Why were/are post VII abuses tolerated?

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I think that the other thread, “What good has come out of VII?”, has helped me to refine my question a little. Thanks.🙂

So, what I’m now wondering is why the abuses have been tolerated to such a large extent. What do you think?

Disclaimer: I am NOT just here to stir the pot. Some have accused me of this in my other thread; not true. Honest. These are real questions that I have.
 
Part of it, I think, is that now there is this idea that everyone is genuine and ignorant, trying to please God in what they do - so even if it isn’t objectively good we tolerate it with the idea that these are “good people” trying to “do good.” If we refuse them what they try to do we may harm them and damage them and they will be mad at God for it. So many shut up, tolerate it and think people will just eventually come around.

I also think some just think confrontation doesn’t work. There is also a misunderstanding that charity requires things like excommunication and rejection of practices that aren’t beneficial. It is better to offend some people if it makes the right way more clear and in the long run aims to help them.

Plus they are afraid of the complaints of authoritarianism.

Just some thoughts.

Pax Christi tecum.
 
Part of it, I think, is that now there is this idea that everyone is genuine and ignorant, trying to please God in what they do - so even if it isn’t objectively good we tolerate it with the idea that these are “good people” trying to “do good.” If we refuse them what they try to do we may harm them and damage them and they will be mad at God for it. So many shut up, tolerate it and think people will just eventually come around.

I also think some just think confrontation doesn’t work. There is also a misunderstanding that charity requires things like excommunication and rejection of practices that aren’t beneficial. It is better to offend some people if it makes the right way more clear and in the long run aims to help them.

Plus they are afraid of the complaints of authoritarianism.

Just some thoughts.

Pax Christi tecum.
I would agree with this assessment.
 
strugglingalong; Part of it, I think, is that now there is this idea that everyone is genuine and ignorant, trying to please God in what they do - so even if it isn’t objectively good we tolerate it with the idea that these are “good people” trying to “do good.” If we refuse them what they try to do we may harm them and damage them and they will be mad at God for it. So many shut up, tolerate it and think people will just eventually come around.
Ok, I’d agree with this if you’re referring to some of the abuses that are carried out by lay people. We may know something’s not quite right, but would rather remain half asleep and not worry so much about things. An example would be ignoring the multitudes who are receiving Communion despite not having been to Confession in years and years, because after all, “they don’t know any better”. How many Catholics do this? Some of us not going to Confession, some of us politely trying to ignore those who don’t go to Confession? The churches are chalk-a-block full of such people. And I think by and large, it’s because Catholics are misinformed, because Father hasn’t ever told anyone they really should go to confession. Plus it’s more comfortable not to have to go to Confession, so why bother?

Now how about abuses that are carried out by the clergy; by Priests? Are they misinformed, also? Take my same example above of Priests not reminding the faithful to get to Confession. Is Father misinformed here too, or is this a sin of omission on his part? Perhaps Father really doesn’t believe Confession is necessary, but it’s stretching it a bit and I don’t know if I can believe that.

Then what about the same abuse when it’s tolerated by Bishops? It’s even harder for me to believe Bishops who’ve tolerated this abuse in their Diocese for years and years are simply misinformed. Aren’t they worried about the souls of their flocks? Aren’t they worried about their own souls? Apparently not. So the only conclusion I can come to is that they don’t believe all that the Church teaches.😦
I also think some just think confrontation doesn’t work.
Well, yes and there’s always that. But the apathy behind such thoughts is pretty depressing.
There is also a misunderstanding that charity requires things like excommunication and rejection of practices that aren’t beneficial.
I’m not sure I’m following you. Could you explain this further?
It is better to offend some people if it makes the right way more clear and in the long run aims to help them.
Plus they are afraid of the complaints of authoritarianism.
Just some thoughts.
Pax Christi tecum.
I would agree here, too. And when the clergy doesn’t do their job, to whom does the burden fall? On us?😦
 
just wanted to throw in an random thought here.
the church is a large family, right. you are part of a family.
why do you tolerate what one of your family members does behind your back? your kid does something that he knows is wrong, but you never find out about it. how do you stop him from doing something that you don’t know he’s doing?

