Why Pray?

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Yes, thanks. I try to keep up with that, but am not sure if I delete my out box, if tht deletes it just for me, or the recipient as well.
It is only for you. As soon as you sent your message, it will appear in the recipient’s mailbpx, and a copy is placed into your outgoing mail. You will get more space as you participate and post more messages. Somewhere there is a post explaining the details, but I cannot remember the specifics.
 
All that is to say that intercessionary prayer is at best, IMHO, a comfort, but not a functioning relationship as many claim. Does God “hear” our prayers? I’d say yes, but not even remotely in the popularly “understood” way. So in conclusion I would say that prayer as so labeled is the name within a religious framework of what in a larger context is a known and respected methodology for problem solving, but which is religiously attributed to Deity as a telepathic capacity due to lack of self knowledge and piety.

That said, my statement does not inherently deny God or the efficacy of prayer, as it is simply the delineation of a function largely mis-attributed due to faith and/or ignorance, not to mention unfortunate and debilitating, IMHO, misconceptions about God as IS, as distinct from as thought/believed about. Neither should these statements be taken to inhibit the need or efficacy of simply contemplating the immense magnitude, power, beauty, and plain astonishing wonder of Universe and its Source as a way of getting beyond personality to whatever it is that constitute the propensities of Soul. It can as well be a way of organizing the mind around a perceived ultimate Good, religious or not.
The entire basis of the Catholic faith is revelation-communication from the “other side”. Whether or not that revelation means the gospel, as communicated through the prophets and culminating in Jesus Christ, or whether it means “private revelations” which the Church teaches can be valid as well, though not to be held as articles of faith, God does reveal Himself to people in direct ways.

So while I agree that prayer can be “popularly misunderstood”, realize that without God’s intervention into the world, we’re lost. And doesn’t it make sense that, as Jesus admonishes, we should pray all the time-we should ask, seek, ans knock? And doesn’t it make sense that God can and will answer? Have you read the lives of any saints? I’d suggest St Teresa of Avila. When prayer is answered in the way she describes, there is no doubt in a beings mind of where it came from.
 
Thanks. Very “Christian” of you to help me out with this. LOL! Aren’t terms, perspectives, and categories fun? I did write a note to a “forum master;” perhaps I will be directed to the proper tract. I appreciate your helpfulness, independent of category. 🙂

M
 
R Daneel

*Because I am wondering if you guys are willing to put your money where your mouth is. So far it was all empty talk, and no one is willing to step up to the challenge and demonstrate that their non-trivial and verifyable supplicative prayer “works”. You, in particular, since your posts are all evasions. Instead of answering, you try to put up another question, and maybe hope that your evasions will not be noticed and remain unchallenged. Which is simply intellectually dishonest.
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What I find curious is that you don’t even believe in prayer. So what are you doing in this thread? Are you just here to badmouth those who believe in prayer and want to talk about it among themselves without having to suffer your sneers? :rolleyes:

no one is willing to step up to the challenge and demonstrate that their non-trivial and verifyable supplicative prayer “works”

This is nonsense talk from you. Are you saying that if prayer works we should be able to verify that it works under scientifically demonstrable conditions? Millions of people pray daily and their prayers are answered with yes, no, or wait. How are we supposed to verify that to your satisfaction? Under what conditions would you be satisfied? None. Because you don’t believe in God or prayer. So you are the one who is deep into wasting his time on this thread, unless you thinking it is profitable or pleasing for you to bad mouth Christians.

You need to show some sincerity instead of disrespect.
 
Thanks. Very “Christian” of you to help me out with this. LOL! Aren’t terms, perspectives, and categories fun? I did write a note to a “forum master;” perhaps I will be directed to the proper tract. I appreciate your helpfulness, independent of category. 🙂

M
Sorry, I’ve probably misunderstood you or the thread. But when someone seems to relate prayer to otherwise pretty much mundane experiences, I don’t think they understand what the Church is saying, and can stifle the opportunities prayer offers us. Because the direct communication I’m speaking of transcends our minds and abilities so that we’re no longer perceiving God via second-hand knowledge about Him, but rather we’re knowing Him directly, like you say, as IS. That should seem far-fetched to anyone who’s not experienced it but I’d think it should at least be a possibility-even a probability- to a Catholic.
 
What I find curious is that you don’t even believe in prayer. So what are you doing in this thread? Are you just here to badmouth those who believe in prayer and want to talk about it among themselves without having to suffer your sneers? :rolleyes:

This is nonsense talk from you. Are you saying that if prayer works we should be able to verify that it works under scientifically demonstrable conditions? Millions of people pray daily and their prayers are answered with yes, no, or wait. How are we supposed to verify that to your satisfaction? Under what conditions would you be satisfied? None. Because you don’t believe in God or prayer. So you are the one who is deep into wasting his time on this thread, unless you thinking it is profitable or pleasing for you to bad mouth Christians.

