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Yes, same here, and since I’m going through menopause I often convey both messages several times during the same Mass.![]()
Yes, same here, and since I’m going through menopause I often convey both messages several times during the same Mass.![]()
ditto on the laughter, good oneYes, same here, and since I’m going through menopause I often convey both messages several times during the same Mass.![]()
That hilarious that you brought that up!Not new at all! Surely the reputed dourness of protestants is legion.
Hilair Belloc said nearly 100 years ago:
“Wherever the Catholic sun doth shine,
There’s laughter and dancing and good red wine,
At least I’ve always found it so.
Benedicamus Domino!”
First case: host would go and adjust the thermostat. Second case: someone would get the building maintenance person to turn up the heat.If you disagree, then I would ask you to try an experiment. Next time you visit someone’s house, leave your coat on and see how your hosts and the other guests react. Or if you don’t visit, then try leaving your coat on at work.
Oh no, please don’t go there!First case: host would go and adjust the thermostat. Second case: someone would get the building maintenance person to turn up the heat.![]()
Don’t get too upset; I was just joking! Personally, I belong to the keep-your-coat-on-if-you’re-cold-and-take-it-off-if-you’re-hot school.Oh no, please don’t go there!
In the first place, turning the heat up in the winter (or turning the AC up in the summer) can add thousands of dollars to the monthly gas or electric bill for a big old church, but in the second place, for every person who is made happy by the heat being turned up, there are a dozen who are displeased because now they are too hot! It can lead to the point where sweaty parishioners start opening up the windows while the radiators are steaming full blast, subjecting other shivvering parishioners to icy drafts.
We have found it so much better to remind our parishioners that it is a big church and some areas are warmer than others, so those who want to be warmer should sit closer to the radiators or keep their coats on, and those who want to be cooler should sit closer to the doors or take their coats off. And anyone who touches either the thermostat or the windows may be subject to a beating with the long-handled ushers baskets.
Petergee you might be but a simple bloke so that must make me a simple gal as I agree with you.Cat, maybe I’m just a simple bloke, but the only “message” which leaving a coat on conveys to me is “I’m cold”, and taking a coat off only conveys the message “I’m hot.”
This is just greatOh no, please don’t go there!
In the first place, turning the heat up in the winter (or turning the AC up in the summer) can add thousands of dollars to the monthly gas or electric bill for a big old church, but in the second place, for every person who is made happy by the heat being turned up, there are a dozen who are displeased because now they are too hot! It can lead to the point where sweaty parishioners start opening up the windows while the radiators are steaming full blast, subjecting other shivvering parishioners to icy drafts.
We have found it so much better to remind our parishioners that it is a big church and some areas are warmer than others, so those who want to be warmer should sit closer to the radiators or keep their coats on, and those who want to be cooler should sit closer to the doors or take their coats off. And anyone who touches either the thermostat or the windows may be subject to a beating with the long-handled ushers baskets.
:yup:Cat, maybe I’m just a simple bloke, but the only “message” which leaving a coat on conveys to me is “I’m cold”, and taking a coat off only conveys the message “I’m hot.”
Nah, I don’t get upset about this except on Sundays when I usher and it’s my turn to administer the beatings (see, I can joke too!)Don’t get too upset; I was just joking! Personally, I belong to the keep-your-coat-on-if-you’re-cold-and-take-it-off-if-you’re-hot school.
(I like that bit about being beaten with the long-handled collection baskets, though.)
Actually, at many places where I’ve worked, they keep a lock over the thermostat. Different parts of the office is colder than others and the ones who are in the colder parts or are just cold-blooded in general, keep a coat there to keep them warm.If you disagree, then I would ask you to try an experiment. Next time you visit someone’s house, leave your coat on and see how your hosts and the other guests react. Or if you don’t visit, then try leaving your coat on at work.
Nice touch! touche!And anyone who touches either the thermostat or the windows may be subject to a beating with the long-handled ushers baskets.
yep, there have been times when i have been at work with my mittens and scarf on…Actually, at many places where I’ve worked, they keep a lock over the thermostat. Different parts of the office is colder than others and the ones who are in the colder parts or are just cold-blooded in general, keep a coat there to keep them warm.
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I didn’t mean to give the impression that they don’t (I’ve seen many daily communicants who leave their jackets on, afterall).I understand what you are saying, but Catholics with coats on are commited to staying and want to be there too.
I would say that Catholics are an aging lot. If I left my jacket on when some of us do, I’d be breaking a sweat.Let’s face it, Catholics are a hearty lot. We don’t mind it being chilly in Church because we can just keep our coats on.
Amen to that. I’m praying for the 300,000 traditional Anglicans to come home (though I don’t know that they would complain about the lack of heatingNo one ever minded until Protestants started becoming Catholics, for which we are all grateful.
The Irish Catholics certainly have suffered for their Faith. Ireland is still one of the only sane countries outside of the Vatican. I’m half-Irish and proud of it.My Irish ancestors had our Churches confiscated and were lucky to have any place to have Mass.
We don’t have the same problem, as our (old) church building has no temperature control devices anywhere the parishioners can get at them. Father, alone, decides when to turn on (or up) the heat!And then these same people complain because the parish has to take up a special collection to try to pay the gas bill. That’s why we put a locking cover over the thermostat.
I’m so sorry I wasted your time.I agree with the last two posters. I wrote a post on what I thought and upon reading it after I posted it; I realized how ridiculous, so I deleted it.In fact I can’t believe I read this thread
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What baffles me is why not having a coat rack in a church is upsetting to you. Or why seeing people sitting in their coats makes you feel that a church is not friendly or why not cranking up the heat to 80 degrees is upsetting:shrug:I’m so sorry I wasted your time.
I guess it’s a Protestant thing. If this thread were cut and pasted onto a Protestant online forum, or if I discussed it with Protestant friends and relatives, they would shake their heads and say, “Weird. Catholics sure don’t have a clue, do they?”
I honestly hope that all of you will consider at least visiting a nice, warm Protestant church and see how good it feels to not have to tote around your heavy coat, and how good everyone looks dressed up in dressed, suits, slacks, and sweaters instead of parkas and fleeces. It’s not as evil as you all think it is. And it really does create an atmosphere of loving family which is very pleasant. Go see for yourself, if you can get past your disdain for Christians who don’t have Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament.
BTW, in all my years as a Protestant, I have never, ever seen a Protestant church with coat hooks around the sanctuary. I would really be interested in knowing which church has such an ugly thing. Are you certain that it wasn’t a church that is meeting temporarily in a school gymnasium? I assure all of you that most Protestants are NOT the Phillistines that some of you seem to think they are when it comes to decorating, art, and beauty. Catholics don’t have a lock on class. At the moment, I regret to say that I am wondering if Catholics have class. The very idea of keeping a cold church and being proud of it and dissing those who keep a church warm is baffling to me.