Why would Mary remain a virgin...after marriage?

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They didn’t have sex because of a 40 year old age difference.
One of the reasons, I’m sure. If Mary was only fourteen, fifteen, and I’ve heard Joseph might have been ninety (I don’t know if I really believe this, but it’s possible) it would have been indecent. At least in this current time. And rightly so, of course. But the main reason, I believe, She remained a Virgin was because that was Her entire purpose. To remain perpetually sinless. Not that sex is a sin. It isn’t, especially when it’s shared between a married man and woman. But for Her, Her role in life was different and wasn’t meant to include the carnal things. Not that it was ever blatantly said that She did remain a Virgin. How are we really to know? I’ve just always thought and personally believed She did.
 
Actually, Acts 7:13 uses ἀδελφός (adelphos) to refer to Joseph’s 11 brothers, most of them were half-brothers,
Yes, as I said. Your earlier comment was that “Mark, Luke & John specifically use the Greek words for “relatives” & “kinsmen” rather than “adelphos,” when referring to non-uterine relationships.” Since the Bible also uses αδελφος for non-uterine relationships, the half-brothers mentioned above, αδελφος did not mean only a uterine relationship.
The συγγενής you are thinking about is in Mark 6:4, not Mark 6:3. Look again.
Look again at what? I commented that it is in Mark 6, not mentioning the verse, in regard to your claim that "The Gospel writers, as well as the apostle Paul, use different & specific Greek words for “relatives,” “cousins,” & “kinsmen,”. The word translated as “relatives” and “kinsmen” and apparently “cousins” there is just one term: συγγενης.
Mark 6:3 refers to Jesus’ ἀδελφός, while Mark 6:4 refers to Jesus’ συγγενής, not His ἀδελφός. So, in Mark 6:3, Jesus “is” making a distinction between His “brothers” ἀδελφός (who are in His “own household” in Mark 6:4), with His “relatives” συγγενής & His own “hometown” πατρίς.
Since 6:3 uses the broad term αδελφοι and the diaeresis in 6:4 has πατρις and συγγενης and οικια, it is singularly illogical to assume that αδελφος means one of those three and not the others.
The reason they agree with the RCC is because by the time “The Great Schism” occured in the 11th Century, the PVM was well-established for centuries. That was merely a dogma that they didn’t dispute with, not that there’s necessarily any Scriptural merit for that “belief.”
Reread the link. It is not a dogma for the Orthodox. This is why individual Church Fathers disagreeing with the belief in her virginity is not problematic within Orthodoxy.
The important thing is does Scripture support that Mary “remained” a virgin after she gave birth to Jesus?
It neither “supports” nor “contradicts” this: it simply fails to address the topic.
Mary lost her virginity to her husband after the birth of Jesus, as evidenced to the fact that Jesus’ “brothers” in Mark 6:3 & elsewhere were younger sons of Joseph & Mary,
Sorry, but Scripture never says that. There is no such “fact” in evidence, and your repeated attempt to impose an English-language conception of “uterine brother” onto αδελφος contradicts not only the Greek usage of the term but the biblical Greek usage of the term.

In linguistic terms, in terms of what Scripture alone says, it is possible for the αδελφοι mentioned to have been Mary’s other children. However, it is certainly not necessary for native-speaking Greeks to take it that way, as demonstrated by the fact that so very many of them have not.
 
I can’t even begin to imagine the inferiority complex any blood siblings of Jesus would surely have had growing up, due to their inability to live up to the example set by their older brother.

Why can’t you be like your brother Jesus?
He never gives us a moments trouble.
He always makes his bed.
He always picks up his toys.
He is never a minute late for curfew.
He always brings Dad’s camel home clean.
He never talks back.
He even cleans the ring out of the bathtub and hangs up his clothes.
👍
 