i guess more communication is the key, but everybody is so busy, in the family, in the church. and too, we’re all supposed to be responsible adults. we should willingly and ably perform our duties without someone watching over us. but we don’t always do that.

at the priest and bishop level, some were poorly trained, some have an agenda, and some are very orthodox. and they all go about their duties with very little cross checking in the system.

so unless somebody confronts a rule breaker, knows that he is in fact breaking the rules, the abuses are “tolerated”

and it’s not just post-VII abuses. there have been various abuses and even heresies throughout the life of the church. the church is a very large body and it is in constant need of reform. saints throughout time have been called to reform the church. sometimes they reform at the parish level and sometimes they reform at the whole church level. and sadly, all that is gained with any reform is lost with subsequent generations if no one is there to keep the faithful in line.
 
Ok, I’d agree with this if you’re referring to some of the abuses that are carried out by lay people. We may know something’s not quite right, but would rather remain half asleep and not worry so much about things. An example would be ignoring the multitudes who are receiving Communion despite not having been to Confession in years and years, because after all, “they don’t know any better”. How many Catholics do this? Some of us not going to Confession, some of us politely trying to ignore those who don’t go to Confession? The churches are chalk-a-block full of such people. And I think by and large, it’s because Catholics are misinformed, because Father hasn’t ever told anyone they really should go to confession. Plus it’s more comfortable not to have to go to Confession, so why bother?

Now how about abuses that are carried out by the clergy; by Priests? Are they misinformed, also? Take my same example above of Priests not reminding the faithful to get to Confession. Is Father misinformed here too, or is this a sin of omission on his part? Perhaps Father really doesn’t believe Confession is necessary, but it’s stretching it a bit and I don’t know if I can believe that.
Right, I agree with you.

I was speaking more so of why the Bishops and Priests have allowed the lay Faithful to do things that aren’t good. Now when we speak of the Bishops and the Priests, are they as well intentioned? Maybe sometimes but for the most part I doubt it. They are at very least not loving the Faith Christ has given to us because they are loving something else, either some other conception of the Faith or else their own desires and thoughts. I think the Bishops and Priests, obviously, are more accountable and they will surely have to give an account to God (which is a scary thought).

Overall I think it is a matter of not thinking that the service of God, the love of God and His Church, is just not important enough to make me do something I do not want to do, that makes me uncomfortable, that is contrary to what I want. We are then back at a Church in people’s minds that is self-serving, a anthropocentric and not theocentric conception of the Church.
Then what about the same abuse when it’s tolerated by Bishops? It’s even harder for me to believe Bishops who’ve tolerated this abuse in their Diocese for years and years are simply misinformed. Aren’t they worried about the souls of their flocks? Aren’t they worried about their own souls? Apparently not. So the only conclusion I can come to is that they don’t believe all that the Church teaches.😦
I agree. I think most Bishops either don’t believe what the Church teaches or just don’t care enough to deal with the backlash if they did speak out, or both. I can’t see how a Bishop could be ignorant. This aspect, I think, is where the vast majority of the problems lie. Bishops don’t want to enforce orthodoxy, they don’t want to ensure right disciplinary practices, they don’t want to challenge or rebuke the flock - but who watches their flock go toward their death without trying to break their leg first to save them?
I’m not sure I’m following you. Could you explain this further?
What I was saying here is that there is an idea that excommunications and rebukes and things are not charitable and that it is somehow more loving to not do such things. The fact of the matter is that excommunication, rebukes, punishments are acts of love when done out of a genuine desire to help the offender see the error of their way. Once someone has hardened themselves, once they have been told and taught and warned multiple times, then they must face the consequences - not as a mean-spirited thing to do but out of charity in hopes that this final, serious act will cause them to finally repent, change their mind, return to the Truth and to following Christ. This is largely forgotten!

