Is your pastor open minded enough to consider opinions of these sources:
- The General Instruction of the Roman Missal:
- A little before the consecration, when appropriate, a server
rings a bell as a signal to the faithful. According to local
custom, the server also rings the bell as the priest shows the
host and then the chalice.
Whether or not to ring bells does not sound like an option to me. The question is when is the appropriate time.
The local custom can add an additional ringing.
Now, there are still questions about this, so why not ask the Congregation for Divine Worship? OK, someone did, and they presented a response:
This was done in 1970, before the “new” edition of the GIRM, but it still applies in exactly the same way:
“Notitiae” is the bi-monthly publication of the Congregation for
Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments. In Notitiae 8
(1972) 343 it addressed the query “Is a bell to be rung at Mass?”
After quoting the GIRM, “Notitiae” gives the following answer:
"From a long and attentive catechesis and education in liturgy, a
particular liturgical assembly may be able to take part in the Mass
with such attention and awareness that it has no need of this signal
that the central part of the Mass. This may easily be the case, for
example, with religions communities or with particular or small
groups. The opposite may be presumed in a parish or public church,
where there is a different level of liturgical and religious education
and where often people who are visitors or are not regular churchgoers
take part. In these cases the bell as a signal is entirely
appropriate and is sometimes necessary. To conclude: usually a signal
with the bell should be given, at least at the two elevations, in
order to elicit joy and attention.
THEREFORE – I think it is up to the your pastor to demonstrate that the particular liturgical assembly always takes part in the Mass with so much attention and awareness that bells are superfluous. Has there been a long and attentive catechesis and education in liturgy? He needs to show that there are no wandering minds, each and every person (priest and assembly) there realizes that Jesus Christ, in His Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity are truly present, there are no crying babies, no street noise to cause distractions, etc.
Is your pastor docile to these instructions from Christ, or does he expect you to be docile to his own interpretation?
I like the very first point of the GIRM, where it talks about the two that Jesus sent to prepare the upper room. Odd instructions, indeed, but they followed them. What if they had thought they could find a better room? Even though they did not fully understand the instructions, they went along with them. This is a nice example for us to follow.
I have been talking about this for over a year with our pastor, and we got the bells to ring once last Sunday. Patience! It has also opened his mind to the possiblitliy that maybe we should just “do what the GIRM says” to avoid endless bickering. What a concept!
Good luck.