James the Just is the step brother of Jesus because his biological father is Joseph, Jesus’s adoptive father.
The foursome in Mark 6;3 James/Joses(Joseph?)/Judas and Simon(Symeon?) are Jesus’ cousins. Clopas the father of Simon/Symeon is the brother of Joseph(Jesus adoptive father). Both Clopas and Joseph married Marys.
Although this is the opinion (mostly) of Christians today, there are a few problems with this “theory.” For one, Eusebius states that Joseph was the father of James the Just, as he was Joseph the father of Jesus - through marriage to the Virgin Mary. Therefore, Joseph - not Clopas - is the father of James the Just. Therefore, “who” was James’ mother? Eusebius then goes on to distinguish between James the Just, the son of Joseph, with the “other” James the brother of John who was martyred (Acts 12:2). Obviously, there were two apostles named James - the other referred to in the Gospels as James the Less. However, this can’t be James the Just, because although he has a brother named Joseph, James the Less’ father is Alphaeus(Clopas) not Joseph. Therefore, James the Less is not the same as James the Just. Also, although people like Eusebius “believe” that Clopas & Joseph were brothers, there is no Scriptural evidence they were related, let alone brothers. So, the “Mary” was married to Clopas/Alphaeus is not related to Mary the mother of Jesus…at all. Therefore, James, Joses(Joseph), Simon, Judas(Jude) are not “cousins” of Jesus, but half-brothers, which is supported both by Scripture, as well as ECF’s & Church historians like Eusebius.
The two James may have caused the confusion
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Yes, they have, as well as the fact that there are actually three main James’ mentioned as apostles: James the Just - the Lord’s (half)-brother, James the Less the son of Alphaeus/Clopas, & James the Great the brother of John.
Incidentally, I believe all of the Reformer Fathers believed in the Ever Virgin Mary. (They resources should be around somewhere.) Hence it always puzzles me, if the Reformer Fathers believed it, the CC believes it, on what basis would someone reject this belief? Then the non-belief in the EVM would be a relatively new fad.
That’s because unlike many Catholics, Protestants don’t base their faith solely on the Reformers simply because they were Protestants too, but on Scripture (sola scriptura, not sola reforma). Plus, the Reformers didn’t “all” believe in the PVM or even “who” these “brothers” were. Although Luther & Zwingli believed in it, Calvin wasn’t so sure. So, since the Reformer’s writings aren’t anymore Inspired than the ECF’s, their “beliefs” too must be compared TO Scripture (Acts 17:11) Also, denial of the PVM isn’t a “relatively new fad.” Many ECF’s denied it as well.
 
Hey, thetazlord… I take it you need more time to answer these questions?

Originally Posted by stewstew03
I’m hoping that, at some point, thetazlord will answer the questions I posted here (and repeated below for the sake of convenience).

Is Jesus the High Priest described in the NT? (see Hebrews)
Is Jesus the New Temple? (see Gospel of John)
Do you read the OT in light of Jesus and the NT?
Do you understand Ezekiel to be describing a literal third temple that will be built in Jerusalem?
Sorry, must have missed it. You can imagine that for every reply I make at least 4 or 5 different people respond to it. So, I occasionally miss a post. Thanks for the reminder! 👍

Yes to all 4 questions. Jesus is our High Priest, which a reference to the high priest who was the only person who could enter the Holy of Holies to make atonement & sacrifices before God in the Tabernacle/Temple. That’s why when we ask for forgiveness of our sins, that we go through our only High Priest, Advocate, Intercessor, & Mediator between God & man, the (God)-Man Christ Jesus (Philippians). Jesus was speaking figuratively that “He” was the Temple that He would allow to be torn down (crucified) & build back up again in 3 days (rise from the dead). There are literally HUNDREDS of prophecies about Jesus in the OT - over 100 fulfilled just in His birth. It’s clear that the Temple that Ezekiel talks refers to a third Temple during the 1,000 years reign of Christ on earth in Revelation Ch.20, because based on Ezekiel’s description of the events surrounding that Temple, that the other two Temples didn’t “qualify” as this particular, and yet-future, Temple. However, none of this has anything to do with Mary remaining a virgin after the birth of Jesus. So, since I’ve addressed your questions, Scripturally, could we get back on the subject of the OP? 🙂
 
Are you aware that there are at least 4 instances in the Gospels that the Greek word adelphou is used for half brother? No I am not referring to James the Just which you already know is Jesus half-brother.

Reputable biblical scholars already recognized that there are alternative meanings and usage to the word adelphou and have stopped beating the dead horse. I highly recommend that you do so too to conserve your energies on more worthy issues.
Yes, I’m aware of this, which actually supports that “half-brother” is a legitimately possible meaning to refer to Jesus’ “adelphos.” I’m glad to hear that you are at least acknowledging now that Jesus’ brothers could be His half-brothers! 👍 However, other “reputable Biblical scholars” also recognize the alternative meanings of “adelphos,” but they don’t eliminate half-brother because of a preconceived religious belief, but rather they exegetically examine the NT, based on the original Greek, to find out “who” these brothers of Jesus actually are, as well as whether or not Mary “remained” a perpetual virgin after the birth of Jesus. And based on objective exegesis, these “reputable Biblical scholars” have concluded - Scripturally - that the “brothers” of Jesus are His younger half-brothers, which even many ECF’s later concluded for the same reason, Scripturally.
 
