifier in the winter). I exercise regularly so my body is tired, and I don’t eat junk or drink alcohol in the evenings - if I do I will have a bad night.

On the nights I just can’t sleep I will say the rosary as I lie in bed. That typically does the trick. Someone told me once that praying the rosary while going to sleep is like having Mother Mary rock you, and I love that image. When I do have trouble sleeping, it’s often because for some reason I feel tense and unsafe. Even if I don’t fall asleep, praying the rosary never hurts.

I don’t think we need to fret too much about the occasional bad night. They happen to everyone - everyone! But when they start happening a lot in a row, that’s the time to get concerned. There are medications too that can help, but I wouldn’t necessarily start there because they can be habit forming. But consult your doctors and therapists on that. 🙂

God bless you.
 
Bring this up with your doctor. This is a physical or mental health issue at its core and it needs evaluation.
 
Anxiety by definition will keep someone from relaxing and if you can’t relax, you can’t sleep. I concur with those who said take it to a doctor.

ICXC NIKA
 
Anxiety by definition will keep someone from relaxing and if you can’t relax, you can’t sleep. I concur with those who said take it to a doctor.

ICXC NIKA
I disagree, too many doctors will only prescribe a drug or possibly even refer you to a head doctor.

As pensmama87 said, " I exercise regularly so my body is tired, and I don’t eat junk or drink alcohol in the evenings". I am also a light sleeper. If I don’t get the right balance of exercise/work/physical activity, whatever you want to call it, and rest, it’s very difficult to sleep. I generally need lots of physical activity. If my body is tired from a long day’s work, {construction type work, with a family at the end of the day} I don’t have energy to worry. Incidentally, being on CAF too much is not good for me getting a good nights sleep.
 
Sounds like me. A combination of getting older and life stress. Try saying the rosary silently, I usually fall back to sleep before half a decade!
 
this is a question that can be addressed by a physician, not online strangers.
If you have severe anxiety, it would seem to follow that you would have a hard time sleeping. A doctor can help you.
 
I am a light sleeper … When I try to sleep then my brain can’t stop thinking I can’t get myself to relax then which causes me to tussle and turn most of the night… I have OCD/anxiety but I suffer worse with anxiety I wonder has it any connection
As a lay person, i.e. I’m not a doctor, with similar issues, yes, you answered your own question that at night your anxiety is keeping you awake. For myself I’ve always had an underlying nervousness or maybe call it a tendency for an over excited reaction to events. There was a period in my life when I had full blown panic attacks but not any more. Perhaps a person like us gets hooked on it. We don’t want to let it go and so we take it to bed too.

Ways to overcome: it’s important to wind down before bed. Do something easy going for an hour or two before bed. For myself, if I continue doing little “tasks” until bed then I don’t sleep well. I have to turn off all my plans for a period before bed. I found watching a decent movie from a disc in the evening helps. No commercials. No internet. No chance to channel surf. A movie works because it’s extended time, a small investment, and the show isn’t my ideas its someone elses. Maybe if you like reading that could substitute for my movie. But if instead I shop on Amazon and worry about my shippers and what I should add to my “collections”, Or if I keep checking for family and friends’ text messages, then I take that stuff all to bed and it keeps me up. Or perhaps I’ve done those mentioned things all day long, along with stress at work, non-stop. It may almost be impossible for me to head that off. That stuff accumulates so don’t pack too much into the overall day either. Sometimes a walk doesn’t help because I mentally churn about things going on at work or with friends etc. Other ideas for that time of night for myself include not eating several hours before bed. Don’t drink at all. Might try one Benadryl at that time if you have allergies.

Suit yourself on what you pick. If it’s a book or movie it doesn’t have to be any kind in particular, just something unoffensive and at least slightly entertaining.
 
As a lay person, i.e. I’m not a doctor, with similar issues, yes, you answered your own question that at night your anxiety is keeping you awake. For myself I’ve always had an underlying nervousness or maybe call it a tendency for an over excited reaction to events. There was a period in my life when I had full blown panic attacks but not any more. Perhaps a person like us gets hooked on it. We don’t want to let it go and so we take it to bed too.

Ways to overcome: it’s important to wind down before bed. Do something easy going for an hour or two before bed. For myself, if I continue doing little “tasks” until bed then I don’t sleep well. I have to turn off all my plans for a period before bed. I found watching a decent movie from a disc in the evening helps. No commercials. No internet. No chance to channel surf. A movie works because it’s extended time, a small investment, and the show isn’t my ideas its someone elses. Maybe if you like reading that could substitute for my movie. But if instead I shop on Amazon and worry about my shippers and what I should add to my “collections”, Or if I keep checking for family and friends’ text messages, then I take that stuff all to bed and it keeps me up. Or perhaps I’ve done those mentioned things all day long, along with stress at work, non-stop. It may almost be impossible for me to head that off. That stuff accumulates so don’t pack too much into the overall day either. Sometimes a walk doesn’t help because I mentally churn about things going on at work or with friends etc. Other ideas for that time of night for myself include not eating several hours before bed. Don’t drink at all. Might try one Benadryl at that time if you have allergies.

