You cannot be a Catholic in good standing and be ambivalent about others who commit mortal sins. You need to represent the Catholic faith and teachings in all venues.
- I’m not a practicing Catholic.
- I answer to God and not to you.
My mother is Catholic and attends Mass every Sunday. I’m sure she supports gay marriage. She would regard your style of parenting immoral (not allowing your children to visit with gay people in your family).
My mother would also be–and was when I was a child–hostile towards me being opposed to, but more especially, derogatory towards homosexuals.
Actually, I’m not going to go much into my rearing and family culture both immediate and extended. But I will say this…
if by what some say on here happens under liberal initiatives and culture is true,
then I should be dead or at minimum impossible to overcome and able to seek and attain personal goods for myself.
I know for a fact you don’t care for me, nor does anyone on this forum. But life as a whole is pretty much like that. So, I’m not exactly sure why you think I should care that you will become emotionally traumatized or unstable over homosexual marriage? Is there some Golden Rule here in this?
I’ve got enough problems in life. Gay marriage is an insignificant problem for me. For decades I’ve been Chuck Noland. Did 3, 4, 5, 10 people come provide me moral support in an environment of absolute immorality? No. I’ve been “morally pulling myself up by my own bootstraps” since I was a kid.
What I’m hearing are people complaining that they want the Federal or various state governments to intervene in the lives of Americans and morally support them because they’re too weak to morally support themselves or their families.
Who I sympathize with our the many lives of girls and women I’ve read about being stepped on in the nation of Cambodia. They and I are alike. Neither of us has any power. Nor does most people in our communities value us in any way. We are expendable and meaningless. These are my sisters and this is who I sympathize with. If those that oppose homosexual marriage can’t keep it together mentally if they see two happy gay people hold hands then that is a problem within themselves they must confront. Life in the world will still march on in spite of your problems. This is true for those Cambodian girls too. This will be true in Chicago or London or Bangkok as well.
And trust… I’ve received a lot of hate from liberal American and European women simply because I’ve stated I doubt homosexuality is genetically heritable, that I suspect its genesis arises in many nuanced factors in the individual’s life, and that in general terms I regard homosexuality as immoral. There is no tolerance for those views today among those that identify as liberal and progressive usually.
I’m sure the liberal regards me as the devil for that.
Now let me Chuck Noland myself again and state something the conservative will regard me as the devil for.
Given obesity and obesity caused diabetes is a mortal sin (gluttony and sloth and assault on the Temple of God), and given that active homosexuality is a mortal sin, and given I don’t think obese people are going to be damned to hell, then I’ve come to doubt, and do not think, active homosexuals will be damned to hell.