In James 2:19 he basically says the demons believe in God, so faith without works is not enough
James 2:19 needs to be taken into context with James 2:18 that states that works is the EVIDENCE that their “faith” is not “dead.”

“You show me your faith without your works, I’ll show you my faith BY my works.”

IOW, James isn’t saying faith “with” works leads to salvation, but rather works is EVIDENCE that one’s faith is genuine & not “dead.” This is why he says in the very next verse in v.19 that although the demons “believe” (or have “faith”) in God, just because they “believe” in God, their (evil) works “demonstrate” that their “faith” is “dead” BY their works (v.18). Likewise, someone who calls themself a “Christian” but their “works” demonstrate that they aren’t actually following Christ, their “faith” is dead. That’s the point of what James is saying in James 2. It doesn’t have anything to do with works “working” with faith to salvation.

Now, can we get off of James 2 & get back to the OP?
 

Just a sec and then back to the OP. 😉

James 2
21 Was not Abraham our father justified by works, when he offered his son Isaac upon the altar? 22 You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by works, (RSVCE)

Could be the topic of a new thread.
Actually the Greek word that you use for “completed” (dikaioō) is better translated “justified.” James isn’t referring to the kind of justification (make acceptable) that Paul is referring to in Romans 5:1 that makes peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, but rather Abraham’s “works” of offering his son Isaac as a sacrifice were “justified” - or evidenced - to others that His faith was genuine & not “dead.” Abraham’s “works” of offering up his son had nothing to do with his salvation, but rather his works was EVIDENCE that his faith was genuine, & not “dead” (James 2:18):

“But someone may well say, 'You have faith and I have works; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith BY my works.”

James 2:18 is the key to understanding the point of James’ passage in James 2.

