You think that the child should stay in the house while the cops are trying to get evidence for a restraining order or an arrest?
The mother was an alcoholic who had some idea what was going on and did not stop it. You want this person to be given money so she can stay home all day and drink? This is supposed to be an OK situation? What is to stop her from finding another boyfriend that does the same thing? Shoot, what’s to stop her from accidentally setting the house on fire and killing all of them?
I’m not saying that children are never removed inappropriately from families. If it happens, it is a great shame and should be addressed. But that doesn’t mean that the whole organization should be scrapped, but that the parts of it that are broken should be fixed.
Do you honestly think that some poor 10-year-old girl should have to stand up in front of the whole community and talk about the sexual abuse she has been suffering? When she may have to continue living in the same community for some years after that? Is it really the business of all of the members of the community to know what has been done to her? Say, this happens and she comes to high school still in the same community. How is she going to be treated by the boys who know that she isn’t a virgin anyway? You know kids will find out, and every time the story is told, that poor girl becomes a sexual object again.
There is a difference between secret and confidential.
–Jen