You need to show some sincerity instead of disrespect.
Maybe your need a refresher. You posted this a few pages back:
More words from Jesus, “Ask and you shall receive,” invite us to supplicate. 👍

Matthew 21:22 And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.

Luke 11:9 And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; …
These quotes all talk about the affirmative answers to a prayer. There is no “yes, no, maybe”. There are no conditions. “Ask and ye shall receive” - unconditionally, if you ‘believe’, of course. Obviously, the supplicative prayers of infidels are not promised to be fulfilled, but the prayers of the believers are! So Jesus “promises” and does not deliver. What does one call those who make empty promises? Who fail to deliver what they promised?

I am not badmouthing Christians, I call up on those who make definitive statements, and when urged to show their cards, they start to quibble. Maybe I am “badmouthing” the hypocritical Christians, but I would “badmouth” all the hypocrites, no matter what affiliation they might have.

In my very first post in this thread I affirmed that meditative prayer is not irrational. Christians believe in God, they wish to get closer to God, so they engage in meditative prayers - which is a logical behavior on their part. The supplicative or intercessory prayers are a whole different ballgame. Those are irrational activities, and even some Christians realize that. Good for them!

So, put up or shut up. If you cannot show that the supplicative prayers of the believers actually “work” in an affirmative fashion, then you should fold your hand, and fade away. If you would also admit that your were out of line, that would be nice, but no one expects such a strong backbone from a notorious quibbler.

And, no, I am not angry. I am disappointed seeing the hypocrisy.
 
R Daneel

*So, put up or shut up. If you cannot show that the supplicative prayers of the believers actually “work” in an affirmative fashion, then you should fold your hand, and fade away. If you would also admit that your were out of line, that would be nice, but no one expects such a strong backbone from a notorious quibbler. *

More insults and ad hominems. More disrespect. So we are done here. 🤷
 
More insults and ad hominems. More disrespect. So we are done here. 🤷
As they say, if you can’t stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen. And you attempted to skim over the point that you were the one who brought up that prayers “work” with your Biblical quotes. More evasion… as usual. 🙂
 
Thanks, Fhansen,

My comments were addressed, as I had hoped my last paragraph and, I believe, the tone of the majority of the thread show, toward intercessionary prayer, or prayers of petition. For the most part, those seem to fall into the category of personal wishes, even to the avoidance of necessary consequences. Clearly even Jesus’ prayer to “let this cup pass” didn’t mean that He wasn’t ready to do the deed as described in the Gospels, or even that He thought it was unnecessary. We all wish that it didn’t hurt to go to the dentist, express that, and go in and sit down.

Having myself had a life altering spiritual revelation, I am not in a position to argue that the Invisible or Unknown doesn’t inform the ordinary course of living. Indeed, I feel I covered that, albeit briefly, even encouraging devotional prayer.

I’m mainly concerned here about that part of prayer culture that makes God and Good too much of a personality dynamic admitting of private priorities as distinct from Impartial Love. An example of that might be two teams or two armies each invoking God’s help to overcome the opposition. Such victories are determined by the gifts, abilities, and conditions as they exist on the field to the extent that they are utilized by the participants, whatever their (free) will. One act of free will is to complain, or to wish for magic. Another is to really work hard at what you are doing so you get what you want, including internal conversations describing outcomes. Those don’t, as far as I can see, invoke or involve any ad hoc Divine intercession, nor do they need to, however fervent our wishes. And we might remember, as they say in sports, “pain is necessary, suffering is optional.”

Although my understanding of “miracle,” the commonly understood result of intercessionary prayer, is that it is a lessening of the seeming objective confinement, those can as well be due to a change in perception or other dynamic. As Asimov said, “any technology sufficiently advanced appears to be magic.” I mentioned before the perspective of someone from Biblical times watching us use a remote on a car, television, or whatever. Surely a confirmation of “action at a distance,” eh? But then there is the thing about paired particles…

And a miracle is a reduction of the seeming confinement. In another thread the posters are bogged down in reactive arguments relative to one word in the OP’s original post, not even addressing in part the actual question. As soon as anyone sees past the emotions, it is not the same situation of involvement as it seemed to be. Did anything change? Yes; the perception of the reader. Did the original circumstance change? No. It appeared, due to emotional loading and/or ignorance to be what it wasn’t.