Now, can we get back to the OP, now? 🙂
 
Yes, as I said. Your earlier comment was that “Mark, Luke & John specifically use the Greek words for “relatives” & “kinsmen” rather than “adelphos,” when referring to non-uterine relationships.” Since the Bible also uses αδελφος for non-uterine relationships, the half-brothers mentioned above, αδελφος did not mean only a uterine relationship.
That wasn’t my point. My point was that if the Gospel writers wanted refer to Jesus’ “brothers” as something other than uterine siblings, they could have used other Greek words that they themselves use in the Gospels for “relatives” & “kinsmen” (syggenes), “cousins” (anepsios or syggenis - with an “i”), such as Mark, Luke, John, & later Paul uses these available Greek words.
Look again at what? I commented that it is in Mark 6, not mentioning the verse, in regard to your claim that "The Gospel writers, as well as the apostle Paul, use different & specific Greek words for “relatives,” “cousins,” & “kinsmen,”. The word translated as “relatives” and “kinsmen” and apparently “cousins” there is just one term: συγγενης.
Yeah, you commented that “adelphos” is used in Mark 6, but what I getting across was that it’s used in verse 3, while “syggenes” is used in verse 4 to refer to Jesus’ “relatives” not His “brothers.” Keep in mind that in both verses that Mark is quoting people - an unbelieving Jew in v.3 & Jesus in v.4. So, if Mark (quoting Jesus) in v.3 was simply referring to Jesus’ “relatives” like he is in v.4, he could have simply used “syggenes,” like he did in v.4, instead of “adelphos.” Likewise, if Jesus’ “brothers” were actually his “relatives,” Mark could have simply used “adelphos” in v.4, like he did in v.3. Rather, Mark used a different & separate Greek word in v.3 than he did in v.4, which would have been unnecessary if he was talking about the same kind of “relatives” of Jesus in the two verses.
Since 6:3 uses the broad term αδελφοι and the diaeresis in 6:4 has πατρις and συγγενης and οικια, it is singularly illogical to assume that αδελφος means one of those three and not the others.
Refer to my above comments. Although “adelphos” can refer to broader groups of non-uterine individuals, in the context of Mark 6:3, he’s more specifically referring to the members of Jesus’ “household” along with Jesus’ step-father & mother. Exegetically, Mark 6:3 is addressing a family unit (Jesus’ step-father, His mother, His half-brothers, & His half-sisters), not Jesus extended family and/or kinsmen.
Reread the link. It is not a dogma for the Orthodox. This is why individual Church Fathers disagreeing with the belief in her virginity is not problematic within Orthodoxy.
And it’s because of the ECF’s disagreeing is why Christendom doesn’t “universally” agree that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Jesus, because Scripture neither explicitly states that, nor supports it. All Scripture states is that the mother of the Messiah (which turned out to be Mary) was to be a virgin during her pregnancy & at His birth, which is what both Isaiah 7:14 & Matthew 1:25 states. Nothing in either passage says anything, nor implies, that Mary “remained” a virgin after His birth. This has to be “read into” Scripture. However, Scripture “does” support that after the birth of Jesus, Mary did not retain her virginity & that Mary & Joseph consummated their marriage & had children together like a normal Jewish couple who would have obeyed the Law of Moses to “be fruitful & multiply.” In the absence of any command from God or an angel to “refrain” from consummating their marriage & having children together, there is no Scriptural reason to believe otherwise.
It neither “supports” nor “contradicts” this: it simply fails to address the topic.
Actually, Scripture doesn’t support it (that Mary remained a virgin after Jesus’ birth). But you only find this out when you examine ALL of the related passages in Scripture, not just “some” of them.
Sorry, but Scripture never says that. There is no such “fact” in evidence, and your repeated attempt to impose an English-language conception of “uterine brother” onto αδελφος contradicts not only the Greek usage of the term but the biblical Greek usage of the term.
Not true. James & John were uterine “brothers” & the exact same Greek term “adelphos” is used to describe their relationship. Same with Peter being the “adelphos” of Andrew, & Lazarus being the “adelphos” of Martha & Mary. I understand that “adelphos” doesn’t always mean uterine brother. I’m not making the assumption it does. That’s why you have to examine “all” the related verses in Scripture to find out “who” these “brothers” are, rather than simply “dismiss” that the “adelphos” of Jesus does not refer to uterine brothers, simply because one’s preconceived religious view says otherwise. When you begin with the Word of God, rather than beginning with the religious view, you’ll discover that Scripture actually supports that they are Jesus’ half-brothers, and not any other relationship.
In linguistic terms, in terms of what Scripture alone says, it is possible for the αδελφοι mentioned to have been Mary’s other children. However, it is certainly not necessary for native-speaking Greeks to take it that way, as demonstrated by the fact that so very many of them have not.
Agreed, so that’s why you have to examine every relevant passage of Scripture that deals with Jesus’ “brothers” to discover that they are Jesus’ half-brothers, which unfortunately, space here doesn’t allow.
 
One of the reasons, I’m sure. If Mary was only fourteen, fifteen, and I’ve heard Joseph might have been ninety (I don’t know if I really believe this, but it’s possible) it would have been indecent. At least in this current time. And rightly so, of course. But the main reason, I believe, She remained a Virgin was because that was Her entire purpose. To remain perpetually sinless. Not that sex is a sin. It isn’t, especially when it’s shared between a married man and woman. But for Her, Her role in life was different and wasn’t meant to include the carnal things. Not that it was ever blatantly said that She did remain a Virgin. How are we really to know? I’ve just always thought and personally believed She did.
It is IMPOSSIBLE for Joseph to have sexual relations with Mary. She is the Ark of the New Covenant. She has been made holy to give birth to the Son of God. For the Israelites, things made holy (set aside) for God, one can not defile. The OT is littered with examples of dead bodies for those who touched holy things without proper purification or permission.

Lev 10:1 - 2 sons of Aaron dies for offering unholy fire to the Lord
2 Sam 6:7 Uzzah died for touching the Ark
Num 4:15,20 sons of Ko’hath were warned not to touch/look at the holy things lest they die
Num 3:38 anyone else who came near the tabernacle was to be put to death
1 Sam 6:19 70 men died for looking into the Ark.

Abstention from sex and washing of garments as preparation prior to contact with God is also commanded Ex 19:10-15. Moses is said to have abstained completely due to his constant face-to-face meetup with God. Now with the Lord under his roof, I doubt Joseph will even think of it. One wrong thought and he might get it from HIS Father or the HS. Poof! and he is gone (devoured by fire, earth swallowed him up etc). Just imagine the stress this poor man has to endure… I always wondered how do one behaved in the presence of the God-child. How do you disciplined Him? Must be the toughest job on earth.
 