Case in point, politicians. There is a debate out there, as we all know, should pro-abortion politicians be refused Holy Communion? Archbishop Burke - now in Rome - said that yes they should and in fact Canon Law requires Holy Communion to not be given to those who are in manifest, public mortal sin(s). That is charity because it (1) safeguards the Church’s Most Blessed Sacrament against sacrilege and (2) it makes the state of the person’s soul more clear to that person in hopes that they may repent. Very few Bishops will follow Arch. Burke, which is sad and a huge problem.
I would agree here, too. And when the clergy doesn’t do their job, to whom does the burden fall? On us?😦
No because the lay Faithful can’t take up the job of the Magisterium or of the Priests. They can’t lead per se. I read a book by an orthodox Jesuit who said that in the last days the Pope, much like Peter, would have a time of doubt much like St. Peter’s denial of Christ, but that after it he would regain his faith and return. I am not saying the Pope is not the Pope or that he is a heretic. I am saying that the Magisterium may be experiencing this crisis, this failing, and we as lay Faithful have to pray for them all so that they may regain their strength and to do what God wants them to do. We have to pray for them all. I think the lay Faithful can speak up when they see things in the ordinary Magisterium that are contrary to the Tradition or are bad for the Church but only in a way that keeps their sincere adherence to them and their office intact.

Pax Christi tecum.
 
It is shocking to discover how people really think that all the changes in the Mass during and after VII were begun or initiated by the Magisterium. This is not true. They were hatched in disobedience and a failure to obey the Church. Communion in the hand was just done, imposed on the faithful by radical/liberal priests. The magisterium told these priests to stop, but they would not. The practice continued and spread, till it was became the virtual “norm”. The Church then had to recognize and give legal legitimacy to the abuse. Then the process would continue in the same fashion with just about all the Protestant practices we now see as “normal” in the new mass", i.e., Mass said versus populum, all vernacular Masses, altar girls, the gutting of our Churches, etc.
The Magisterium had to “legalize” the innovation or the disobedience. The Magisterium made an abuse legitimate because it had no power to do other wise; priests and many bishops would not obey. So, people, don’t tell me, “the Magisterium wanted these things”, that is just plain
wrong
.
They were born in disobedience and Modernism, and then they were made “a legal option” because of the Magisterium’s inability to stop it.:cool:
 
