Well-written, Netnuncio, and many good things were mentioned.
I understand your conern with your first statement, as I believe people can sometimes have the tendency to focus more on the entertainment aspect of music or any kind of art rather than the actual spiritual enhancement. But, I believe many times people “enjoy” the music of a particular mass because it does help them focus on the spiritual aspects of the mass and on their prayer.
For instance, I try to avoid masses that use Praise and Worship music. As I’ve mentioned before P&W have made me physically sick when subjected to an hour’s worth of it and I have actually had little panic attacks because of it. I can’t explain the physical aversion, and I have spent my time at mass praying for it to go away and to let me focus on the mass. I’ve always had to attend another mass afterwards at a different church, so I’ve just made a point to not attend masses with that music. Strangely enough, I don’t get that way if I hear it outside of mass, but that is probably because I can leave the room and not feel subjected to stay there.
I attend mass at specific churches that either have no music or have a great or decent music program, not just because the music is good, but mainly because it helps me focus on the mass and on God. As a musician, music is my main form of prayer and praise to God. I definitely do not need it for mass, which is why I don’t mind attending a mass without music. But because I am so intertwined with music and have it as a form of spiritual prayer for me, certain kinds of music at mass make me physicall ill. (I guess I just answered why I do have a physical aversion to P&W.)
For me what helps me focus on God and the mass (although it is not absolutely needed) are Gregorian chant, polyphony, motets, etc. Mind you, I did not grow up with this music. I grew up in the 80s and 90s and so heard the worse of the folksy tunes and hymns, plus really bad contemporary Christian rock from cousins who were born-again Christians. I was introduced to chant, polyphony and other centuries of sacred music first by my voice teacher, who was Jewish. She was the one who told me that this music wasn’t for hearing on a cd or concert stage and remembered the days when she was a singer at Catholic churches and they did this kind of music. I mean, as a child, I remember hearing this music and wondered why we never did it during mass anymore because it felt so deep, but I just thought it wasn’t allowed anymore. Then in college, when I studied abroad and heard this music for the first time during mass at small parishes and large ones, that’s when I was converted to our long tradition of music and realized how glorious and perfect it was for a traditional mass. As a friend once said, although it’s ok, you can’t go back to Cool Whip once you’ve had the real whipped cream.
It’s a different story for cultural parishes and I believe their practices and music work, especially if they are liturgically correct, although it always feels contrived when people outside of that culture try to imitate it. I actually joined a Gospel choir when I attended a Catholic high school. I was friends with a group of African-American girls on my track team who were in the choir, so I thought I’d try it out. The school didn’t have a classical choir, and this was the best they had. It actually was a good Gospel choir from what I remembered of it. I quickly realized, though, that it just wasn’t me and I was forcing myself to be something that I was not, so I quit after a few rehearsals. Funny enough, I had to go to a public school in order to sing sacred Catholic motets. But it wasn’t the same.
And although I am a paid cantor and do help lead people in the singing of hymns, I actually prefer hearing a decent choir, whether I’m in a church with a choir singing Tallis or Palestrina, an African-American parish with a choir singing Gospel or a Filipino Parish with a choir singing their own music. As long as I can’t see them, up in a choir loft behind me so that it sounds like angels singing from heaven and so that my attention won’t be taken away from the mass.