Actually the Greek word that you use for “completed” (dikaioō) is better translated “justified.” James isn’t referring to the kind of justification (make acceptable) that Paul is referring to in Romans 5:1 that makes peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, but rather Abraham’s “works” of offering his son Isaac as a sacrifice were “justified” - or evidenced - to others that His faith was genuine & not “dead.” Abraham’s “works” of offering up his son had nothing to do with his salvation, but rather his works was EVIDENCE that his faith was genuine, & not “dead” (James 2:18):

“But someone may well say, 'You have faith and I have works; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith BY my works.”

James 2:18 is the key to understanding the point of James’ passage in James 2.

Now, can we get back to the OP, now? 🙂
Ok just a sec… biblehub interlinear translates to “was perfected”, not justified.

biblehub.com/interlinear/james/2-22.htm

Sounds like “Completed” to me. Even KVJ says:

22 Seest thou how faith wrought with his works, and by works was faith made perfect

Curious, what bible translation are you using?
 

It’s clear that the Temple that Ezekiel talks refers to a third Temple during the 1,000 years reign of Christ on earth in Revelation Ch.20, because based on Ezekiel’s description of the events surrounding that Temple, that the other two Temples didn’t “qualify” as this particular, and yet-future, Temple.
Wait a second… I thought you said you were a follower of Christ? How can you believe that Jesus Christ serves as the propitiation for our sins, and yet hold on to the idea that animal sacrifices will atone for our sins during the Millennium? :eek:

Do you see how you’ve tied yourself in knots here? In order to reject the allusion to Jesus in Ezekiel, you need to reject Christ’s sacrifice. I hope that you prayerfully reconsider your interpretation here. Perhaps start by reading Paul’s letter to the Hebrews.
However, none of this has anything to do with Mary remaining a virgin after the birth of Jesus. So, since I’ve addressed your questions, Scripturally, could we get back on the subject of the OP? 🙂
It has everything to do with Mary once you understand that Ezekiel’s prophecy refers to the Eternal Temple – Christ’s physical body, and his mystical body (the Church). And as I said earlier, Mary is the Gate through which Jesus entered the world. What does Ezekiel say about the Gate?

“Then the man brought me back to the outer gate of the sanctuary, the one facing east, and it was shut. The LORD said to me, “This gate is to remain shut. It must not be opened; no one may enter through it. It is to remain shut because the LORD, the God of Israel, has entered through it.”

“Whoever has ears to hear, let them hear.”
 
Although this is the opinion (mostly) of Christians today, there are a few problems with this “theory.” For one, Eusebius states that Joseph was the father of James the Just, as he was Joseph the father of Jesus - through marriage to the Virgin Mary. Therefore, Joseph - not Clopas - is the father of James the Just.
I am not disputing this. I didn’t say Clopas is the father of James the Just. I quoted Eusibius stating that James the Just shared the same father with Jesus.
Therefore, “who” was James’ mother? Eusebius then goes on to distinguish between James the Just, the son of Joseph, with the “other” James the brother of John who was martyred (Acts 12:2). Obviously, there were two apostles named James - the other referred to in the Gospels as James the Less. However, this can’t be James the Just, because although he has a brother named Joseph, James the Less’ father is Alphaeus(Clopas) not Joseph. Therefore, James the Less is not the same as James the Just.
Mother of James the Younger/Less is Mary of Clopas. It is not conclusive that Alphaeus is Clopas. Hence, it is not conclusive James of Alphaeus is the same James the Less of Clopas.