strugglingalong; I was speaking more so of why the Bishops and Priests have allowed the lay Faithful to do things that aren’t good. Now when we speak of the Bishops and the Priests, are they as well intentioned? Maybe sometimes but for the most part I doubt it. They are at very least not loving the Faith Christ has given to us because they are loving something else, either some other conception of the Faith or else their own desires and thoughts. I think the Bishops and Priests, obviously, are more accountable and they will surely have to give an account to God (which is a scary thought).
Yes.
Overall I think it is a matter of not thinking that the service of God, the love of God and His Church, is just not important enough to make me do something I do not want to do, that makes me uncomfortable, that is contrary to what I want. We are then back at a Church in people’s minds that is self-serving, a anthropocentric and not theocentric conception of the Church.
Yes. I think post VII Catechists have spent too much time just trying to let students know that Jesus loves them, and not enough time teaching them what His Church asks of the faithful.
I agree. I think most Bishops either don’t believe what the Church teaches or just don’t care enough to deal with the backlash if they did speak out, or both. I can’t see how a Bishop could be ignorant. This aspect, I think, is where the vast majority of the problems lie. Bishops don’t want to enforce orthodoxy, they don’t want to ensure right disciplinary practices, they don’t want to challenge or rebuke the flock - but who watches their flock go toward their death without trying to break their leg first to save them?
We need to pray that the next generation of Bishops will be really bold in teaching and keeping the Truths of our Faith.
What I was saying here is that there is an idea that excommunications and rebukes and things are not charitable and that it is somehow more loving to not do such things. The fact of the matter is that excommunication, rebukes, punishments are acts of love when done out of a genuine desire to help the offender see the error of their way. Once someone has hardened themselves, once they have been told and taught and warned multiple times, then they must face the consequences - not as a mean-spirited thing to do but out of charity in hopes that this final, serious act will cause them to finally repent, change their mind, return to the Truth and to following Christ. This is largely forgotten!
Case in point, politicians. There is a debate out there, as we all know, should pro-abortion politicians be refused Holy Communion? Archbishop Burke - now in Rome - said that yes they should and in fact Canon Law requires Holy Communion to not be given to those who are in manifest, public mortal sin(s). That is charity because it (1) safeguards the Church’s Most Blessed Sacrament against sacrilege and (2) it makes the state of the person’s soul more clear to that person in hopes that they may repent. Very few Bishops will follow Arch. Burke, which is sad and a huge problem.
Yes, yes, yes. And Burke is one of the good guys.
No because the lay Faithful can’t take up the job of the Magisterium or of the Priests. They can’t lead per se. I read a book by an orthodox Jesuit who said that in the last days the Pope, much like Peter, would have a time of doubt much like St. Peter’s denial of Christ, but that after it he would regain his faith and return. I am not saying the Pope is not the Pope or that he is a heretic. I am saying that the Magisterium may be experiencing this crisis, this failing, and we as lay Faithful have to pray for them all so that they may regain their strength and to do what God wants them to do. We have to pray for them all. I think the lay Faithful can speak up when they see things in the ordinary Magisterium that are contrary to the Tradition or are bad for the Church but only in a way that keeps their sincere adherence to them and their office intact.
I didn’t mean that we’re supposed to lead the Church. But what of our friends and family who don’t even know when they do things they shouldn’t? I have a loved one who married a divorced man and she still goes up for Communion every Sunday. Do I have an obligation to gently explain why she shouldn’t be doing this?
 
It is shocking to discover how people really think that all the changes in the Mass during and after VII were begun or initiated by the Magisterium. This is not true. They were hatched in disobedience and a failure to obey the Church. Communion in the hand was just done, imposed on the faithful by radical/liberal priests. The magisterium told these priests to stop, but they would not. The practice continued and spread, till it was became the virtual “norm”. The Church then had to recognize and give legal legitimacy to the abuse. Then the process would continue in the same fashion with just about all the Protestant practices we now see as “normal” in the new mass", i.e., Mass said versus populum, all vernacular Masses, altar girls, the gutting of our Churches, etc.
The Magisterium had to “legalize” the innovation or the disobedience. The Magisterium made an abuse legitimate because it had no power to do other wise; priests and many bishops would not obey. So, people, don’t tell me, “the Magisterium wanted these things”, that is just plain
wrong
.
They were born in disobedience and Modernism, and then they were made “a legal option” because of the Magisterium’s inability to stop it.:cool:
These things were wrong yet they couldn’t have stopped it? 😦

I believe they could have stopped it.
 
just wanted to throw in an random thought here.
the church is a large family, right. you are part of a family.
why do you tolerate what one of your family members does behind your back? your kid does something that he knows is wrong, but you never find out about it. how do you stop him from doing something that you don’t know he’s doing?

i guess more communication is the key, but everybody is so busy, in the family, in the church. and too, we’re all supposed to be responsible adults. we should willingly and ably perform our duties without someone watching over us. but we don’t always do that.

at the priest and bishop level, some were poorly trained, some have an agenda, and some are very orthodox. and they all go about their duties with very little cross checking in the system.

so unless somebody confronts a rule breaker, knows that he is in fact breaking the rules, the abuses are “tolerated”

and it’s not just post-VII abuses. there have been various abuses and even heresies throughout the life of the church. the church is a very large body and it is in constant need of reform. saints throughout time have been called to reform the church. sometimes they reform at the parish level and sometimes they reform at the whole church level. and sadly, all that is gained with any reform is lost with subsequent generations if no one is there to keep the faithful in line.
I understand what you’re saying here with regard to heresy being nothing new, but when you look at this particular time period, before VII, and then after it, it just seems like the Church went from order to choas so quickly.
 
