Ok, so what is the answer for me then? My husband was Catholic but hadn’t attended for years. I didn’t become Catholic until 2006 and he returned to the church at that time. BEFORE this happened, knowing we were moving far away for our retirement but wanting to be buried in the city we had lived in for 31 years, we purchased two plots AND a gravestone that is engraved with everything but our dates of death in a non-Catholic cemetery.
Are we supposed to sell our plots and buy two in the Catholic cemetery and pay to have the gravestone moved? Also, to complicate things, our first son who died when only one day old is buried near the plots we had purchased. We really wanted to be near him.