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Leela
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Now I’ve had more than enough conversations with theists to anticipate the coming objection: “If there is no God, then why would we need to be concerned for others, why wouldn’t we be running around raping and pillaging?” The simple answer for most people is, “because we are not sociopaths.” People like that exist, of course, but psychology has given us an idea of what this pathology is and how this pathology comes about. A sociopath’s self-conception contains no relations to others, either due to genetics or because of absent or abusive parents or some combination of the two. The sociopath is not a person who has given up on certain ideas about ultimate reality, but is a person who never developed trust for loving parents in early childhood. Children do not grow up to be sociopaths because they lacked the right metaphysical foundation, but rather because they lacked loving homes.
So this sociopath is a lot like the Cartesian skeptic–a philosophical boogie man that we are supposedly supposed to have to answer for. If we really were sociopaths, then we would indeed have no good answer to the question of “why aren’t we all thieves and murders and rapists,” but thank goodness we are not sociopaths. Our self-conceptions do include relations to others. Caring for those close to us comes naturally to us. We love at least some others as we love ourselves–not “like we love ourselves” but “as ourselves” in that some others literally are ourselves to some degree. The more we can expand and deepen this web of relations that we identify as part of ourselves so that our selves extend beyond our physical bodies, the more morally developed we are. We don’t need to think of ourselves as sociopaths that need to be restrained, but rather humans concerned with relating to other humans who need to be nurtured, especially when we are young, in order to develop the trust in other humans that makes progressive expansion and deepening of this web of relations possible.
So this sociopath is a lot like the Cartesian skeptic–a philosophical boogie man that we are supposedly supposed to have to answer for. If we really were sociopaths, then we would indeed have no good answer to the question of “why aren’t we all thieves and murders and rapists,” but thank goodness we are not sociopaths. Our self-conceptions do include relations to others. Caring for those close to us comes naturally to us. We love at least some others as we love ourselves–not “like we love ourselves” but “as ourselves” in that some others literally are ourselves to some degree. The more we can expand and deepen this web of relations that we identify as part of ourselves so that our selves extend beyond our physical bodies, the more morally developed we are. We don’t need to think of ourselves as sociopaths that need to be restrained, but rather humans concerned with relating to other humans who need to be nurtured, especially when we are young, in order to develop the trust in other humans that makes progressive expansion and deepening of this web of relations possible.