=Elkman;5999677]Why should I assume that I can be forgiven for my sins when I commit sins – willfully, wantonly, or at least ignorantly? Even if I go to Confession to confess my sins, that doesn’t take away the evil that I’ve committed through sins. All the Confessions in the world can’t undo my screwups – especially in the case of a bad habit that I can’t fix.
***Two issues here.
First all sins “are forgivable” as in can be forgiven, and will be forgiven if repentence is sincere, they are confessed, and a serious effort is made not to sin again. The keys here are TRUE repentence and sorrow, and a sincere desire to not repeat that sin again.***
**Entention here is of greater signifiance than the actual result!/**COLOR]
I’m not talking about impurity here; I’m talking about anger. As an example, six years ago I committed an act of road rage that should have landed me in jail. Fortunately, it didn’t even result in a citation – the police officer had me apologize to the victim, and I was let off the hook.
***The nature of the imperfection is NOT the issue to be concerned about. God made each of us, and is very active in our lives IF WE ALLOW HIM TO BE.
By our very God designed nature, habits, both bad and good can be formed, and WITH GOD’s Help, can be changed.
God who must be [no option here] both fair and just, CANNOT give us a cross that we cannot bear WITH HIS DIRECT intervention. He does allow us to fall, deeply and badly, when we try to fight these battles without Him. Indeed, these crosses are often given to make us more [maybe even, completely] reliant on Him.***
Should I really have been forgiven for that, even though I went to Confession the week afterward? Even if I saw a counselor for anger and other mental health issues? Even if I went to a class for anger management? No, not hardly. There’s no way I can go back and undo my sin from six years ago, especially if I still have anger issues of any magnitude.
***SLOW DOWN THERE FRIEND! If the priest GRANTED Absolution it’s a DONE DEAL.
I’m hearing “me, me, me, I, I, I, can’t!” No kidding:thumbsup: neither can a great many of us.

Where does God fit into this seniro? You’re presuming an ungiven right to tell God that He can’t forgive you.

NOT a good idea, and actualy not even a possibility.READ MY FIRST PARAGRAPH AGAIN. It NOt a Me deal; it’s a WE deal. You and Jesus***:dancing:
So why should I really be forgiven for sins of habit, whether I’m “working” to fix them or not? Shouldn’t I wait until I’m sure I’ve completely fixed the problem and that I won’t sin again before assuming I can be forgiven?
***Well, how about because God loves you

If you have not seen the movie, “The PASSION of Christ” may I suggest you do so. It’ll help you get a grip on how much God loves you. This is the necessary first step.
As a second step, commit to doing something nice, kind, or generous everytime* you get angry. Does not have to be big. Just saying hi with a smile, thanks you when approiate, saying Jeus I love you:thumbsup:, or some other simple act. One for ONE!
Third, every morning offter you’re day; good, bad, or in between to our Blessed Mother. say a Rosary every single day, asking Mary [the perfect lover] to intercede for you.
Forth, EVERY NIGHT, in very brief and simple words tell God you’re sorry about today’s screw-ups, and ask Him to help you again tomoorow.
Fifth, go to Confession at least monthly, and believe and accept that God loves you enough to forgive and forget you’re sins. It is after all God, not the priest who forgives you. The priest absolves you. READ Mt. 16:15-19 amd Mt. 18: 18 and John 20:19-23. God cannot lie
Dear friend Jesus is calling you into a closer relationship with Himself and His Mother.**
You and God can do this this. It will take time, but ask and believe and it will happen.
Love and prayers *
Pat*