Agreed James the Less is not James the Just. James the Less is of the foursome of James/Joseph/Simon/Judas of Mat 13:55 which Eusebius identifies Clopas to be the brother of Joseph(Jesus). Hence Jesus and the foursome are cousins.
Also, although people like Eusebius “believe” that Clopas & Joseph were brothers, there is no Scriptural evidence they were related, let alone brothers. So, the “Mary” was married to Clopas/Alphaeus is not related to Mary the mother of Jesus…at all. Therefore, James, Joses(Joseph), Simon, Judas(Jude) are not “cousins” of Jesus, but half-brothers, which is supported both by Scripture, as well as ECF’s & Church historians like Eusebius.
Obviously we are treading on non-Biblical evidence. We use the best information available. Unless Eusebius has been charged with providing false information, there is no reason to discount his writings on this matter. Publishing bad information would have resulted in rebuttals and denials from his peers of which I haven’t come across yet. How did you arrive at the conclusion that James/Joses/Simon/Judas are half brothers of Jesus? Please provide support. These foursome are not the sons of Joseph(Jesus). I think you got confused.
Yes, they have, as well as the fact that there are actually three main James’ mentioned as apostles: James the Just - the Lord’s (half)-brother, James the Less the son of Alphaeus/Clopas, & James the Great the brother of John.
James the Just is not one of the 12 apostles. James the Greater (Zebedee) is one of the 12. James of Alphaeus is one of the 12 but it is not conclusive that he is James the Less of the foursome. If Alphaeus is Clopas, then James of Alphaeus would be James the Less. However I still fail to see how James the Less would be the half brother of Jesus since Eusebius identifies Clopas as brother of Joseph(Jesus). Cousins at best.
That’s because unlike many Catholics, Protestants don’t base their faith solely on the Reformers simply because they were Protestants too, but on Scripture (sola scriptura, not sola reforma). Plus, the Reformers didn’t “all” believe in the PVM or even “who” these “brothers” were. Although Luther & Zwingli believed in it, Calvin wasn’t so sure. So, since the Reformer’s writings aren’t anymore Inspired than the ECF’s, their “beliefs” too must be compared TO Scripture (Acts 17:11) Also, denial of the PVM isn’t a “relatively new fad.” Many ECF’s denied it as well.
So at best Protestants can only argue that EVM is not in the Bible and not read beyond that. That is a Catholic belief from Tradition, and you of course know that the Bible does provide for Traditions for us Catholics.

Please provide your sources that “Many ECF’s denied it as well”. Which ECFs denied it? Anyway, you have denied any authority that ECFs had so you shouldn’t rely on them to bolster your case.

Bottom line, based upon Biblical readings , Protestants have no grounds to argue either for or against EVM. To argue against EVM is to contradict your own stance of Biblical support. Bottom line, Catholics do have Biblical support from Traditions for EVM.
 
Yes, I’m aware of this, which actually supports that “half-brother” is a legitimately possible meaning to refer to Jesus’ “adelphos.” I’m glad to hear that you are at least acknowledging now that Jesus’ brothers could be His half-brothers! 👍 However, other “reputable Biblical scholars” also recognize the alternative meanings of “adelphos,” but they don’t eliminate half-brother because of a preconceived religious belief, but rather they exegetically examine the NT, based on the original Greek, to find out “who” these brothers of Jesus actually are, as well as whether or not Mary “remained” a perpetual virgin after the birth of Jesus. And based on objective exegesis, these “reputable Biblical scholars” have concluded - Scripturally - that the “brothers” of Jesus are His younger half-brothers, which even many ECF’s later concluded for the same reason, Scripturally.
Catholic’s East
Catholic’s West
Orthodox’s…all of them
The Reformers…all of them
The Early Church Fathers (link here)

… all held to Mary having no other children besides Jesus and being forever a virgin.

Did they understand this through scripture…implicitly for sure.

Did they understand this through Tradition…for sure.

Thetazlord - Who are the many ECF’s who believed Mary had children? Where are you getting your theology? Is it you reading the bible alone, from your pastor or from a website, or somewhere else?
 
A couple of years ago I used to jump all over these posts that denigrate the Blessed Mother and her place in God’s plan. So much so, that off line, it affected me to the point that I remained agitated, had uncharitable thoughts, and sometimes somewhat ill.

So now when I see these types of posts I usually read through them to see what the Protestant responses are. I am not trying to cause offense but in nearly every case the Protestant responses are made from a perspective of someone who has totally missed the whole point of the Blessed Mother as being Immaculately Conceived, Ever Virgin, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven, Most Holy, Ark of the New Covenant, The New Eve, or Full of Grace.

In nearly every case the Protestant interprets the Bible with their flawed personal interpretations believing that the Bible is the sole rule of faith and somehow is an instruction manual on how to be a Christian. Never mind that the Bible was never readily available or distributed until 1400 plus years after the death of Christ. Never mind that the population in general was illiterate and that only the Church and the rich educated owned a Bible. That the world relied on the Catholic Church to preach the Gospel to them (Sacred Tradition) and that Church, the Catholic Church, taught the things that in nearly every case the Protestants reject about the Blessed Mother.