That is not even to mention that the body does weird things. Richard Bandler literally talked his mother out of terminal cancer in a few hours; she lived another eleven years. She had scripted herself into dying. Mitigating the script “cured” the cancer–it allowed her body to revert to health mode instead of orchestrating its own demise. Such incidents are common, either self administered or through others, whether through prayer or secular linguistic methods. Again, the “interventions” of God is in the existence of the original laws and dynamics of Being, which we not only do not fully understand, but even cloud over with our persistence in insisting on intervention. Again I respectfully point to the cargo cults as an illustration of what we might commonly do, thinking we are “praying.”

So, yes, we ought to pray,. But let it be prayers of opening to Wonder, the root meaning of “miracle.” Isn’t it the greatest miracle that we are consciously, or not, aware? That we can explore this Creation as it is, and not how we commonly make it up to be? My most common prayer, if you will, is one of gratitude, focusing on the astounding good fortune that constitutes the circumstances of my living.
 
As you move through life and Faith certain realites become clear to you. You educate yourself more deeply in faith and you grow in Faith more.

The real idea at end of all thinking is Faith. And the fact that if you believe or not.

There are many, many cases of individual who will testify to the fact that Prayer and a response to it is very, very real.

The Catholic Church perform hundreds of exorcisms yearly* And a couple of the Prayers used for example are the Prayer to St Michael and the Prayer to St Benedict.

Do these prayers yield results? I think you can answer that for yourself. If you doubt what I am saying venture over to You Tube and watch the videos on Father Malichi Martin. Now he served as advisor to 3-Popes for 20 years, And performed the majority of the exorcisms which were minor and major and approved by the Catholic Church. he was asked how many of the case’s which came in were actual Demonic case’s? His response was over 80%.

Well won’t have to hear to much of what he’s saying to come to the conclusion that Evil is very. very real, Demons exist, And they are expelled through Prayer. So you tell me does it work?

This is just ONE example. Now I could go on and on. But this is very real.Fr Malichi Martin was “the” leading authority on this for Decades!

Make no mistake what you are involved with here my friend, Its very real. And the War of Evil and Good is Accute right now. Its very real. Any many of this doubters are simply young adults with not enough time logged on earth to talk about Real World practical experienece. Hang around a few years and hold fast to your faith. Your gonna be very surprized “just” how real this is. And you will reach a point that you’ll be very Gratefull your better thinking prevailed.

God Bless.
GT*
 
antroji

Prayers of gratitude and prayers of praise are both good reasons to pray. I’m a little perplexed about your reluctance to see intercessory prayers or prayers of petition as having any value (correct me if I misunderstand your position). I’ve given reasons above in quoting scriptures, where Jesus encourages us to ask. Likewise, in your view are we not to pray intercessory or petition prayers for the dead? Would you suggest we remove the Prayers of the Faithful, which are petition prayers, from the traditional Mass?
 
As they say, if you can’t stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen. And you attempted to skim over the point that you were the one who brought up that prayers “work” with your Biblical quotes. More evasion… as usual. 🙂
Sometimes it helps seeing the conversations of others, so as to figure out who to ignore.

Thanks for saving me potential later trouble.
 
Charlemagne II,

As I have stated, either directly or subtly, the views I have expressed are my own and pertinent to my own experience with prayer, meditation, contemplation, and spiritual insight. I cannot prescribe or proscribe for anyone else, and don’t. If you feel I do, then either you have misread me, as seems to be common, or I have mis-stated my say, which is possible.

Your scriptural understanding and understanding of dogma are yours. Mine are somewhat different because of my mystical experience and how both those and consequent inquiries modified my understanding. I love the poems of St. Catherine of Siena, St. Francis, Aquinas, St John of the Cross, St Teresa of Avila, and Meister Eckhart for instance. But they had no meaning for me until I stabilized after my insight. Now they, and the words of Jesus mean far more to me than ever, but in a somewhat radically different way than they did before.

I make no explanation, excuse, nor comparison, except illustrative, for or about my views. They simply are what they are because of who and what I am. A also have no argument with mor modification for your views and understanding, much less for what I think ought to happen with the Mass. That would be silliness and pretense. In my view you can pray or not pray any way you wish. It is not my concern.

This forum is for sharing understanding, and, evidently, personal standpoints, opinions, and a range of emotions even up to counterproductive, as I have seen. I respect your view, and I share mine as I see how it is from here. That is all.
 