I understand what you’re saying here with regard to heresy being nothing new, but when you look at this particular time period, before VII, and then after it, it just seems like the Church went from order to choas so quickly.
it may not have been as quick as you think. the devil is always trying to bring the church down. he may have had his players in place long before vatican II, and they elevated to the rank where they could use/abuse VII to their purposes.
 
The answer is actually quite simple. The lunatics are running the asylums of too many of the Churches local. And there are not enough brave men willing to do anything about it. If in fact they’ve been catechized well enough to know what’s wrong.
 
I was in high school during V II. There was no way for anyone out in the pews to know what was going on. There was no sense of “this is where we are heading”. The change from the Mass I served as an altar boy to the NO came as a series of announcements from the pulpit. “In two weeks we will no longer chant the Gloria but will recite it in English”.

The second factor is that people really did submit to the magesterium. It was inconceivable to question much less challenge the magesterium back then.

At the end of my sophomore year in 1967, the brothers wore cassocks, had pectoral crosses, and rosaries around their waists. Three months later at the beginning of my junior year, they appeared in black slacks, a white shirt, and a black tie. We went from an organ at school Masses to four of my friends strummin’ away on their guitars singing “Sons of God”.

Quite simply, there was no way anyone could even know what an abuse was. Our world was turned on its ear. But we submitted to the magesterium. That’s the bottom line.
 
I was in high school during V II. There was no way for anyone out in the pews to know what was going on. There was no sense of “this is where we are heading”. The change from the Mass I served as an altar boy to the NO came as a series of announcements from the pulpit. “In two weeks we will no longer chant the Gloria but will recite it in English”.

The second factor is that people really did submit to the magesterium. It was inconceivable to question much less challenge the magesterium back then.

At the end of my sophomore year in 1967, the brothers wore cassocks, had pectoral crosses, and rosaries around their waists. Three months later at the beginning of my junior year, they appeared in black slacks, a white shirt, and a black tie. We went from an organ at school Masses to four of my friends strummin’ away on their guitars singing “Sons of God”.

Quite simply, there was no way anyone could even know what an abuse was. Our world was turned on its ear. But we submitted to the magesterium. That’s the bottom line.
BrotherRolph,

I certainly do not question your experience.

However, could you point to the Conciliar or Magisterial Documents which approved, encouraged or even condoned the ‘upheavals’ you experienced?

My concern is to whom you submitted–the Church or to the modernists.
 
The Sons of Light and the Sons of Darkness are not just random people out there without guidance or leadership.

The Sons of the Light have Our Lord Jesus Christ as Our King, visibly represented by His Church.

Now the Church is an institution that it is visible and organized.
It has its institutions, rules and goals.

But to think that the Sons of Darkness are not organized into visible (even though not so much seen) institutes is an error most believe. Just like the Church has Her agents (the hiearchy, institutes and the lay) the Devil has his.

In the Middle Ages you had many saints in just one many times. They promoted the Kingdom of God, they worked for the ultimate goals of giving glory to God and having all men saved.

But at the same time, the Devil is no fool. He knows that he needs people to fight for his goals.

In everytime the agents have been different.

Pagan priests who offered their satanical sacrifices and even the very priests of the Old Testament were traitors who sacrificed to the devil in the very temple. Thus you have the orgins of the very ones who orchestrated the horrible crime of deicide.

But it does not end there. The Middle Ages collapsing into the Rennesaince is no randam event. The Devil and his followers slowly seeped into those who should be Champions for Christ, the Clergy and Nobility.