John 16:13 When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth; for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.

In nearly every case the Protestant throws any notion that God, after His Death on the Cross and Resurrection, and in His wisdom spent time among us lowly sinners, creating His Church and used that time to instruct and guide His church. Do Protestants really believe that Christ did not mention how we were to see and treat the Blessed mother? Especially after His last words to us was recorded in the Gospel of John was of His Mother, John 19:26-27 - 26 When Jesus saw his mother, and the disciple whom he loved standing near, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” 27 Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.

Why do so many Protestants miss the point that a very great number of things, which Christ did and said, have not been recorded. That it would require many, many books, to contain all the various actions and sayings of our divine Lord. John 21:25 But there are also many other things which Jesus did; were every one of them to be written, I suppose that the world itself could not contain the books that would be written. Again why do so many Protestants believe that Christ could not have instructed His Church after His Resurrection on the Blessed Mother?

It seems that in nearly every case that the things the Protestants reject about the Blessed Mother, the Protestant believes they know God’s mind and will, hey place limits on God and box Him in. The flaw is that whatever they believe they understand is of God’s will is not what is of God, This borders on hubris - a great or foolish amount of pride or confidence.

Ok I am done with my rant.
 
That wasn’t my point. My point was that if the Gospel writers wanted refer to Jesus’ “brothers” as something other than uterine siblings, they could have used other Greek words that they themselves use in the Gospels for “relatives” & “kinsmen” (syggenes), “cousins” (anepsios or syggenis - with an “i”), such as Mark, Luke, John, & later Paul uses these available Greek words.
 
Where were Mary’s sons during the crucifixion? I can’t imagine Jewish children in those days leaving their mother to grieve alone at the foot of the cross. Even if she had only daughters, surely one of them would have been with her.

Why was she even there at the foot of the cross if she had another son’s home to go to? I can’t see how Jesus would have not seen to it that she was safe with one of His brothers.

Why did Jesus say to John, “Behold your Mother.” and to Mary, “Behold your son.” if Mary had other children?

It doesn’t make sense that she would have been placed in the care of John if she had other sons. Surely He would have said to John, “Take her to my brothers.”
 
This is one of these debates that have reasonable arguments on both sides depending on how you interpret the Bible.

I accept the teachings of the Catholic Church. The Church has taught from the beginning that Jesus was Mary’s only child. It makes sense to me that Mary and Joseph would have had their hands full enough caring for “The Son of God”.

Mary belonged to God. Mary belonged to Jesus. Joseph also belonged to God and belonged to Jesus I believe that they could have managed to give everything they had to this wonderful gift that was theirs to share. I believe that they dedicated every minute, every second, every thought and all their love to the care of the Christ Child.

But, we could argue about this forever and never change anyone’s mind. If you are not a Catholic, you probably are not going to accept this teaching. If you are a Catholic, you more than likely will.

The underlying argument really is: Does the Church have the Authority to teach this? That really is the question that is at the heart of this discussion. I believe this answer to that is yes, She most definitely has this authority. Obviously if one is not a Catholic, they would state, no, She does not have the authority.
 
A couple of years ago I used to jump all over these posts that denigrate the Blessed Mother and her place in God’s plan. So much so, that off line, it affected me to the point that I remained agitated, had uncharitable thoughts, and sometimes somewhat ill.
wmscott, what softened your heart and opened your mind?
So now when I see these types of posts I usually read through them to see what the Protestant responses are. I am not trying to cause offense but in nearly every case the Protestant responses are made from a perspective of someone who has totally missed the whole point of the Blessed Mother as being Immaculately Conceived, Ever Virgin, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven, Most Holy, Ark of the New Covenant, The New Eve, or Full of Grace.
this happens when one has a faith separated from that taught by the apostles and their descendants.
in nearly every case the Protestant interprets the Bible with their flawed personal interpretations believing that the Bible is the sole rule of faith and somehow is an instruction manual on how to be a Christian. Never mind that the Bible was never readily available or distributed until 1400 plus years after the death of Christ. Never mind that the population in general was illiterate and that only the Church and the rich educated owned a Bible.
they fail to understand that the bible is a Catholic book, written by, for and about the Catholic Church…the text guarded by the Church…copied by the Church, particularly by Monks…translated by the Church. The Church takes The Book pretty seriously, and objects when it is mistranslated, misinterpreted and when books (7) are removed from it.
 
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