I consider myself a feminist; not a feminist in the way that the term has been hi-jacked by women who want to be men-- but a true feminist; I try to image the best woman–Our Lady.
I am saddened that even in a Catholic forum, the idea of feminism is considered so negatively.
From Pope John Paul II, Letter to Women: (para. 3) after he thanks individually woman of all vocations,
"I know of course that simply saying thank you is not enough. Unfortunately, we are heirs to a history which has conditioned us to a remarkable extent. In every time and place, this conditioning has been an obstacle to the progress of women. Women’s dignity has often been unacknowledged and their prerogatives misrepresented; they have often been relegated to the margins of society and even reduced to servitude. This has prevented women from truly being themselves and it has resulted in a spiritual impoverishment of humanity
… When it comes to setting women free from every kind of exploitation and domination, the Gospel contains an ever relevant message which goes back to the attitude of Jesus Christ himself. Transcending the established norms of his own culture, Jesus treated women with openness, respect, acceptance and tenderness. In this way he honoured the dignity which women have always possessed according to God’s plan and in his love…"
Without a woman’s engagement in society there results a spiritual impoverishment. God’s plan has women primarily as mothers; that is what our bodies are made for- that is our purpose. Our vocations can be of different kinds, perhaps, not as mothers but as leaders of nations, lawyers, nuns… Our design for motherhood is why we are often (not always) naturally more caring and considerate, why we have more compassion and emotion. These are to the benefit of society-- perhaps this is what your feminist is referring to.
Unfortunately, what has become of feminism is a transformation of women, not into women with dignity, but of an attempt to be bad-men. A man aspiring to be a woman can only be a bad woman, and a woman trying to act like a man can only be a bad man. Women who contort their bodies to rid themselves of the burden of their motherly nature by means of contraception, or even abortion are not embracing feminism- they are rejecting it. This does not mean that a woman cannot be a professional or a leader. Unfortunately in our society, however, progress does not include children.
A woman who has chosen and is called to the married life is primarily a mother, that is what she is built for, that is where she fits. This is not to be a negative thing; women are a huge asset to society, and a good wife and mother does rule the world, by supporting her husband and raising good, strong, and christian children. “The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world”… In other situations, men may raise the children when the woman is the professional, the social leader, or whatever.
When women forget who they are, when they try to be men, only bad things happen- feminism in the unfortunate modern sense happens.
Peace,
Jessi

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I totally agree 100%! I’m a feminist in the fact that I’m proud to be a woman with all my strengths & weaknesses! I’m a feminist in the fact that I realize there
are some things men do better than women and vice versa. I’m a feminist in the fact that to God I am equal to men in dignity and creation (ie - in His image). I don’t need all that anti-man propoganda to make myself feel good. What I need is a strong, loving, compassionate, God-fearing man to love me, support me, and be my equal so I can do the same for him! Thankfully, I have one (although we’re still working on the God-fearing part)! I congratulate all women who do this as well!