The Nobility and Clergy started with a little more romantizicism in the arts, the nobility slowly stopped defending the Church and Her libery and became more like merchants and hedonists, and the Clergy started to abandon the Spiritual realm and dedicated itself more and more the the Temporal realm.

But this happens because the good turns bad.

So 500 years later, Evil greatly outnumbers the Good.

And the Church is infiltrated more then ever.

So when the opertunity comes, Evil makes a French Revolution in the Church.

But, since the Church is not like Evil, which depends entirely on natural and preternatural abilities, but rather supernatural and is immortal, She survives and will surely not only survive, but triumph over evil like She never shone before.

And there are those who are aware of this and fight for God and His Church, and patiently await God’s intervention in a hopeless world.

This is why Fatima is so important. Because in Fatima Our Lady tells us that terrible things will happen and that the Church will suffer but at the end "My Immaculate Heart will triumph.
 
No because the lay Faithful can’t take up the job of the Magisterium or of the Priests.
I think the lay Faithful can speak up when they see things in the ordinary Magisterium that are contrary to the Tradition or are bad for the Church but only in a way that keeps their sincere adherence to them and their office intact.
I find these two statements contradictory - we can’t take up the job of the Magisterium. Absolutely not, for one thing I’m not male, for another I’m not theologically trained and do not have a divinity degree, I don’t have the time to do the research, thinking, discussion and decision making and I don’t have the vocation or the authority. If I don’t have these things then I could never presume to disagree with the Magisterium. I would not disagree with our Pope, why would I disagree with his teaching body?

Am I different from other lay faithful somehow? Are there lay faithful who have all of those things? Why I should I trust the ‘lay faithful’ and not the hierarchy of the Church?

Certainly we should speak up when we see practice and teaching in our own parishes or in a priest or in each other that is not true to our faith, but teach the Magisterium - I’ll let someone else step up for that one.
God Bless
Karen
 
I see it as a two fold problem. many of the Priest and Bishops received incorrect or misleading instruction on VII. There for many changes were made in the name as mandated by the council that were not. the laity not knowing any difference at the time went along with them. We we asked the Priest in our local Parish we were told that these changes were not real change but corrections to help bring the Mass more to the People and bring us into more participation in the worship of God. And we just nodded our heads and said ok Father And allowed ti to continue.

Many of us had way to busy lives to take a everyday interaction in our parish and those that were in many case were full of the spirit of the 60’s and 70’s and the free love and there is no right and wrong just different ways of expression. And the Priest in many case there being only one or two at a parish gave in instead of fighting them and correcting them as they were not giving a lot of support form their bishops.

The families were becoming separated by the increase in divorce and children were not getting religious teaching at home like they did as mom or did either stopped going to church or started going to a protestant church.

Do you see that the snow ball that began to grow. one thing built upon another. But I do see signs that the snow ball reached the bottom of the hill and the sun is coming out and maybe we are starting to move back in the other directions again.
 
But what of our friends and family who don’t even know when they do things they shouldn’t? I have a loved one who married a divorced man and she still goes up for Communion every Sunday. Do I have an obligation to gently explain why she shouldn’t be doing this?
I think many of these people do know not to receive. Many chew gum or eat candy before Communion. But there seems to be this overcoming pressure for everyone who attends to receive so we follow the path of least resistance. It’s the “When in Rome, do as the Romans do” thinking.

And it happens in the EF as well as the OF.
Yes. I think post VII Catechists have spent too much time just trying to let students know that Jesus loves them, and not enough time teaching them what His Church asks of the faithful.
I think a lot of abuses had already crept into the liturgy even before VII. Maybe one of the reasons of holding Vatican II was to discuss how much to tolerate, in not so many words?

One tiny little bit of mention of vernacular in the documents and Latin was virtually completely wiped out in the liturgy. Extend that thought to some of the other topics covered in the VII documents and what you see today is the result.

But are these really abuses anymore? Habits are hard to break. Toleration almost always leads into acceptance which then mostly leads into “norms.”
 
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