Thanks, Fhansen,

My comments were addressed, as I had hoped my last paragraph and, I believe, the tone of the majority of the thread show, toward intercessionary prayer, or prayers of petition. For the most part, those seem to fall into the category of personal wishes, even to the avoidance of necessary consequences. Clearly even Jesus’ prayer to “let this cup pass” didn’t mean that He wasn’t ready to do the deed as described in the Gospels, or even that He thought it was unnecessary. We all wish that it didn’t hurt to go to the dentist, express that, and go in and sit down.

Having myself had a life altering spiritual revelation, I am not in a position to argue that the Invisible or Unknown doesn’t inform the ordinary course of living. Indeed, I feel I covered that, albeit briefly, even encouraging devotional prayer.

I’m mainly concerned here about that part of prayer culture that makes God and Good too much of a personality dynamic admitting of private priorities as distinct from Impartial Love. An example of that might be two teams or two armies each invoking God’s help to overcome the opposition. Such victories are determined by the gifts, abilities, and conditions as they exist on the field to the extent that they are utilized by the participants, whatever their (free) will. One act of free will is to complain, or to wish for magic. Another is to really work hard at what you are doing so you get what you want, including internal conversations describing outcomes. Those don’t, as far as I can see, invoke or involve any ad hoc Divine intercession, nor do they need to, however fervent our wishes. And we might remember, as they say in sports, “pain is necessary, suffering is optional.”

Although my understanding of “miracle,” the commonly understood result of intercessionary prayer, is that it is a lessening of the seeming objective confinement, those can as well be due to a change in perception or other dynamic. As Asimov said, “any technology sufficiently advanced appears to be magic.” I mentioned before the perspective of someone from Biblical times watching us use a remote on a car, television, or whatever. Surely a confirmation of “action at a distance,” eh? But then there is the thing about paired particles…

And a miracle is a reduction of the seeming confinement. In another thread the posters are bogged down in reactive arguments relative to one word in the OP’s original post, not even addressing in part the actual question. As soon as anyone sees past the emotions, it is not the same situation of involvement as it seemed to be. Did anything change? Yes; the perception of the reader. Did the original circumstance change? No. It appeared, due to emotional loading and/or ignorance to be what it wasn’t.

That is not even to mention that the body does weird things. Richard Bandler literally talked his mother out of terminal cancer in a few hours; she lived another eleven years. She had scripted herself into dying. Mitigating the script “cured” the cancer–it allowed her body to revert to health mode instead of orchestrating its own demise. Such incidents are common, either self administered or through others, whether through prayer or secular linguistic methods. Again, the “interventions” of God is in the existence of the original laws and dynamics of Being, which we not only do not fully understand, but even cloud over with our persistence in insisting on intervention. Again I respectfully point to the cargo cults as an illustration of what we might commonly do, thinking we are “praying.”

So, yes, we ought to pray,. But let it be prayers of opening to Wonder, the root meaning of “miracle.” Isn’t it the greatest miracle that we are consciously, or not, aware? That we can explore this Creation as it is, and not how we commonly make it up to be? My most common prayer, if you will, is one of gratitude, focusing on the astounding good fortune that constitutes the circumstances of my living.
I understand your concerns, especially as they relate to people praying to win a baseball game, etc. I think all prayer, when valid, is inspired by God, the HS praying thru us, and directly or indirectly for the purpose of advancing His kingdom. Generally this means that faith will be increased by for those involved. Even Jesus’ miracles, often prompted by someone’s supplication, were primarily for this purpose, the healing or answered prayer only a temporary condition as everyone involved still ended up in the grave.

I like your statement earlier about our preference for being right. I think a thread could be started on that alone regarding the reasons why.
 
antroji

*This forum is for sharing understanding, and, evidently, personal standpoints, opinions, and a range of emotions even up to counterproductive, as I have seen. I respect your view, and I share mine as I see how it is from here. That is all. *

Good and thoughtful reflections. Thank you! God bless.

Charlie
 
Why pray?

St. Josemaria Escriva was on the mark when he said prayer first, everything else second, third, and so forth. There can be no atonement, no works, no evidence of love for God and others without the spoken words. Without prayer we are merely puffed up with lies and self-deceit, and all of the so-called “good” we do is so that others will think us better than we really are.
 
It seems as though we are having trouble reading what the other has written. I thought the exact same thing (“elvisman must not have actually read my post”). Given this, I recommend we provide for each other an extra amount of leeway and charity in our conversations, presuming always that the other has read our post, but maybe has simply misunderstood it, and respond always in kindness.

Would this be acceptable to you?
ABSOLUTELY. 👍
 
Thanks for the help. I’m a person that tends to over think things and I what has been said has helped my understanding a little bit.
Thanks everyone again
 
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