Suit yourself on what you pick. If it’s a book or movie it doesn’t have to be any kind in particular, just something unoffensive and at least slightly entertaining.
These are all excellent suggestions. A hobby such as embroidery, crochet, sewing, etc. works well for some people. For others a warm bath helps. Other people I know play cards (solitary if they are alone, rummy with another player). Some people take a walk. The key is finding what works best for you and making a routine that always consists of the same stuff. Two of my kids have trouble sleeping snd always have. Even as infants they seemed to have no off button. Both require different routines for a good night’s sleep. One daughter needs quiet music (her current favorite is a rosary CD with hymns, when she was younger it was lullabys) and “star lights” in her room. The star lights are really just glow in the dark stick up stars and planets. She has to wait until her two sisters are sleeping before she goes to bed herself because otherwise she can’t relax. My son that has trouble sleeping is kind of odd in his routine. He takes a warm shower, drinks a cup of hot coffee with milk, and eats a snack. It’s sounds crazy, but without the caffeine he can’t sleep. When our pediatrician suggested that to me (after trying Benadryl which hyped him up) I thought the dr was crazy. After a particularly rough night with him I gave in and tried it. It works for him. Don’t know why.
 
I stopped worrying re sleep “patterns” years ago and that in itself helped. Now if I cannot settle I read and knit a while then settle again… I take painkillers at night that make me sleepy anyways . But worrying about it will exacerbate the problem
 
I have insomnia too…Sometimes I can’t fall asleep, sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and remain awake for hours.

There are certain things i eat that keep me awake, and daily caffiene consumption has an effect on me too, as tombstone said.
I also forget to eat sometimes so blood sugar level makes me jumpy at night.

I saw a doctor for this and it is important to avoid and take care of your food intake. Also cold medicine, especially the non drowsy kind keeps me awake until it is out of my body.

Everyone is different, and my cause may not be the same as yours. You can try watching your diet, and if this does not work, I would get a physical if I were you.
 
Many say that worrying re not sleeping causes insomnia… and yes, get a proper check up,

Maybe as the days shorten and the light gets less intense you will sleep more. Is this a spring and summer problem with you by the way? Worth looking at, I get bad SAD from August onwards.
 
I disagree, too many doctors will only prescribe a drug or possibly even refer you to a head doctor.
The doctors I’ve known are not anxious to prescribe pills for sleeping, except on a VERY short-term basis. Most of them discuss lifestyle and sleep hygiene. I urge you to bring this up with your primary-care doctor.
 
Hi Therese,

I’m sorry that you have difficulty sleeping. 😦

I wear a sleep mask at night, to help block out any light.

I also like the use of lavender, too. It’s one of my favorite fragrances. It is very calming to me.

I like to literally “count numbers slowly, count backwards from one hundred slowly, or pray,” when I have difficulty falling asleep. It occupies my mind, and takes my mind off of anything else. I usually fall asleep while in the middle of counting or praying at night, before trying to sleep.
 
While Anxiety may be the cause of this, it may even be a symptom. I have read that people with sleep-apnea often develop anxiety, and sleep-apnea gets worse with age. Sleep-apnea is where your airway gets blocked whenever you relax too much in your sleep, Your brain reacts by sending signals to wake. An automatic process. So all night you can never really reach deep sleep or relax, and your body stays “at attention” to stop your brain getting starved of oxygen.

I am no doctor. The above is only an example which I wrote to convince you that you should consider the possibility you have a physical problem, you should at least get checked for common sleep disorders such as sleep apnea. I am not suggesting you have that condition, just that what you describe warrants a visit to a Dr. Definitely go see a good Dr who you know will take the time to listen to your concerns seriously. If you don’t know of one ask people to recommend one. As others have mentioned a bad Doctor can be worse than nothing, but a good Doctor can change your life for the better. Don’t omit to tell them anything you are concerned about.
 
These are all excellent suggestions. A hobby such as embroidery, crochet, sewing, etc. works well for some people. For others a warm bath helps. Other people I know play cards (solitary if they are alone, rummy with another player). Some people take a walk. The key is finding what works best for you and making a routine that always consists of the same stuff. Two of my kids have trouble sleeping snd always have. Even as infants they seemed to have no off button. Both require different routines for a good night’s sleep. One daughter needs quiet music (her current favorite is a rosary CD with hymns, when she was younger it was lullabys) and “star lights” in her room. The star lights are really just glow in the dark stick up stars and planets. She has to wait until her two sisters are sleeping before she goes to bed herself because otherwise she can’t relax. My son that has trouble sleeping is kind of odd in his routine. He takes a warm shower, drinks a cup of hot coffee with milk, and eats a snack. It’s sounds crazy, but without the caffeine he can’t sleep. When our pediatrician suggested that to me (after trying Benadryl which hyped him up) I thought the dr was crazy. After a particularly rough night with him I gave in and tried it. It works for him. Don’t know why.
Caffeine has the opposite effect on many, especially ADD.

I know for me, a cup of coffee hypes me up for about 30 minutes, than I want a nap. It is almost like a sugar high, than crash.
 
Years ago I too had difficulty sleeping and it was affecting many areas of my life. My doctor first prescribed pills to help. After trial and error, he suggested hypnotherapy. He may have suggested earlier but I may have laughed it off.

It works! There are a number of problems that hypnotherapy can help with.
 
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